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What should I do? by Minuk Choi
For you,
I would gladly walk a mile,
if that would give me a chance
to see you smile.
I'd call you my friend,
but that's a lie.
You mean more to me,
but I can't explain why.
For you are more precious to me
than all of the world's gold,
but I can't tell you that,
how can I be that bold?
If I spoke what's on my mind,
would you accept me?
Because without you,
I don't know where I'd be.
You seem to be calm,
while I feel absolutely lost.
I would like to be so bold,
but what would its failure cost?
Am I the only one faced with this choice?
Be daring and risk losing you as a friend too?
I can't risk that; I'd rather have that then lose everything.
What should I do?
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You know that Gap skinny black pant commercial? Yhe girl in it looks and sounds like Aubrey(sp?) Hepburn. Who is she?
First of all it's AuDrey Hepburn and yes it really is her, it is a scene from one of her early movies. Hope that clarifies matters for you :)
do you know where i could get any really good hair straighters that dont damage your hair. Ones like Chi and Sedu?
Well I don't know where you live so I don't know if you even have these stores, but I would try "Sally's Beauty Supply", "Ulta" or "Sephora" all of them have a lot of good products and selections, they have Chi, Wigo, Solano ect. Those are all good and just make sure that you get something ceramic cause those will keep the proteins in your hair and prevent damage. Good luck!
ok i blow dry my hair every night after i get out of the shower. and in the morning i straighten it. my hair looks fine right after i straighten it but after i get to school its a mess! i get so much frizz its not even funny. ive tried almost everything on my hair. i use a anti-frizz shampoo from dove and it doesnt seem to be working. i want to buy a chi but i dont know where to get one at. does anyone know anything i can do with my hair to eliminate the frizz? any shampoos and conditioners that work really well? and hair spray or anything? PLEASE HELP!!
Have you tried Friz-eaze (sp?) if not try it. Okay first off you should not be washing and blow drying your hair at night, that's just asking for a disaster trust me. I have naturally straight hair and even when I do that I wake up to a mess. your hair rubs together when you move while you're sleeping and it frays the ends. So really you should wash it in the morning, blow dry it with a round barrel hair brush, then use the straightener this works better when you do all this in the morning because your hair is freshly done and the heat from blow drying is infused into your hair which makes it more pliable and receptive to the flat iron. BUT, if you really like taking your shower at night and drying it, which I don't suggest, you should at least put it in one big braid, or even a bun. Don't leave it down or put it in a pony tail. Hope this makes sense and that it helps some, good luck.
I don't know what I am inside, or what to do. I believe in god and jesus and stuff, but I don't know if I'm scared to go to hell. I don't go to church and I don't know what waits for me at the end. I want to find out what I really believe in but I don't know how. This may sound strange, but I feel like I have a connection, not to god, but almost like being psychic. I need a way to find my spirituality.
Hmmm interesting question, I think a lot of people have the same question but are too scared to ask it so bravo on the spiritual courage. Really the only way to find out what you believe in is to educate yourself on different religions and practices. When you find something that is meant for you it will click and you will just know, you'll feel that you are on the right path. The main thing no matter what religion, group or spiritual belief, is faith. You yourself have to have faith in it, you can't always require physical, scientific proof in order to believe in it, religion is more than something tangible we just have to let go and trust. Some people can't do that and chose to think of creation and such with a more scientific approach which of course is thier choice. Anyhow like I said just educate yourself check out religions, talk to some psychics (not the ones on the phone) since you said you felt like you had some psychic feelings. Once you learn what there is out there your spirituality will form on its own and you will know what you yourself believe. Good luck on your spiritual quest.
~Miss Kanona~
When people say whats Gud on myspace, what do they mean and do you just pronounce it the way its spelled?
What's Gud means what's "good" which means basically "how are things" "hows life treating you" "what's good in your life" ect......and you say it just like you would "good" hope that clears that up for you.
