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16/f
well me & this guy have been talking for about almost a month now and i really like him and he really likes me.. the problem is he doesnt want to be boyfriend and girlfriend because we live 20 minutes apart and he cant drive yet and he doesnt have a phone..but i rly want to go out with him and weve hung out like 4 times during the three weeks weve been talking. he just wants to see how the summer goes and keep hanging out. but the thing is that we act like were going out. we kiss and hug and call each other babe and tell each other we love them when we say goodbye and we hold hands everywhere.. and were supposed to hang out today around 1:00pm. i dont know what to do. he wants to do "things" which i wouldnt mind if we were going out but i dont know. im still a virgin and i wouldnt mind losing it to him cause he is such a nice guy and hes sweet and really funny. but i know i wont have sex with him unless we've been going out for a while.. i cant stand not talking to him and i miss him when i go places..we talk almost everyday cause his sister has a cell phone & when shes not home he is usually at his friends house on the computer and he always IM's me...what should i do?
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you should go ova there but say we should take these things slower and get to know him better.then talk to him y you want to take your relationship slower.
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Silent Kenny
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It sounds like he wants to be friends with benefits.
He says he loves you and wants to do sexual things with you, yet he doesnt want you to be his girlfriend.
His excuse is so ridiculous! Because you live 20 minutes apart. You must know thats a really lame excuse.
20 minutes is absolutely nothing, you can walk it, go on the bus.
And because he doesnt have a phone. Yet you talk on the phone to him nearly everyday
Don't let him use you.
You should save your virginity for someone special, a proper boyfriend, who loves you.
You should find out what he really wants, if you really like eachother and want to be boyfriend and girlfriend, then living 20minutes apart is going to make no difference at all.
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