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I can't tell.
How do I tell what is acting interested in a girl and being annoying toward her? I work with this girl at a college we both go to and she went back home for the summer. I really care about her a lot and, if this isn't love, what the hell is? I call her about once every three days, I try to show I care, but not up in her business all the time. What do most girls like as far as calling and stuff like that? Also, what are a girl's signals? They claim they send them, but I have no idea what they are. Thanks, ladies.
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alright, as for what was mentioned, DONT bring up relationships yet. that could scare her away.
as far as ssignals go, if she smiles a lot when shes talking to you, or when shes around you, that is 9 times out of 10, a hint. not just an occasional smile, when you say something funny, but smiling a lot, eye contact is also a big hint. and please, make sure your eyes are on her, and not on something/somebody else. keep good eye contact, girls like good eye contact. she might touch you, just like your arm or shoulder or something, when shes talking to you, or wants to talk to you.
calling her BEFORE she goes to bed, is also a sweet thing girls like, wish her a good night and sweet dreams and such.
If she avoids you, thats an obvious hint to back off. I"m not sure if the staring type, but if she catches you starign at her, dont look away, just make eye contact with her and smile.
make sure you ask her about her day, and such like that, like i said earlier, keep it small talk, dont jump into talking about relationships or marriage oO that will deffinatly scare her away.
Alright, well, I hope i helped, and if you have any other questions, just drop it in my box.
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Well girls like it when you call them when its unexpected, or when you tell them you will call. But dont call on a certain day at a certain time so its so predictable, and when you call have something nice to say. Bring up something you guys talked about a long time ago, that will show her you were listening to what she was saying. Girls signals that she likes you, well obviously flirting, the way she moves her eyes (that you can tell a lot about) her overall body launguage, like if they arent intersted in you, they will blow you off, and be constantly smiling with their eyes shifty and slouched over, you know? Some of our signals arent that obvious, but that is the point. :)
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girls are..interesting i guess?? haha =) since i am one i can probably help you out. okay i constantly talk to my bf about this type of stuff & since we've been together for awhile hes getting the hang of it. there is a huge difference between calling a lot & calling not enough. since you aren't dating, i think it's fine that you call her once every 3 days. if you do start dating, obviously you want to do it daily. you can tell by her tone if you're annoying her. if you call & she says hey! how are you, then yeah shes glad you called. if you call & she says hi & you have to guide the convo, you called at the wrong time. i don't think girls hide things that easily. like if she doesn't want to talk to you, she'd probably let you know directly er indirectly. depending on her personality. girls each have different signals. there's usually the strong flirts where you can tell er the shy, hard to get ones. a lot of my friends play with their hair when they like the guy er laugh a lot, especially if he's making a nonfunny joke. a lot of girls go and touch his hand er shoulder er something. i'm definately not saying all girls do this. it's juss what i would do & so would my friends. you might want to start talking to her about this if you're planning to get into a relationship. good luck!
-hope that helped!♥
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