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i want to loose weight what is the best diet? (link)
The best thing for you to do is balance the type of foods you eat and getting plenty of excersie but never just stop eatting period amen because thats just not the good thing to do for dieting.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


Im 16/F and ive never been kissed. I'm not a loser..i have a lot of guy and girl friends but i just have never made out with anyone. Is this bad? (link)
Its not a bad thing that you have never made out before. Maybe you are the type that just likes to take things slow and maybe if you rele want to makeout with someone you need to pick up the pase a little bit.

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My mom found out how to read my AIM conversations. I feel this is a violation of my privacy but she doesn't care. How can she do this and how can I stop her? (link)
The way you can stop her from reading them is by sitting her down and telling her that you dont feel comfortable with her reading ur IM's tell her that u feel violated and give an example of you doing sumthing like that to her to show her how you feel even more.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


Theres this kid named matt that I thougth I liked and he likes me A LOT! I led him on and now i feel horriable about it and I like this other kid named Justin SOOOOOO much more and Justin likes me too and now im stuck and i dont know how to get out of this. i know its not very nice and i really dont like myself for doing it but ugh i can't help who i like and dont like. :[ (link)
i understand you completely. sometimes people change there minds. just like you did in this situation. Just tell matt ur true feelings for him that you would rather just be friends. it will all work out in the end. i promise.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


Ok so if my brother is always being stupid like always in my stuff he wont leave me alone he's younger than me and how or what do i do too get him to stop please help me he's driving me crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
Well my brother is addicted to video games. and if ur brother is like that u can just set up a video game for him and he will be occupied for hours.

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I have been best freinds with this girl since 4th grade and now that I am going into high school I don't want to be best freinds with her. I want a new best freind and meet new people. I still want to be freinds with her, just not as close. She doesn't have many close friends and me leaving her would be the end of the world for her. Is this mean of me? Should I stay BFs with her? (link)
well you can go into highskool and be best friends with her still and make another bestfriend.cause u can have more than best friend u know. and if you have been best friends with this girl since 4th grade you have made many memories with her and if you give her up as a best friend you wont have anyone to remember those times with.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


ok... i have like really bad acne and i need to know what products would help that. do you know any really good products? 13/f (link)
the best thing to do is ask your doctor.
your doctor will know whats best for you.


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I never know wether a guy likes me or not. How do you really know wether a guy likes you? Any signs? Anything that says he deffinitely DOESNT like you, im so CONFUSED! help! (link)
ok. this is hard question. because it depends on the kind of guy u kno wat i mean? well i have always herd that teasing is a sign of some one likeing u and in most cases its true but not in all of them. when the guy tries to be next to you as much as he can is a sign. when he calls more than usual. but for a guy not likeing you is doing opposite then everything i said.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


Hi I am 17 years old girl. I have not seen my boyfriend for a while and will not be seeing him for another two weeks. And I feel scared. I don't get to see him or really get to talk to him but that's not either of our faults. It kind of feels like we aren't together. Can my feelings weaken because I feel like we aren't together then get strong again when I see him when he gets home?please help me
*Heather (link)
not seeing them in awhile may bring ur feelings to not as strong for the person. but i know how you feel. i use to get this way with this guy i know. everytime we didnt see eachother for a while we didnt have strong feelings for eachother but once seeing eachother again we felt very strongly for eachother. to me the way i c it is that once you see him again you will have very strong feelings for him. and thats fine to have those feelings cause it means you care for the person and you love them.

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I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and due to my work schedules I never get to see him.I really like him and he really likes me but we only see each other every other saturday.DO you think it is a good idea to continue dating? (link)
if you both really like eachother and are both fine with still going out then i say still go out. because if u rele love/like the person whats the point in hurting yourself and breaking up?you know what i mean.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


What are some websites that are similar to myspace? (link)
some websites that are similar to myspace are xanga and facebook.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


I'm babysitting this demand child. How can i get her to shut up?! Omg. shes so annoying. please help
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Trust me theres a lot of demand children out there for babysitters. what you should do is find out her favorite thing to do and then ask her if she wants to play it. most likely she will loosen up and not be as bad.

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i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet? (link)
its perfectly normal if you havent hooked up with a guy yet. your still young you have plenty of time to do all those things like making out.
never have people peer pressure you into things though UNLESS its what you want.When the time is right you will make out with a guy. it doesnt have to happen right away.


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im 13/f, how can i make some extra money for back to school shopping besides babysitting? (link)
Other than babysitting if your neighbor or someone around you has a dog you can ask if when they go on vacations and such if you could watch their dog for some pay.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


Today is me and my girls 2 month aniversary, and she's grounded so i cant call her or visit her, but she snuck a call to me yesterday, i told her she would get a suprse today, i was goiing to get a white rose sent to her house with a teddy bear and a card, but the probleam is now my dad's bei a hard ass about it and sayin we'll have to do it tommrow plus all of the floral shops in my area are closed today. Im not sure ifi'll be able to reach her today and im worried she'll be disappointed. (link)
Well if i put myself in your girls position i wouldnt be upset. just explain to her why you werent able to get her present to her in time and she will understand.

kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS


my mom reads all my stuff. including instant messages. and like, i can't make her go so i can talk privatley. but, today i come home from a trip and she's going to make me talk to these people online and

#1: i don't want to tell them what she wants me to tell them
#2: i don't want her to see the convo because i'm afraid the other person is going to talk about stuff

please help me fast! i can't just tell her *stay out* because that won't work! i've tried that already but she won't stop. help me please!

thank you! (link)
What i would do in this situation is that tell your mom that you feel shes invading your privacy and u feel that she doesnt trust you. then hopefully she will take the hint that you want her to *stay out*.


I never feel like going to school. What can i do in the morning to make me go to school??? (link)
well the night before you could go to bed early. then wake up and think bout what you have to do and set your mind on something exciting and if there is nothing exciting that you have planned then plan sumthin through out the day with friends.

-kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS




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