Hi. My name is nickie. I'm 13 yrs. old and still haven't had my first kiss yet. There's this guy i really like and i'm goin to his b-day before the summer's over. I really wanna have my first kiss, and I'm pretty sure he likes me because we flirt all the time. Do you think I should go for it?
xaskkdx answered Sunday July 23 2006, 10:47 pm: Don't go for it until you are positive that he likes you too. Then if he does, go for it, but don't rush into your first kiss because you first kiss should be romantic. Just make sure he likees you too. [ xaskkdx's advice column | Ask xaskkdx A Question ]
Advice-Girl-28 answered Thursday July 20 2006, 3:42 pm: Only go for it because you like him. Don't try to rush into your first kiss. I am 13 and I haven't had a boyfriend yet. It is because I want the first one to be someone I liked not someone I just went out with to have a boyfriend. So if you do like him then take him aside and tell him and then kiss him. If he doesn't like it why like him anyway, right??? [ Advice-Girl-28's advice column | Ask Advice-Girl-28 A Question ]
pootietang answered Thursday July 20 2006, 3:19 am: I don't think you should go for it. A first kiss isn't something that you plan. It just happens. I still haven't had mine, and believe me, I'm a couple of years older than you. It doesn't mean anything bad. That's like saying your a virgin when your 40 (lol), it isn't common but it's respected.
So many 13 year olds are desperately trying to get older by getting their first kiss and dating and having sex. The truth is, you're still a kid. You won't regret waiting, but you WILL regret kissing someone in middle school who 5 years from now you'll never see again. [ pootietang's advice column | Ask pootietang A Question ]
magicmann answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 9:41 pm: i think that you should get to know him better rather than tryin get your first kiss and not sayin that isn't great,just get to spend sometime alone with the bouy then flirt and a then focus about the first kiss. [ magicmann's advice column | Ask magicmann A Question ]
Cux answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 9:07 pm: Hi Nickie-
Your first kiss is important. Now I've had mine.. so I know how good it feels (wow.. that sounds weird..) but anyway.. you should first, before making a move, really make sure he likes you- have someone (one of your girl friends) go up to him, and ask if he likes you. If the answer is yes- eventually start talking to him and things will work out, and you'll have your first kiss right there- with a guy you like!
Let me know how it goes!
--Jack [ Cux's advice column | Ask Cux A Question ]
GUCCiGiRLXoXo answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 8:46 pm: I say go for it!! Just make sure he likes you for sure and when the moments right give him a kiss!! Good luck I hope you get your first kiss!!
xomegaroni answered Wednesday July 19 2006, 8:19 pm: if the time is right, go for it. you'll definately know when its right. if you don't know then it probably isn't the right time. if there's a bunch of people around & he seems busy it might be a bad idea. if it seems right, then definately go for it.
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