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Well, This guy, whos a year older than I, is really confusing me. You see, weve known eachother for a few months, and at first, my friend claimed to really like him, but she.. Well, shes a skank. And, after awhile she started hating him, and I kept hanging out with him because we became close friends. He began to like me, and at that time I didnt like him back, and he told another friend of mine that he planned to ask me out, And my friend convinced him to wait awhile, and I showed signs of just wanting to be friends, because I didnt want to hurt him, and so he never asked me out. but, In the middle of all this, i realized that I really do like him a lot, but i didnt want to controdict myself.So eventually, we started losing touch, and he got a girlfriend. But then, one late night on aim, we stayed up the entire night talking, and now were closer than ever. He always tells me how special I am to him and how much he loves me, but he still has a girlfriend? I dont know.. I really think I love him. But, should I.. I dont know, what should I do? Before you answer this you should know, hes not your typical player, hes not very attractive and is like, reallllllly smart and not "nerdy" but .. leaning more toward that side. He has a charm to him, and I dont get it. I realllllllllllly need help. Should I tell him how I feel about this?
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You should bring him somwhere you have privacy to explain to him how you feel bout this situation.
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Silent Kenny
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i think you should just tell him how you feel. let him know that you love him and that you want to be more than friends now. if he really loved you like he says he does he will break up with his girlfriend for you. so give it a try and if you need anymore help ask me ill be more than happy to help you out. good luck hun!!
<3 Stacey
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Yes, tell him how you feel. Don't try breaking them up, or black-mail anyone. This could just get worse. Tell the guy how you feel. Tell him you want to go out with him, or take things to the next level.
And don't feel ashamed if he says he can't go out with you at the moment. A lot of times it takes time to change things like these around. So tell him your feelings and things should go well. Good luck.
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i think you should just straight out tell him your feelings. you'd feel relieved after it too, and maybe he'd understand the whole situation.
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ok tell him exactly hoe you feel about him and that before you just didnt see it and see what happens if he leaves his girlfriend for you then go out with him but if hes like wait until me and my girlfriend brake up later on forget him you obiously wouldnt need a guy like that
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Wow, I had a similar problem. This guy and I were really good friends but he always had a crush on me, his friends would bug me about dating him but I only ever saw him as a friend. Then I found out he was moving and all these feelings came out and I decided that I really did like/love him and it was too late. Point is don't wait if you really care about him then you need to do something about it no matter how nervous you are. Maybe you should just ask him, if you are so special and if he loves you then how can he possibly be with someone else? Maybe as bad it sounds, it could be that he is still with her because he thinks that he doesn't have a real chance of being with you. Guys need to know that they won't be rejected then they will make their move. Let him know how you feel and I just bet he will be "girlfriendless" in a heartbeat. Good luck!
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Well, I think he`s free game from your sluty friend. Well you should call it love. Its lust, then lust truns into love. Its been proven. Well you should keep in contect with him. maybe go hang out and show that you like him in a settle way for a awile till he breaks up with his girlfriend.
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