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Q: This is for mostly for the guys but ladies please answer too!

I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday. Any suggestions? What would you guys like to get as a present? Thanks in advance. =]

yes it depends on the guy and a lot of them like video games but does he like video games is the question if he likes to build model cars get him one or y dont u just get movie tickets to go to a movie or something like that together

Q: I just moved in to a house in Lake Park, NC. I have lived here for a week and I like this girl that lives across the street. I don't have the nerve to ask her out. Can someone tell me a good way to ask her out.

Signed,

newkid

fist you should start off getting to know her better and let her get to know you better and try to make her life and if shes ever in an situation show her you care about her. make her feel like you care and let her make you think she likes you and then make a move.

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Q: I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her?

you can have tons of best friends i did and guess what we all hung out together. so you can get alot of friends together and hang out and nobodies heart is broken and you gained new friends and ending up keeping a fantastic first best friend.

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Q: I have this friend he's a guy hes one of my best friends and everyone time he goes out with another girl i sorta get jelous i dont know why though...i just cant really figure out if i like him more then a friend

Well yes you could posobly have feelings for this guy or just simply hate the fact that there is another girl taking part in his life other than you. but you should know if you like him ask yourself does he make me feel good laugh with him and think about him. and if its those things you probably like him cause i think every girl likes a guy that makes them feel good inside and makes them laugh.

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Q: i have a friend who has scary dreams..really scary dreams and he told me about one that one of his close family member got cut and the next day found a cut on her arm.hes really getting scared and doesnt want to tell anyone else about this ive told him to tell a parent but hes only told me.and i dont kno how to help him ive told him all i kno about telling somone who can help but he doesnt want to.
any ideas

tell him its for his and his familys safety and say hey i really care about you and i dont want this to take over a part of your life you dont deserve this you really need to get help and im saying this because i care.

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Q: I used to be best friends with this girl.Then i started to like her and all was going well in our relationship.Then stuff happended and we had a big fight.Its been months since then i just want to be friends with her. I stopped liking her. a week or two ago i said sorry and we both "forgave" each other and all seemed very well. days later, i talked to her and she started shutting me down.
What more can I do to be friends with this person again?Do I just leave her alone?

Start talkin to her and if she never answers back like she cares leave her alone and give her time to think abot what a wonderful friend she lost she should come back responding

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Q: my best friend gets rly jealous when guys think im hott. sometimes, she even tries to stop me from evr talking to them cuz shes jealous that they dont think shes hott, and she gets mad at me. One time online we were talkin to this guy we saw that day, and he thought i was hott, and my friend got mad and was like wouldnt let me see what she was sayin to him, and then she got kinda mad when he asked for my sn. wat should i do? i hate when shes mad at me, its really annoying.

Just tell her it's not your fault they like you and let her know say hey if you cant cool it a bit then we just shouldnt be friends oh and dont take advice from that one girl that said to drop all your ugly friends thats wrong not all ungly people are that way.

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Q: I have a friend she does nothing but drag me down and talk about my other friends. How do I tell her I don't won't to be her friend anymore?

Just tell her the situation andsay ya know your not being a very good friend right now so i think we should go our seprate ways. Really exspress your feelings and let her know whats going on and that you dont like it she sounds like a brat to me anyway

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Q: Can feeding ur cat grass help it? i heard it can.. what can it do to it?

A animal eats grass when its feeling sick my dog does it all the time its no big.

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Q: I want to start babysitting again so I'm making a flyer. I only babysit for kids who are potty trained. How do I put that on a flyer and still sound professional?

Just put please potty trained kids only.

Q: I am a 17 year old female & I work at a candy store. I really like working there, the only trouble is they let us eat whatever we want. I am not big, but I do wind up eating TONS of candy & I want to stop! I try to tell my self I can't (or just to have a little bit) but when I see everyone else I work with eating too, I cave in and wind up over eating most of the time. How can I stop eating so much? How do I get more will power and not eat the candy (or at least cut down on the amount I eat)? any advice (besides quitting my job) would be great! Thank you!