o.k so here's the deal my dream is to be and advice columnist for a newspaper or magazine i'm really good at giving people advice.. but i never take my own.. i need... help i have a great boyfriend... he's nice, funny and he makes me feel good he once just came over my house just to give me flowers......but he has one flaw... HE SMOKES WEED! and weve been dating for about 3 months now and he says he's gonna stop but he doesn't... please i need help should i break up with him or give him another chance... please tell me what you think
Okay I am going to tell you this striaght up. He most likely will not stop, not anytime soon anyways. Most people who smoke weed will always want it to some extent, it takes a very strong person to stop smoking and make it a once in awhile thing (couple times a year) and to stop all together is even harder especially when the only reason for them to stop is someone else wanting them to do it. They see nothing wrong with it and therefore don't see why people keep telling them to stop. Then the more you tell him to quit the more likly he is to just resent you for trying to control what he does. So here's the deal you have already asked him to stop and he agrees and then just goes and smokes again. He is lying to you about stopping maybe not on purpose because he may actually try to stop but like I said that won't work, he will always go back to it because he didn't want to stop in the first place he was only doing it for you, so there was not a stong enough motivation to stop. So if this is something that is going to be a problem for you then I would leave him, trust me I had a relationship for 7 years and he constantly promised me things and never came through, they honestly mean to but they just can't so the best thing to do for yourself is to leave unless it is something you think you can live with. Talk about it with him once more and really tell him how important he is to you and how you hate seeing him doing that to himself. Plead your case once more and see how it goes. This may not be happy advice but its honest and real and I really hope it helps you out good luck!
So, today is my 19th birthday, and since I live in Canada that means I can drink! The funny thing is that I really don't know where to start buying since I'm not much of a drinker. Can anyone tell me what the makings of a good basic liquor cabinet are?
I've already got vodka and Kahlua... but I don't know where to go from there!
Well it depends. Typically the liquor cabinet tends to reflect the prefered choices of the people whom are there drinking. If you have friends over a lot and you know what they like then you should stock up on those things. If its mainly for you then you have to know what kind of drinks you like. If you dont really know yet what other people are going to want to drink just get the basics. Some Rum (captain morgan)Tequila (Jose quervo gold!) you already have the vodka so your covered there, Some Southern Comfort is always good with a little lime juice if you wanna do some shots, oh and apple pucker YUM. So that's pretty much it, the rest is just stuff you add to the drinks, if your gonna have a party just make sure you got coke, cranberry juice, orange juice and wahtever else you like. Hope this gives you some idea, there are so many options that it would take forever to list, so stock up have fun and be safe.
there are A LOT of hott guys in the church i go to. it's AWESOME! sometimes i wish i can get to know that person better, but it's a church. you can't talk, and the only time you can is when you tell "peace be with you" to everybody. it would be weird to talk to them then. we don't stay for the whole mass, because my little brother doesn't have enough patience for it. we only stay until we get our communion. what should i do?
Sounds to me like you're catholic, me too and we always had something going on in my church they allowed us to make friends and hang out with the cute guys. Aside from the classes for pre-teens and the teens we would go on retreats for the weekend or just for the day and so everyone could hang out, flirt (tastfully, I mean it was church lol) and just have a good time. See what your church has going on and get involved you could meet some of those cute guys and parents always love a church boy. ;)
Hey guys.
I really want to start wearing heels with my outfits..but I don't really know any heels that go with outfits that are affordable and are in reach (i.e. macy's, nordstroms, penny's.) Links to websites that have outfits with high heels in them would be nice.I already have a pair of black heels..does anyone know any thing I could wear that with? Thank you!
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Black heels? Shoot you can were those with practically anything these days girl :) with jeans, light wash preferably(gouchos and capris too), you can were it with a cute skirt especially if they are open-toed, try and match the skirt or the top with the shoes though, not everyone does but I have this anal thing about matching perfectly lol. Dresses always work as well. As far as websites go to www.fredericks.com, totally cute shoes and they always have sales going on, they also ship really fast. Good luck and have fun shoes are a girls best friends, next to diamonds of course :)
heyy. im fourteen years old and im female. && i have a sort of a problem. i flirt with EVERY guy i talk to. i thought i liked this guy because we flirted alottttt but then within the next week i started flirting with one of his bestfrineds. he got angry . this happens all the time. i endup eading guys on becaus they believe that i really like them; and i make myself believe that aswell. things never work out with anyone because of what i do to guys. is there any epxplanation for this? or is there anythign i can try to stop myself from being a pathaligicial flirt? (i think thats what its called) thankyou soo much for the help! =)
hailey
Here's the thing, maybe you're just not ready for a boyfriend and are just enjoying being young and getting the attention and the "happy feelings" that come from when a guy is digging you. There may also be a self-esteem thing going on here and I don't know you so I could be wrong. Perhaps you need that reassurance that you are beautiful and great and so you'll accept that attention wherever it comes from whether or not you have any intentions of doing anything with that guy or not. Trust me I know from experience, I had way too many guy friends and flirted with guys contantly without even knowing I was doing it half the time. I realized later as I got older that I was doing that because of my own self-esteem issues and just wanting to be loved by everyone. Again I could be way off but usually flirting in abundance is usally a sign that it is something within us that needs acceptance or attention that we are not getting anywhere else. Try to come to terms with yourself and figure out why you are doing this and go from there. Hope this helps and good luck hun!
