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Heyy my name is Silent Kenny I enjoy music, girls cars,sports, computer shizzit and like solving problems. Hit me up wit any questions and ill b able to answer them.Look at my advice column.

R.I.P. B.I.G. and Tupac

luv yours,

Silent Kenny

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I just recently had a baby and i have alot of stitches in my vagina area i'm just wondering i've been feeling horny is it safe to materbate?

Its not safe.

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I'm 14, female.
I've never drank, smoked, or done drugs.
I feel like a loser, ALL my friends do stuff like this, cause in my town, everyone just does. I don't want to risk getting in trouble so I don't. I don't cuss, do sexual things other then making out, and I'm afraid to do crazy things with my friends. I won't sneak out with them, or like steal road signs. I just feel retarded and immature around all of them, everyone treats me like a baby, I've even been threatened a few times for being too "good." What should I do? I'm friends with almost everybody in my small town, so theres no one to go to.

You shouldn't be under the influence of your friends, or to smoke drugs or weed. Be a leader not a follower. Besides do you want to end up as a crackhead at the age of 14 then be livn on the streets at the age of the 30 b/c you were to lazy or stupid from the drugs to do anythin. And drugs can give you lung disease so you would be a walking time bomb until your heart gives. I hope you choose the right choice.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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Ok, me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 19 days now. We still havent got through that "akward stage." I was just wondering if anyone had any topics that we could talk about to break the ice. I really like him, and he likes me. But all I can seem to talk about is how bored or tired I am. Its just like word vomit. We arent really into the same stuff though. We are both into animals, but that is about it. And im getting sick of talking about that. I want to tell him up front that I really like him, but im afraid that he dosent like me as much as i like him. Before we were dating we would be really romantic, but now that we are dating im more shy about it. Any ideas guys?? thanks in advance

You should confront him and say how you feel about him. Tell him that you are free to tell me any of your troubles. Ask him how is day is goin aand act like you were talking to your friends just a few different subjects.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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i am a 20 year old female and my boyfriend and i have been together for 13 months to the day. In all those 13 months i have yet to get him to talk to me about our relationship without him getting either aggressive or irritated or him acting silly and not addressing the issue just acting crazy. we have been into it about a certain subject lately becuase he wants to do something that is potentially hazardous to our relationship and his life and i don't want him to and won't let him do it when he wants to. he wants to fight about it but doesn't want to talk about it. how can i help him be able to open up and talk to me?

Well i mi brother had a few problems. So he went to a sychologist. It really worked for him so talk to him to see if our relationship should be solved with a sychologist.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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Ok i am a 15 yr. old female who loves to be active. I usually run cross country but i decided that i would take a year off. But i have realized that i am gaining a little bit of weight and i don't like that. I am used to being quite thin. I play soccer and i would like to improve my skills there. But going out and playing soccer all day isn't going to cut it. I also have a short attention span. I do 250 crunches/situps every night. What would be an appropriate workout for me to do everyday. Something else i need to keep in mind is i have to work part time.

well you could wake up at six do about 50 pushups and 50 crunches. Then stretch and run 5 miles. Do that every mornig and that should be fine.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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sry this is a little long, but i need ya'lls advice! ok so there's this guy that i've known for like 9months now. 7 of those months we spent a lot of time together, goin out, hangin out and what not but he always denied likin me because of the fact that he's 21 and i'm 17. whenever he was around other people he was mean to me and stuff, but when it was just us 2, or the lights were off, he expected me to do things like we were a couple. well recently he got a gf and tells everybody that he doesn't even like her and that he's gunna dump her soon. so when we hung out about a week ago, he was all flirtin with me, wrappin his arms around me, ticklin me and sittin on my lap among other things but when his friend noticed it and said something, he stopped doin all of it and quit talkin to me for the rest of the night. and then 2 nights ago he was just horrible to me and started yelling at me for no apparent reason in front of all our friends. what exactly is his deal??

It sounds like hes using u when he is horny. Then denieng that hes even your friend around older people. He just doesnt want to be caught hanging out wit younger people.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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My boyfriend's birthday is coming up in early August and I need some gift ideas.. We will have only been going out for a month and a half by then so it cant be too too serious. Id like it to be something he can use and still get a laugh out of. [hes a funny person and likes to laugh] Any ideas for a funny but sweet gift for this boy??
Turning 14 years old.

well to make him laugh u could get him a big doll of stewie from family guy. That little guy always makes me laugh.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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what do guys like to hear from girls, get as gifts, places to go.. all that stuff.

