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leaving her
I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her?
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you can have tons of best friends i did and guess what we all hung out together. so you can get alot of friends together and hang out and nobodies heart is broken and you gained new friends and ending up keeping a fantastic first best friend.
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You can have as many BFs as you want. You can still make new friends. Go out with them somtimes go out as a group. You still can be friends with her and other people. You all can be friends. Don't leave a best friend that you've been with for years just because you want to have some more best friends. You can have as many BFs as you want. - gilmorecrazy
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are you crazy!!!!! havent you heard you can have more than one best friend if you know it will be the end of the world for her than yeah i would still be bff's
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I don't quite understand why you would want to stop being her best friends. When I was in highschool I had 3 best friends! You can remain friends with her and still meet new friends as well. Besides, bringing a few new people into your little group could help to open her world a little too. So keep your friend and make new ones. The more the merrier!
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OMG i was in the same situation as you!
Sit her down and tell her this:
Listen, Through the past couple of years i have valued our friendship so much and i dont know what i would have done without you there for me. The thing is i feel as though i need to open new doors and meet new people now that we're going into high school. i'm not saying we cant be friends i just want to keep my options open and kind of start over.
Then give her a big hug. I think she will understand
xoxo kiran oxox
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If you really want to make this decision,
confront her. Talk to her about your feelings.
Don't keep it all bottled up inside, because if you keep it in, it can cause anger and frustration.
And also, before confronting her, think about why you don't want to be as close.
Was it because you got into a silly fight?
Or maybe you just wanted to have some space?
Remember, dont make silly mistakes in life,
because most of them can't be forgiven.
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moving from middleschool to highschool is tough! the easiest way to do it is with good friends by your side. unless you have a good reason to end your "best" friendship..i dont see the point. you can always have more than one best friend..
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I think you should stay best frineds with her. You can have more then one best frined. if you know she doesnt have alot of close friends and it would be the end of the world for her, why would u want to do tht to her. stay frined wit her..and still meet knew people she will understand
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Honestly i think you should stay best friends with her...and i think you can have more than one best friend...trust me stay her best friend you may regret it later if you dont.
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well its hard naturally to move one from middle school to high school. i think you should stay in contact with her even... why are you not wanting to be her friend anymore? friends are there for each other through thick and thin no matter what. yes you will get new friends but that doens't you have to get rid of the old ones.
-Bess
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well you can go into highskool and be best friends with her still and make another bestfriend.cause u can have more than best friend u know. and if you have been best friends with this girl since 4th grade you have made many memories with her and if you give her up as a best friend you wont have anyone to remember those times with.
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