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flirting
heyy. im fourteen years old and im female. && i have a sort of a problem. i flirt with EVERY guy i talk to. i thought i liked this guy because we flirted alottttt but then within the next week i started flirting with one of his bestfrineds. he got angry . this happens all the time. i endup eading guys on becaus they believe that i really like them; and i make myself believe that aswell. things never work out with anyone because of what i do to guys. is there any epxplanation for this? or is there anythign i can try to stop myself from being a pathaligicial flirt? (i think thats what its called) thankyou soo much for the help! =)
hailey<3
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Hey i had the same problem...you could just like to flirt because it's fun and you like the attention...but to stop yourself from flirting alot you could find a boy your really interested in or that really catches your attention and can stay in your life more than a week as a friend or really good friend...hope i helped!XOXO
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Heres my idea about it; youre just trying to get boys attention. Wait for boyfreinds later on down the road until you know when you REALLY do like a guy enough not to go flirting with others. Hope that helps, Emma
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Here's the thing, maybe you're just not ready for a boyfriend and are just enjoying being young and getting the attention and the "happy feelings" that come from when a guy is digging you. There may also be a self-esteem thing going on here and I don't know you so I could be wrong. Perhaps you need that reassurance that you are beautiful and great and so you'll accept that attention wherever it comes from whether or not you have any intentions of doing anything with that guy or not. Trust me I know from experience, I had way too many guy friends and flirted with guys contantly without even knowing I was doing it half the time. I realized later as I got older that I was doing that because of my own self-esteem issues and just wanting to be loved by everyone. Again I could be way off but usually flirting in abundance is usally a sign that it is something within us that needs acceptance or attention that we are not getting anywhere else. Try to come to terms with yourself and figure out why you are doing this and go from there. Hope this helps and good luck hun!
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Well, there isnt really a "cure" for it.
But, you can try to disipline yourself. Everytime you catch yourself do it, just make yourself stop. Thats the only way you can.
And you can also ask one of your friends to yell at you everytime they see you doing it.
Sorry i didnt help much :[
Good luck though.
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