heyyy everyoneee.i am soo sorry but this might be in the wrong catagory i didnt know where else to put it., but im fourteen and a female soo.. i feel a little weird about this;; but i shop wayyyy tooo much! i know all girls claim tro be "shopohaulics" but i am the true definition of the word. you know how some peopel eat icecream or cut them selves when theyr sad?.. well when i am sad i go out and spend money. as a result i spend all the money i make at my job and the money my mom gives me. most of the things i buy are impule buys and end up never being used. its a problem.. soo im looking for advice on how to stop this aditction to shopping and any good ways to spend my time when i am sad so as to keep em from shopping lol thankyou so much for your time!. =)
hailey
The first response to this answer was great so I will just add that you need to find another way of releasing that sadness, anger or tension you have going on. I did the same thing when I was younger I would totally blow my paychecks on clothes and stuff. It's totally normal but still potentially dangerous if it continues and evolves into something else as you get older. Try doing something else like go running, yoga, listen to music anything that is calming or works out some of those feelings. I started going running when I was angry or anxious, during the run I worked through my feelings and by the end I was on such a natural high from the endorphins and just felt so rejuvinated. There is something for everyone and once you find out what works best for you then you can hopefully get rid of that shopping problem. Good luck!
14 female. when ever i like a guy i tend to give or loan them money. most of the guys i liek are not trust worthy o i usuially never get my money back. everyone knwos that i ALWAY have cash on me i cant lie to them and say "sorry i dont have any money on me." I am afraid to ask them for the money back after i stop liking them, one because i am embarrasses and two:: because it has been so long that they have forgotten. during the last school year this one boy i was crushing on would ask me for a dollar every day for 3 or 4 months. i would say yes everyday and as a resuly gave him around 40 dollars and he never even liked me as more than a frined. i know the boys are jsut using me but i cant help my self. if anyone has any advice on how to stop or anthign to say to the boys who ask and try to use me i woudl greatly appreciate it!. thanks a million andone =)
haiely
Hi there. Well I know what you mean when you say it is hard to say no to them especially when you like them, but honey if you ever really want to know if they like "you" then you need to put your foot down on this. Tell them no and if you don't want to sound mean throw a joke in there and walk away with a smile, let them know you're more than money, besides guys like when a girl is witty and has a little attitute to them. If you really can't seem to say no, then forget what you think they know, and just tell them you don't have any money on you at the moment, who cares what they think how are they really going to know if you have it or not? Just be brave and assert yourself or it will only get worse as you get older, the older you are the more things you aquire that a scrub will try and get from you, ex. car, house the list goes on girl. Good luck!
i know this is a kinda weird question, but i dont like getting sick, well hey.. no one does. ecspecially in the summer, i dont wanna get sick! so does anyone have any tips on not getting sick? and staying healthy.
All really good answers so far so I won't repeat them instead I will just add that you should make sure you are getting a full nights rest. Lack of sleep can lower your immune system which will of course increase your chances of getting sick. If you already feel like you're getting sick take two Vitamin C tablets (time release if available) for a few days, that will give your immune system a boost and should hopefully stop it from getting worse, that always works for me. Some people say to use echinacea but be careful with that, especially when taking other medications it can interfere with them and even reverse the intended effects. Here's to good health cheers!
my boyfriend and i are really close. we've been together for a long time, and we usualy have a lotta fun together. hes a real sweet guy and always has been, but until recently (meaning the last few months) hes been smoking pot with his friends. the fact that he does it doesnt bother me as much as the fact that he'll leave parties that hes hanging out with me at to go smoke with his friends. it pisses me off so much. basically: he ditches me for his friends and drugs. they pressure him into it. i tell him it pisses me off, but i dont know what to do.
please help =/
Sincerely,
*i want my boyfriend back*
Okay let's see if we can figure this out. He is obviously getting something he needs from smoking with these friends, aside from the obvious that he is getting high. There's many reasons, acceptance, feeling a part of something, eleviating his boredom, and well just having fun. Though he is making a rather poor choice it is still his business and he will defintely only act worse towards you if you are always getting mad at him or trying to stop him, especially if his friends see this, they will put there two cents in and tell him to get his girl "in check" and tell her to stop "trying to control you." However as the girlfriend you have the right to be upset about feeling neglected, it's one thing if he goes out with his friends in the first place, but when he goes somewhere with you then ditches you to go get high then his priorities are defintely screwed up. Hopefully this won't happen but if he continues with this he will only get worse, weed will become his whole life if he doesn't have confidence or self-control. Not everyone is like that but when you are young you tend to focus on one big thing at a time, and when it's drugs then it's all about getting high, when they are gonna do it, how often, and what happened when they were messed up. Have you tried talking to him seriously about it? Not right when it's happening but when you are alone and he is not high? You need to tell him how you feel and let him know you are not trying to control him but that you just want to spend time with him and if it's something you can't accept and something he won't stop doing ask him to respect you and not do it when you are around. Whatever you do don't get pulled into it, you sound like you have no interest in it but sometimes we compromise our beliefs and feelings to make someone else happy, to make ourselves happy and it always ends up doing the opposite. Good luck with this and feel free to ask me anymore questions you may have.