What is one thing you wish everygirl would say to you, tell you, do for you, give to you.


this would help me and a lotta girlss out soo pleasee answerr and ill love you forever=)

Well guys like to hear when girls say i love you. boys like as gifts from girls is respect. Boys like to go to the movies, and out to restuarant. Boys also like it when the girls are spending time with them and talking to them.

Love,

Silent Kenny


P.S. I'll love you forever to

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i can only concentrate at night beacuse i've stayed up for a long time.

when i wake up i feel like ive been hit by a truck

i have bad allergies, never exercise and still dont sleep well

how do i fix my sleep schedule?

Eat healthy, sleep atleast 8-10 hrs a night, and try to excercise everyday for about 1 hr.

Sincerely,

Silent Gang

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ok. there is this guy that i have liek a HUGE crush on. lets just say his name is Bob. my best friend met him at this summer camp for music and they became friends. there like brother and sister kid of friends. but whenever i talk about bob or like i see him or if she sees me stare into a blank space (she knows what im thinking about) like she will burst out laughing. since they are like brother and sister kind of friend people she just cant seem to think anyone would like him. but i t gets really annoying because i mean she wont be there for me. she wont help me get to know him better and all she does is laugh. i have told her this that its annoying but she wont stop. what else can i do?

Evidently it doesnt seem like shes a real friend b/c friends would be there for you anytime.You should talk to "Bob" privately about how you feal about him.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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i need some music recommendations
i like just about everything, if it is good, which i guess it must be if you are recommending it

also cna you include the genre please/

thanx

Chamilionaire-Hip Hop/Rap
Nelly Furtado-Pop
The Fray-Pop Rock
Cam'Ron-HipHop/Rap
Kelly Clarkson-Pop Rock
DMX-Hip Hop/Rap
Tupac-Hip Hop/Rap
The Notorious B.I.G-Hip Hop/Rap


Sincerly,
Silent Kenny

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So, I have this friend who i've known for a long time now, that really really likes me. She tells me i'm beautiful, treats me really well, and even takes me out on dates to carnivals, movies, and the beach.
The problem is, I already have a girlfriend. I know that she loves me, and we've been going out for at least 5 months now. I love her SO much, but she often treats me horribly. At the very begginning of our relationship, she cheated alot, but she hasnt for at least 4 months. Now that i've cheated on her with this other girl, I've realized how much I truly love her. I'm not sure if I should stay with my current girlfriend, or break up with her and date this new girl. I'm less attracted to the new girl physically, but my old girlfriend talks down to me, and makes me feel low, and almost never takes me out on dates.
What shall I do?!

You should judge somebody by their personality not their physical appearance. The new girl treats you better and takes you out alot on the other hand your current girl isnt treatin you well. Even though your current girl is hotter i would rather have a girl that would treat me right.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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Well, This guy, whos a year older than I, is really confusing me. You see, weve known eachother for a few months, and at first, my friend claimed to really like him, but she.. Well, shes a skank. And, after awhile she started hating him, and I kept hanging out with him because we became close friends. He began to like me, and at that time I didnt like him back, and he told another friend of mine that he planned to ask me out, And my friend convinced him to wait awhile, and I showed signs of just wanting to be friends, because I didnt want to hurt him, and so he never asked me out. but, In the middle of all this, i realized that I really do like him a lot, but i didnt want to controdict myself.So eventually, we started losing touch, and he got a girlfriend. But then, one late night on aim, we stayed up the entire night talking, and now were closer than ever. He always tells me how special I am to him and how much he loves me, but he still has a girlfriend? I dont know.. I really think I love him. But, should I.. I dont know, what should I do? Before you answer this you should know, hes not your typical player, hes not very attractive and is like, reallllllly smart and not "nerdy" but .. leaning more toward that side. He has a charm to him, and I dont get it. I realllllllllllly need help. Should I tell him how I feel about this?

