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obsessing
i flirt around ALOT but when i reallyt like someone i tend to OBSESS over then. i like them for 1 or 2 yhears before i get over them. they see this as a turn off. i dont know what to do to stop obsessing with these boys. i kno they will not like me but i cannot help myself. if you have any advice on how to stop myself from falling in "love" with these boys or on a way to help them to like me back or on how to stop myself from obsessing pelase feel free to help. thansk a million!
hailey<333
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lol i feel the same way..theres not really a way to stop yourself from falling in love. I like guys for like 1 or 2 years. and i feel like i obsess over them..eventually you will move on. Maybe ask the guy you like to hang out or something sometime. hope i helped!! :]
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Well you should not make it look like that you obsess them. Talk to them normal just like you would talk to your friends. Get to know the boys better.
Sincerely,
Silent Kenny
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I don't think you can really keep yourself from starting to like someone, but obsessing I think you can control. I agree with the below answer (props to you!) but meanwhile try and take your mind off of them. Involve yourself with other things to get your mind off of them so much of the time. Get with friends, join a sports team. Just a suggestion... :) ems
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Hi Hailey,
Well it sounds more like your lusting, when your obsessing. Well what I suggest is, save your feelings and everything you feel about those crushes, for someone you know will deserve it. When you really fall in love. :) I know thats easier said than done, but try looking at it that way. When you start falling in lust and obsessing over a guy, remember to ask yourself why are you doing this? He's not going to like you anymore, they think its a turn off, and frankly you dont really know this guy at all enough to like him this much.
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