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AHHHH...I'm scared of tampons!!!! what should i do??? it makes it so i cant go swimming and im scard it will just HURT!!!!!! Like, I try to put them in, but then i spaz and get scared. what should i do?

Well first talk to your mom about it. I was scared the first time I tried, but then I spazed and talked to my mom and she helped. You can go swimming with a tampon and if its in right you won't feel it.

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Hi. My name is nickie. I'm 13 yrs. old and still haven't had my first kiss yet. There's this guy i really like and i'm goin to his b-day before the summer's over. I really wanna have my first kiss, and I'm pretty sure he likes me because we flirt all the time. Do you think I should go for it?

Don't go for it until you are positive that he likes you too. Then if he does, go for it, but don't rush into your first kiss because you first kiss should be romantic. Just make sure he likees you too.

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i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet?

Its totally normal! I had my first kiss at 13 and I got pressured to do it. You want your first kiss to be romantic, if you get peer pressured into it, the kiss probally won't be romantic. Mine wasn't. I was really uncomfortable when made out with him. Don't worry, you'll get your first kiss and it will be romanitic

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this is for everyone to answer.

what age did you have your first boyfriend? and what age did you have you first kiss?


i just wanna get some ideas. thanks.

my first kiss 13. my first boyfriend 11.

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