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this guy at work.......
Ok I am a 18/f and I just recently started a new job and I met this guy there who is 24 and we hit it off quite nicely but I found out he is ENGAGED!!So he invited me to go out with him a couple days later just "as friends"and we went out to dinner with some of his friends and we ended up holding hands in his car.And we had a talk later and we both agreed it felt right.In that same talk he said that he regretted proposing to his fiancee and hes going to break up with her but he wants the timing to be right because he wants them to end on good terms(which i understand)and so we decided we would just be friends and then when he ends it with her we would casually date and go from there.Well,a couple nights ago he called me up and i told him i was going somewhere and we would meet up there so he met me there and we ended up kissing...SEVERAL times.And we talked about it later and he said that the timing was a mistake.He didnt want us to kiss in a car and stuff like that.What I dont get is why is he waiting so long to break up with his fiancee?they have been together 3 years but he said he was going to break up with her after christmas and its now almost march!I know hes interested because we work together and hes ALWAYS looking at me and calling my work phone and stuff like that but I dont understand what is taking him so long and I am REALLY hung up on him too.He took me out at my most vulnerable time because the night he took me out,i broke up with my ex-boyfriend of 2 years.And I want to hang out with him more outside of work but he said he doesnt want to because he doesnt want me to get to close and then get hurt if it doesnt work out...WTF?but he met up and kissed me???So I need some advice on if hes actually interested in me and why hes acting like this....
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Put some space between the two of you until he makes up his mind. Keep in mind how his fiancee must feel. This guy obviously doesn't know what he wants. You should never leave the one you love for the one you like, that's probably what he's realizing right about now.
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