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This Stupid Guy!


Question Posted Monday July 24 2006, 3:06 pm

There's this guy and me and him have been through a lot. We've known each other for about 4 years. We've gone out and gotten into a lot of fights. We made up and then I felt like he was using me. Like he would only call me when he was horny and wanted to have phone sex or for somehow me to turn him on. You might think I was stupid to even do it, but honestly I liked it bc it was w/ him. So I was talking to him the other day and he asked what's up and I'm like ugh bummed, some guy is using me. He kept asking who until I answered and finally I'm like you... I also so well at least that's how it makes me feel. Then of course the power goes out right after I said that so I had no idea what he was typing back to me. I went to a friends house that night and then I was talking to her on the phone a night later and he was online. I asked her to ask him to call me and he was really mean and was like no, I don't wanna talk to HER. Finally she got him to and he's like yeah but for only ONE minute. He calls me and I hang up, then I start to feel bad and call him back and he's like yeah what and then he makes up an excuse to get off the phone a sec later. So I hadn't talk to him since then which was like 4 nights ago. I called him yesterday and he was like what do u want? and I'm like umm nothing and he hung up. So I was stupid and called him back and was like why'd you hang up and he's like bc I DONT WANNA TALK TO YOU! I'm like ok well why are u so mad and when will you talk to me and he's like I don't know! Then hangs up and shit I said sorry. I called him back and was like come on! give me a break! and he's like God are you going to do this all night and keep calling me. I just wanna cry, I have the smalliest class ever and my "bestfriend" I won't go to for advice or comfort bc I don't want her getting involved and shit. I hate this boy and like him at the same time! I miss everything, everything we used to have and what happened last summer w/ him! I can't get over it! I don't know what to do! I have no one else!

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Smile_be_happy answered Thursday July 27 2006, 7:52 am:
Hey there!
Omg..he sounds meann. Well, I can sort of relate to you. I like one of my best friend but he didn't like me and started saying mean things but we finally worked it out. I would say try that but apparently that's not working for you. So, what I suggest is just don't talk to him. If he really wants you, he'll call you or IM you whenever he cools down. And after maybe a week or 2 if he doesn't contact you try and go to his house and talk to him. But for now be around people that love and respect you and do something FUN! Like an amusement park! =] Good luck!

♥Paige

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SilentKenny answered Monday July 24 2006, 4:53 pm:
well if he doesnt want to be with you and he is treating you this way you should try and move on with your life b/c you will find more people you will like. for now you should hang out with your friends and family... the peolpe that love and respect you.


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Silent Kenny

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