You should bring him somwhere you have privacy to explain to him how you feel bout this situation.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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i flirt around ALOT but when i reallyt like someone i tend to OBSESS over then. i like them for 1 or 2 yhears before i get over them. they see this as a turn off. i dont know what to do to stop obsessing with these boys. i kno they will not like me but i cannot help myself. if you have any advice on how to stop myself from falling in "love" with these boys or on a way to help them to like me back or on how to stop myself from obsessing pelase feel free to help. thansk a million!

hailey

Well you should not make it look like that you obsess them. Talk to them normal just like you would talk to your friends. Get to know the boys better.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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16/f
well me & this guy have been talking for about almost a month now and i really like him and he really likes me.. the problem is he doesnt want to be boyfriend and girlfriend because we live 20 minutes apart and he cant drive yet and he doesnt have a phone..but i rly want to go out with him and weve hung out like 4 times during the three weeks weve been talking. he just wants to see how the summer goes and keep hanging out. but the thing is that we act like were going out. we kiss and hug and call each other babe and tell each other we love them when we say goodbye and we hold hands everywhere.. and were supposed to hang out today around 1:00pm. i dont know what to do. he wants to do "things" which i wouldnt mind if we were going out but i dont know. im still a virgin and i wouldnt mind losing it to him cause he is such a nice guy and hes sweet and really funny. but i know i wont have sex with him unless we've been going out for a while.. i cant stand not talking to him and i miss him when i go places..we talk almost everyday cause his sister has a cell phone & when shes not home he is usually at his friends house on the computer and he always IM's me...what should i do?

you should go ova there but say we should take these things slower and get to know him better.then talk to him y you want to take your relationship slower.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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Upon reading so many other questions and having some of my own I decided to ask the guys out there specifically, (ladies you may answer as well) whether or not you can love more than one person at once. I guess you can substitute like for love as well but I am interested to see what you guys have to say about this. Obviously you can be interested in more than one person, but can you really have equal feelings for two people at the same time? So basically for you guys out there who have girlfriends and ladies who have boyfriends as well, can you love that person and still have equally strong feelings for another person who is not your current partner or is it merely a random attraction? What do you all have to say about this I am curious to find out. :) Cheers!

well you can set up dates with both of them and see which date u have a better time with.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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i need help with me and my boyriend...like i figured out what love was and love him and have since 5th grade and he feel da same way...now i don't know how to express my feelings towards him anymore...recently i was hurt by my ex and now i'm having trouble showing my feelings...does anyone have a way to help me express my feelings? I'm open for any suggestions!

Well if u really like this boy u should meet him somewere private and sort your fealings and troubles with him

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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do u get addickted to pot the first time u smoke it

my friend says shes done it 4 times and she gets tired after it or somethin and her eyes are all red

what are the indications that someones been on drugs. any drugs notj ust pot thanksss

a few signs are bloodshot eyes, tiredness, and easy being under other peoples influence.

Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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im putting together a dance party mix.

what songs can i include? also, how do you dance to those songs-is instruction included(like in dance slide it tells you what to do. except the cha cha is like random dancing, I think)

thakns peeps!

well you could add snap yo fingers and lean wit rock wit it those dances are pretty easy.



Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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There's this guy and me and him have been through a lot. We've known each other for about 4 years. We've gone out and gotten into a lot of fights. We made up and then I felt like he was using me. Like he would only call me when he was horny and wanted to have phone sex or for somehow me to turn him on. You might think I was stupid to even do it, but honestly I liked it bc it was w/ him. So I was talking to him the other day and he asked what's up and I'm like ugh bummed, some guy is using me. He kept asking who until I answered and finally I'm like you... I also so well at least that's how it makes me feel. Then of course the power goes out right after I said that so I had no idea what he was typing back to me. I went to a friends house that night and then I was talking to her on the phone a night later and he was online. I asked her to ask him to call me and he was really mean and was like no, I don't wanna talk to HER. Finally she got him to and he's like yeah but for only ONE minute. He calls me and I hang up, then I start to feel bad and call him back and he's like yeah what and then he makes up an excuse to get off the phone a sec later. So I hadn't talk to him since then which was like 4 nights ago. I called him yesterday and he was like what do u want? and I'm like umm nothing and he hung up. So I was stupid and called him back and was like why'd you hang up and he's like bc I DONT WANNA TALK TO YOU! I'm like ok well why are u so mad and when will you talk to me and he's like I don't know! Then hangs up and shit I said sorry. I called him back and was like come on! give me a break! and he's like God are you going to do this all night and keep calling me. I just wanna cry, I have the smalliest class ever and my "bestfriend" I won't go to for advice or comfort bc I don't want her getting involved and shit. I hate this boy and like him at the same time! I miss everything, everything we used to have and what happened last summer w/ him! I can't get over it! I don't know what to do! I have no one else!

well if he doesnt want to be with you and he is treating you this way you should try and move on with your life b/c you will find more people you will like. for now you should hang out with your friends and family... the peolpe that love and respect you.


Sincerely,

Silent Kenny

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