so for some reason like right in my armpit area, theres some extra fat that ive noticed other people dont have. my mom has it too, so it might just be genetic. but it bothers me because when i wear a tank top, sometimes you can see it fold over. i have a small figure, so i dont know why its there. does anyone know how to make it go away??
13/f
Okay so I had the same thing when I was your age, I really don't know why it happens but it does to a lot of girls, at 13 most are at the age when they lose their child figure and get ther more womanly body and somehow a little something remains anyhow you can totally get rid of it. Push-ups BIG TIME will help and that machine at the gym where your arms are up and bent into the "L" shape and you bring them towards each other, grr I can't remember what it's called but it works really good. Also you can do soemthing easy at home, hold both arms straight out to the side and bring them up and down, kinda like your trying to fly, it sounds silly but do 100-200 at night and you'll see a difference. Hope this is helpful and that I made sense. :)
I have gotten so many comments on how big my eyes look. I don't really know if this is a good or bad thing....but i would kinda like ur guy's opinion. Also, Is it because i wear eyeliner??? will that make it look bigger? some people say it makes their eyes look smaller...but i dunno. I use a dark brown eyeliner and i only do the bottom...not the top. (i have fair skin too)
I would think that it is a compliment, many people adore big bright eyes. However I have to say that wearing eye liner only on the bottom will add to the effect. I am not saying for you to make them look smaller, but to enhance the natural beauty of your eyes I would use eyeliner on the top. Top and bottom or just the top but never just the bottom. My sister did make-up for a living and I, her big sister taught her everything in the first place lol. Don't use a lot and let it curve towards the outside to make that cat eye effect and you'll have people drooling. :)
My legs are really thin, but I have streach marks at the very top. Nobody can see them but me. But they still really bother me. And I told my mom, and asked her if I could get some cream stuff, and she said no. What should I do?
What? that's very odd that she wouldn't let you get some cream for it. Maybe she is concerned why you care about it being there like "why is she trying to make that area perfect who's gonna see it?" I don't know but if you can't manage to convince her then you could try some Vitamin E, it's supposed to help get rid of scars so it may help with stretch marks but I am defintely not an expert. All I can say is to prevent anymore stretch marks (which everyone gets) make sure you use lots of lotion, it improves the skins elasticity which helps prevent stretch marks, that's why pregnant woman use cocoa butter on their tummies. Hope this helped some.
Well, This guy, whos a year older than I, is really confusing me. You see, weve known eachother for a few months, and at first, my friend claimed to really like him, but she.. Well, shes a skank. And, after awhile she started hating him, and I kept hanging out with him because we became close friends. He began to like me, and at that time I didnt like him back, and he told another friend of mine that he planned to ask me out, And my friend convinced him to wait awhile, and I showed signs of just wanting to be friends, because I didnt want to hurt him, and so he never asked me out. but, In the middle of all this, i realized that I really do like him a lot, but i didnt want to controdict myself.So eventually, we started losing touch, and he got a girlfriend. But then, one late night on aim, we stayed up the entire night talking, and now were closer than ever. He always tells me how special I am to him and how much he loves me, but he still has a girlfriend? I dont know.. I really think I love him. But, should I.. I dont know, what should I do? Before you answer this you should know, hes not your typical player, hes not very attractive and is like, reallllllly smart and not "nerdy" but .. leaning more toward that side. He has a charm to him, and I dont get it. I realllllllllllly need help. Should I tell him how I feel about this?
Wow, I had a similar problem. This guy and I were really good friends but he always had a crush on me, his friends would bug me about dating him but I only ever saw him as a friend. Then I found out he was moving and all these feelings came out and I decided that I really did like/love him and it was too late. Point is don't wait if you really care about him then you need to do something about it no matter how nervous you are. Maybe you should just ask him, if you are so special and if he loves you then how can he possibly be with someone else? Maybe as bad it sounds, it could be that he is still with her because he thinks that he doesn't have a real chance of being with you. Guys need to know that they won't be rejected then they will make their move. Let him know how you feel and I just bet he will be "girlfriendless" in a heartbeat. Good luck!