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We never see each other?


Question Posted Monday July 24 2006, 12:45 am

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 months and due to my work schedules I never get to see him.I really like him and he really likes me but we only see each other every other saturday.DO you think it is a good idea to continue dating?

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more_than_a_feeling answered Monday July 24 2006, 7:36 pm:
It depends on your age, how much stress the long distance relationship (not seeing him as much as you would like to) is causing you, whether or not you think you can handle it, how much you care about him and how much you want things between you two to work out.

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kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS answered Monday July 24 2006, 12:06 pm:
if you both really like eachother and are both fine with still going out then i say still go out. because if u rele love/like the person whats the point in hurting yourself and breaking up?you know what i mean.

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MyPainIsReal answered Monday July 24 2006, 1:18 am:
A lot of couples with jobs and busy lives like that only see each other once a week but they do just fine. This is is really up to you though. I mean do you get along great and value your time together even though you only see him once a week? If you do then why call it off over one small challenge? Seeing each other too much can put a damper on a relationship beucase you see too much of each other. So why worry. Your schedule will lighten up eventually and you'll get to see him more at some point. So as long as your both happy and you love the time you to spend together you and you like each other, don't end it. Keep it going strong and let it grow. Who knows, you could be together for a long time just beucase of the fact you didn't smother each other in spending time together at the beginning of the relationship. A lot of relationships fail cuz they spend too much time together in the first 6 months of the relationship and get bored. So if I were you, I'd keep dating and jsut see where it all takes you. :)

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Exquisitechick answered Monday July 24 2006, 12:50 am:
This is totally up to you both. If you both are alright with it, then why not? If you are having doubts then it might not be such a good idea. I know i couldnt do it,but people handle situations differently. But, you can look at it this way too. You can ask him if he wants to take a break for a while,and explain to him about youre schedule.If he agrees,then maybe in the future once you change youre work schedule it will work between you both.

But keep in mind, if you have any doubts about it...i would end it =[

Good luck!

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