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my names kaelee. im seventeen & i live in illinois. i love to have fun. ive been through a lot in my life, so i can defiantly help out with anything. =]
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Age: 17
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Just tell me.. Should I tell him I like him?

Me - Fifteen. Single.

Him - Sixteen. Going out with a girl.. who
according to my friend who knows both of them, is 'an exact replica [sp?] of me.

Us- Close friends. He used to like me, and I didnt know how I felt, so I tried to just stay friends, and put down his attemps to get close/hold hands/ect. I grew to like him more and more and now I really realllllllly like him.

Currently - Even though he has a girlfriend, he always makes it a point to tell me he loves me and Im the only one who can keep him up all night talking, and how he cant wait until after Highschool so he can see me everyday. Yet, his girlfreind is still his girlfriend?

So what do you think? Should I just tell him? And how should I? I dont get to see him that much, we go to different schools, and he lives one town over. I usually just talk to him on aim/texting.. rarely on the phone but I just hate phones.. I might invite him over but I dont want to tell him in person with just me and him there. (link)
you can either just give him hints. or an easier way could be texting him saying it. you'd feel much better expressing for feelings instead of holding them in yaknow? because either, you'd regret it later on for not telling him, or something better can happen like him going out with you & breaking up with his girlfriend. anything can happen. :)


hey im 15/f i love the show Miss teen USA! i've gotten applications to go on the show but i never actually went because i dont think i have what it takes. How can i be as skinny as those girls? I try to eat healthy i just dont have time for exercising in my schedule. Also i wanna know how i do my hair and make-up like them.. I know they have stylist and stuff but i would really like to look like teen usa! Any advice on any of these things would do! Thanks

About me- Brown hair brown eyes, im a cheerleader at GHS. (link)
eating healthy is good. drink a ton of water too. if you want to do hair/makeup like them, just experiment around. try different styles or just look up hairstyles online & tips how to do makeup. look at magazines for tips & hairstyles too.


14 female. when ever i like a guy i tend to give or loan them money. most of the guys i liek are not trust worthy o i usuially never get my money back. everyone knwos that i ALWAY have cash on me i cant lie to them and say "sorry i dont have any money on me." I am afraid to ask them for the money back after i stop liking them, one because i am embarrasses and two:: because it has been so long that they have forgotten. during the last school year this one boy i was crushing on would ask me for a dollar every day for 3 or 4 months. i would say yes everyday and as a resuly gave him around 40 dollars and he never even liked me as more than a frined. i know the boys are jsut using me but i cant help my self. if anyone has any advice on how to stop or anthign to say to the boys who ask and try to use me i woudl greatly appreciate it!. thanks a million andone =)

haiely (link)
you should just stick up for yourself. you don't deserve people using you or just walking over you. it seems like your known for giving guys money that you like. its pointless to just give money to them if they don't like you more then a friend.

"fear is temporary - regret is forever" - live by that, because if your scared/afraid to ask them for your money back, your going to regret it in the end. do what you feel is right, because in the end, everything happens for a reason.


Well, This guy, whos a year older than I, is really confusing me. You see, weve known eachother for a few months, and at first, my friend claimed to really like him, but she.. Well, shes a skank. And, after awhile she started hating him, and I kept hanging out with him because we became close friends. He began to like me, and at that time I didnt like him back, and he told another friend of mine that he planned to ask me out, And my friend convinced him to wait awhile, and I showed signs of just wanting to be friends, because I didnt want to hurt him, and so he never asked me out. but, In the middle of all this, i realized that I really do like him a lot, but i didnt want to controdict myself.So eventually, we started losing touch, and he got a girlfriend. But then, one late night on aim, we stayed up the entire night talking, and now were closer than ever. He always tells me how special I am to him and how much he loves me, but he still has a girlfriend? I dont know.. I really think I love him. But, should I.. I dont know, what should I do? Before you answer this you should know, hes not your typical player, hes not very attractive and is like, reallllllly smart and not "nerdy" but .. leaning more toward that side. He has a charm to him, and I dont get it. I realllllllllllly need help. Should I tell him how I feel about this? (link)
i think you should just straight out tell him your feelings. you'd feel relieved after it too, and maybe he'd understand the whole situation.




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