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my best friend.
sorry if its a little long.
Me and my best friend always fight. Like i know friends fight and stuff, but not like us. We are always yelling at each other. Well when we fight i just get mad at her but she gets REALLY mean. She will start sayin all this bad stuff about me and it really hurts my feelings. I dont think she understands that. Like today we got in a fight. she wanted me to go somewhere with her and i was like well im gonnabe honest and not make up a lie, i just dont really feel like going. Thinking that because i was telling the trush she would be like okay. But instepd she was like thats stupid your borring im gonnna invite someone elese your missing all the fun and like rubbing it in and all this stuff. I dont understand her and it makes me mad. I dont wanna keep fighing like this. what should i do?
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she is not ur best friend...at least not a true friend....try and hang out with some other friends and get some space or away time from her...eventually you guys need to have a talk and tell her how you feel
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you need a new best friend,it might be hard for you but that what it boils down too.your friend doint think your exciting,fun and nice anymore she probably gets tired of you.she takes advantage of you and it seems like you use to take her orders before and now you tell her something she dosen't wanna hear like the answer "no".
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Obviously shes imature.
Only a imature person would say something like that, either that, or shes hurt, so she tried to make you feel bad, so she bragged about it.
Next time she does that you need to say "I didnt mean to hurt your feelings, but I honestly dont feel like doing anything."
I also can see where your coming from, I've had people who've done that before too to me, and I'm like, what isyour problem? You cant FORCE someone to hang out with you if you dont feel like it. Right?
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this is a teenage thing. i'm guessing you're a teenager?? well anyways, friends (especially girls) do that a lot. juss try not to let it bother you. if she's your friend, she won't mean it & will come back & appologize each time. talk to her about it. you should tell her you really don't like fighting & if she values your friendship & wants to stay friends, she should try to stop & tell her that you will try too. if you are fighting that much, is she your friend?? it might be better if you guys didn't spend as much time together. maybe hang out with other people. another idea would be hanging out in a bigger group so you guys can talk & then talk to other people too. it might prevent you guys from fighting as much.
-hope that helped!♥
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