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i didnt even do this yet :[


Question Posted Sunday July 23 2006, 12:20 am

i havent even made out with a guy yet. like ive been planning on to, but i guess it just hasnt happend. a few times i got peer pressured into it, but i would back away cause i dont wanna everyone there watching. i just get uncomfortable. i just want it to be the right moment with the right guy. and im only 13. is that normal that i havent hooked up with a guy yet?

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vikkikimberly answered Tuesday April 8 2008, 9:28 am:
HEy!
Never Be PRessured Into Sumthing You Realy Dont Want TO DO...
My First Kiss Was Whe I Was 14n 1/2
But Dont Go Round Kissing Anyone... Or Anyway
Whait For The right Guy At The Right Time... IT Has To Be Special

ForMe It WAs With A Guy Called Jay... At My AutieWedding.. On The Dancefloor.. Slowdancing TO Angels - RObbie Willams

For My Friends It Was In The Rain Before She Went OnHoliday For A Week To France.. When She Was 15

HEy Everyone Is Different

Good Luck. And Take CAre
xXx

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KayDooDILoveYou answered Sunday July 23 2006, 11:43 pm:
Its totally normal... i was 13 when i had my first kiss and at the time i thought i was weird or something... but if you just wait until the perfect time it will be worth it...

<3

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xaskkdx answered Sunday July 23 2006, 10:32 pm:
Its totally normal! I had my first kiss at 13 and I got pressured to do it. You want your first kiss to be romantic, if you get peer pressured into it, the kiss probally won't be romantic. Mine wasn't. I was really uncomfortable when made out with him. Don't worry, you'll get your first kiss and it will be romanitic

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MummuM answered Sunday July 23 2006, 8:42 pm:
Lots of girls your age haven't had their first kiss yet, either. Don't think you're the only one, because you aren't. Everyone takes time to have thier first kiss. Some get it when they're 12, others when they're 16 and some even only get their first kiss when they're 18. It just depends on the person and if they're ready or not. It doesn't really matter if you didn't have your first kiss, yet. You're only 13, hun. You have tons of time! When your first kiss comes, it should be with someone special that you care about and you want to kiss. You always remember your first kiss. So, don't get pressured into it. Make sure you're 100% comfortable with the person you're kissing. Give it time, though. You're first kiss will come and it'll be that much more special when it does. &hearts;

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kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS answered Sunday July 23 2006, 6:59 pm:
its perfectly normal if you havent hooked up with a guy yet. your still young you have plenty of time to do all those things like making out.
never have people peer pressure you into things though UNLESS its what you want.When the time is right you will make out with a guy. it doesnt have to happen right away.


kOOl_aDviCe_aLwayS

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Vikki27 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 8:31 am:
Oh yes, it's absoloutely normal.

You know, I'm 21 now and I didn't have my first kiss (of any kind) until I was 17 and it was my best friend, turned boyfriend, who I am now living with.

I used to feel EXACTLY the same way as you do now. I'd see all my friends going out with all these guys and kissing them all the time and feel so left out and miserable. I always thought there must be something wrong with me! Then, I went to a school disco and danced with a guy who first tried to grope me and then tried to kiss me. I didn't know his name, his age or anything and that was when I realised...

What was I jealous of?? My friends were getting guys and kissing them, sure. But why would I want to waste my first kiss on some guy I'd never met and would never see again just because all of my friends were? I wanted my first kiss to be something I would always remember and feel happy about, unlike my friends, most of whom said their first kisses were awful!!

I know you feel like you're being left on the shelf but you only get one first kiss. Don't let your friends make you feel you have to waste it on some random guy, instead of someone you truly care about and WANT to kiss. Be strong and stand up againt peer pressure. It's a waste of time to go along with things just because your friends are and believe you me, that is not the way to find your happiness.

You'll know when the right guy comes along, don't worry.

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hannahd answered Sunday July 23 2006, 6:13 am:
Yeah, definitely don't just make out with anyone jut because you're that desperate to say you've made out before. Wait till you find a guy you like & a place where you can be alone & comfortable together.

& yeah, it's totally normal for you to not have experienced it yet; you're only 13. Pshh, I was getting close to 18 before I ever made out with anyone. It's worth it to wait for the right time & right person, even if you end up havin to pass up a lot of opportunities.

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ThugGirl041790 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 4:15 am:
Hey sweetie;;
I can completely relate to you..
I kept thinkin that i should kiss a guy cuz everybody else was && that i should have a boyfriend && stuff..But honestly i wasn`t ready i was too shy && the guy defiantly wasn`t the right person..
So yeah i waited had a couple boyfriends nothin real serious && never did it lead to kissing or anything til i was 15.. Yeah some people might consider that too old but i`m so happy i waited that long && didn`r rush.. I`m 17 now && still with the same guy that i waited for..
I`m not saying this will happen to you [[I mean it could]] But my point is i think its okay to wait as long you want for the right guy && don`t rush things..
Everyhting should be perfect even the first kiss

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sn0wstarrx09 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 2:33 am:
No, It's totally normal. I didn't have my REAL first kiss until i was just about to turn 14. So don't worry it's normal!!
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Xo_DaNcErDaNiEllE_oX answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:45 am:
Theres nothing wrong with that! I mean really girls shouldnt hook up until they r older but still thats perfectly normal that you havent hooked up with a guy yet!

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orphans answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:12 am:
Seriously, there's nothing at all wrong with that. Save your first real kiss for someone special. I did, and I was 13, and I don't regret it at all because I love the person still very much and even though the kiss was terrible, it was with someone wonderful. Ignore the other kids, they're stupid sluts. By the way, "hooked up" means you slept with someone.

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Brandi_S answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:10 am:
There's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You are exactly right in wanting to wait for the right guy and the right time. How can it be special to you if you do it because your friends try to tell you to?

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OooSooPreppyX3 answered Sunday July 23 2006, 1:09 am:
It is COMPLETELY normal!
I think that your first kiss should be romantic,I mean it's your first kiss!
If someone's pressuring you into something you don't want to do, don't do it.
Some of the prettiest girls I know didn't want to kiss their boyfriend until they were like 16.
It is normal!

Hope I helped. NEed More on this topic? Inbox me.

&hearts; Christina

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