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I'm a photography major at a community college. I love music, fashion, art, my friends, books, films, theatre...and vampires. Ask me anything. I especially like questions about my opinions on something and questions that aren't even asking for advice.

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I am a freshman in highschool and i received papers from my school and the superintendant Stating that i could have the option of graduating a year early. which would mean i would be in the class of '09 instead of 2010. I already have my career planned out and what i want to do with my life and so i should accept it and graduate early right?? Well im not so sure that i want to. i mean, i dont want to leave my friends, and i know you guys will probably say " Put your life infront of your friends ". But im not to sure on what i want to do. Any suggestions?

I completely understand the situation you're in. I was homeschooled so I graduated high school at 15. I really wanted to just be done and over with high school so I went ahead and did it. It turned out for the best for me because I'm well-adjusted and I've made a lot of friends where I"m at right now. But if you feel that you won't be able to get used to it and make new friends, you probaly shoulnd't do it because it'll be really hard. Whatever you choose to do, good luck! If you need someone to talk to who you can relate to, feel free to IM me, KKKERMiiiT.

Love,
Cait

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what exactly does sketchy mean?

Conspicuous or suspicious.

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I did 1 thing in my past that I regret...lets just say im not really a virgin. But It wasn't my fault. And I wasn't raped, so. When my friends ask me "are you a virgin?"...I'm like stuck because I don't know what to say. If I tell them I am a virgin i would be lying, and if they find out i don't want them to get mad. But if I say I'm not they will think I'm some kind of slut and they will ask what happened, and I do not want to tell them....its personal.So?

I would say emotionally, you still are, but physically you are not. Don't be afraid to tell people your story.

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how much weight would you lose if you didnt eat for 3-4 days?

please do not lecture me

I did that once and lost about 6 or 7 pounds. You gain it right back when you start eating again though. I'm not lecturing you, just telling you what happens from personal experience.

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Ok I am a 18/f and I just recently started a new job and I met this guy there who is 24 and we hit it off quite nicely but I found out he is ENGAGED!!So he invited me to go out with him a couple days later just "as friends"and we went out to dinner with some of his friends and we ended up holding hands in his car.And we had a talk later and we both agreed it felt right.In that same talk he said that he regretted proposing to his fiancee and hes going to break up with her but he wants the timing to be right because he wants them to end on good terms(which i understand)and so we decided we would just be friends and then when he ends it with her we would casually date and go from there.Well,a couple nights ago he called me up and i told him i was going somewhere and we would meet up there so he met me there and we ended up kissing...SEVERAL times.And we talked about it later and he said that the timing was a mistake.He didnt want us to kiss in a car and stuff like that.What I dont get is why is he waiting so long to break up with his fiancee?they have been together 3 years but he said he was going to break up with her after christmas and its now almost march!I know hes interested because we work together and hes ALWAYS looking at me and calling my work phone and stuff like that but I dont understand what is taking him so long and I am REALLY hung up on him too.He took me out at my most vulnerable time because the night he took me out,i broke up with my ex-boyfriend of 2 years.And I want to hang out with him more outside of work but he said he doesnt want to because he doesnt want me to get to close and then get hurt if it doesnt work out...WTF?but he met up and kissed me???So I need some advice on if hes actually interested in me and why hes acting like this....

Put some space between the two of you until he makes up his mind. Keep in mind how his fiancee must feel. This guy obviously doesn't know what he wants. You should never leave the one you love for the one you like, that's probably what he's realizing right about now.

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I want to know if my waist/hip size is right for my age but I don't know how! My bf's waist is 32 inches! sounds a little too skinney for me

I have a skinny boyfriend too and it makes me feel bad about my body in comparison, really. Anyway, I'm 15, I weigh 110 lbs. and I'm 5'4". My waist is like 26 inches and my hips are 34 inches. You can find out if it's normal or not by going to the doctor and asking.

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Okay well tom. i am going to a interview for 2 agentcies and they want me to bring a portfolio of pictures. Well i don't take pictures like with my camera the only thing i have recently took a picture of is on the webcam i mean i could print it out on paper or evn on a picture paper but the thing is it's probably going to be small and if i do zoom in it would look weird what do i do? Will webcam pics do?

Thanks
Ashliiee

I take it you're a model? You might want to be more specific next time. Anyway, if this is for a modeling agency, they're asking for professionally taken photographs. You'll need to ask or hire some photographers or photography students in your area to do a few photoshoots with you, and it might cost you money. Good luck, dear.

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is there a way to get
birth control with
out letting my parents
find out? 15/f

Planned Parenthood, dear.