You know i heard chewing gum helps people quit smoking. And i'm sure that it will work considering you'll all day have something sweet in your mouth all day.

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Q: This has been confusing me for awhile. People tell me I'm pretty all the time. And when I go to camp or leave my town, the guys all want me. But when I'm home, it seems like they want nothing to do with me. Guys also have said I'm hot and whatever, but why do they not make a move? I'm so confused and so sick of people saying, your pretty and me not getting any guys. Why do you think this is?

Ya know all guys dont base their loved ones on looks so try getting them to know you better. they might think your hot but think your personality sucks. just try getting to know the guys better

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Q: i like this guy a lot, problem is i almost never see him and now that he doesn't have a girlfriend i feel like its my chance to tell him i like him. i don't know how to tell him or what to do! we are good friends but through family so i don't have his phone #, he has aim but never goes on, and the next time i'll see him is when school starts. i'm 15 and he's 16 if that helps anyone! Thanks!

It sounds to me like you dont know him very well that your basing him on his looks and thats not how you do things. Cause some good lookin guys can be total jerks and i dont want you to get in a relationship that will end soon because you didnt know him very well in the first place. So first of all start getting to know him better and then get back to me.

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Q: i really need help, the other day i was really drunk and kissed another guy, and i have a bf..its completley killing me and i feel horrible..should i tell my bf, what should i do? has anyone been in this position before..thanks.

Yes you should probably should tell him. Tell him that you didnt puposly do it you were just drunk and you would never hurt him. If he really cares for you he'll understand.

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Q: do guys only find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive? is just a little bit of fat okay do you think? what else do they find attractive personality and looks?

If a guy just wanted a girl because their skinny then its not worth it. Believe it or not their is guys that look for good personalities and dont worrie about looks if all they care about is looks then forget them. Oh and a little bit of fat doesn't matter. I'm sure your fine the way you are.

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Q: So i really liek this kid thats 2 years older than me..and i think he might have an interest in me..but we used to be able to talk for hours and now..when he signs on i get a weird feeling in my stomach..and i can never get him off my mind. and now i dont know how to IM him. I really like him..and his one close friend said he did. But, i dont know if i should get more info out of his friend or not. Please help!

I wouldn't trust what other people say. You should ask him yourself. You could email him asking him if he likes you. Or just wait for him to make a move and just to let you know age doesn't matter. Go with who you love/like. It doesn't matter what other people say just as long as he makes you laugh and feel good inside.

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Q: Hi! My friend is kind of two faced. One second she is my friend and the next she is talking behind my back. I dont get it. We have been friends for 3 years. What do I do?

Talk to this person and tell him/her how you feel. Or just simply get a new friend. i completly understand where your coming from i have a friend named erin and me and her were good friends with this girl named bailey and she was the excact same way and we made new friends and we still talk to her but were not friends like we used to be. and try to keep your secrets and such on the down low from her.

Q: Can relationships be repaired after he cheats to be better than before?

i think once a cheater always a cheater but you do what you feal is right you might be able to fix it but be very careful on what he/she does next time.

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Q: i was thinking abouts switching from cingular to verizon. my bf & some of my friends have verizon, so overall i thought it would be a good idea so we can be "in" & have free mins including the regular plan & texting. my cingular plan is 2 years, so it's not over until december. the thing is, my cingular bill has been going up & i really think we should switch to verizon so that it wont be as much. is there anyway to break that contract. if so, what are the outcomes & how long does that take?? if we do break it, can i get a verizon phone from the store as soon as i do that?? i want it so that i always have a phone & there isn't a time where i don't have one.

thanks!!

well all i know is that you can breake the contract but askk cingular about it you should be able to but you will have to pay a fee and when it is broke you can walk into verizon and buy a phone and hook it up

Q: After I charge my camera (on a dock that plugs into computer) it only takes a few pictures then goes dead. Could I buy a different dock/ do they even sell different kinds of docks?

ok now things do lose thier charge like that because you probably in the past didnt wait for it to go comepletely dead and if you charge something that is not comepletely dead it will lose its charge and die faster so dont spend your money on a new dock either try to find a new battery to go in it or buy a whole new camera

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