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I know that it is almost impossible to get pregnant with having sex. However, I hooked up with a boy and he ejaculated on his hand and my sheets and we kept hooking up. Now I'm 8 days late on my period. But seriously....what are the chances of me being pregnant

You're probably not, but get a home pregnancy test.

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how do i make a new e-mail address? i use msn and i use my mom's e-mail address but i've been thinking and so i want my own. how do i do that?

You can make a free email account at gmail.com, hotmail.com or yahoo.com.

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Okay, well I am looking for a certain picture.

its of a guy and a girl in a room full of people but all the people are kinda blurred out so its just them.. and its like basically sumboling that when they are around a whole bunch of people its like its just them in the room. its really cute and i hope someone could find it for me

Sounds like a Lara Jade to me.

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ok well ive been friends with this guy for about 6 or 7 years maybe even longer and well ive had feelings for him since the 4th grade (we are now in the 9th grade) but i didnt say anything because i dont wanna ruin our relationship. But my feelings for him are getting stronger and idk what to do. I think there might be a chance that he likes me...He talks and messes around with me on the bus and on the way home from school when we are walking together he pushes me in the snow and other stuff, And when its rainy or really cold he will give me a ride home...
do you think he likes me?
should i ask him out or tell him how i feel??

Tell him how you feel before you do anything else.

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why does it matter which college you go to?

There are a lot of reasons. People go to certain colleges because they want to major or specialize in a certain thing and they usually choose the school that they do because their program is known for being really good...something like that. Also tuition costs, geographical location, etc. are important things to consider when choosing a college.

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does anyone know any websites you can like make photo albums on and post pictures? and make slideshows with pictures? thankss.

I use Photobucket and Flickr.
http://www.photobucket.com
http://www.flickr.com
Both are free :]

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like all the guys ive liked my friends always say like "eww" too and im like whats so "eww" about it?? why do people always do that? well most of the time. i mean, its not like the guys are disgusto or geeks or whatever.

Most of the time your friends don't want to hear a ton about the people you like because they get annoyed, etc. Understandable, I think. So just don't talk about them unless they ask. And if they say "ew", tell them to shut the fuck up because you like them and that's all that matters.

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Can you put any type of lotion/body lotion, on your face? or is it just for the body? My face is really dry from using acne medicine a lot so I want to mosturize it but I get oily skin a lot and right after I wash my face too so I don't want it to get more oily

Aveeno or Clean and Clear has come out with a great oil-free moisturizer.

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1) so there's this guy and he's 17 yrs.old and i'm 14..i'll be turning 15 in october! would that be considered rape if we went out?[boyfriend girlfriend]

2) he's been sending me mixed messages online because we've been talking. i'm pretty sure he likes me though.[he got kept back 3 times so he's a sophmore] and i'm a freshmen] so if he sees me @ school we'll hug but he won't talk to me. i don't mind though because i think both of us are trying to keep our feelings on the "down low" so what should i do? he asked me for a kiss and i said yes,,, but i'm scared because this will be my 1st kiss and i'm pretty sure he's expecting it on the lips. so should i do it? and we'll be seeing eachother tonight @ the skating rink. i was thinking of dodging him.. but should i ??

i know this was very confusing to understand.. but please answer. thanx in advance.

1] Rape is when someone forces you to have sex with them. Being in a relationship with someone is completely different from being forced to have sex. So...no. Age difference, whatever, not a big deal.

2] Don't rely on the internet as a reliable way to communicate, you can't see the person's facial expressions or body language or hear their tone of voice, therefore you can't tell what their attitude is about whatever you're talking about. As far as giving mixed messages, older guys who like younger girls tend to be kind of ashamed of the fact that the girl is so much younger. Trust me, I know.

All in all, do whatever you feel most comfortable with, what you feel is right, what you want to do. Good luck.

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what happenes if you snort pixie sticks???

Your brain melts and you die :]

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I have blue eyes and in every picture I've seen with me in it my eyes turn red. Every single time. If I were to wear brown eyeshadow, would that reduce the redness and make my eyes show up their natural color? Also, are there any other eye makeup tips that would be a solution. I know photos could be fixed by computer, but I don't want a reason for fixing..

I always shoot on manual or without flash. So yeah, no more flash unless it's absolutely necessary, in which case you'll just have to fix the red eye problem on the computer later.

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How do you let go of someone that you absolutely love, but they don't want you anymore?

You just move on. Spend a lot of time with your friends, keep yourself busy, let it go. You'll be better than ever before, eventually. Trust me.

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