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does age matter?
So i really liek this kid thats 2 years older than me..and i think he might have an interest in me..but we used to be able to talk for hours and now..when he signs on i get a weird feeling in my stomach..and i can never get him off my mind. and now i dont know how to IM him. I really like him..and his one close friend said he did. But, i dont know if i should get more info out of his friend or not. Please help!
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If you really like him then yes get more info on him,I think that in some cases age does matter but when two people love each other,want to be together then it doesn't because that is a strong bond that not even age can get in the way of that strong love.
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I'm not saying that his friend is lying but sometimes, you should always believe other people. It's a lot more accurate if you do it yourself. Just say, "Hey." in the IM and see what he says.
It's not gonna hurt to flirt a little. Flirting is a good thing and gives them the HINT to ask you out to make it more obvious.
Don't THROW yourself at him or whatever. Just be cool. Be yourself! :-]]
Act like you're into him and he'll start getting interested in you and nature will take it's course from there.
Whatever happens just happens and whatever doesn't wasn't meant to be. It's that simple.
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Just talk to him. It's easier than it looks. lol.
It's not embarrassing or anything. You're just making conversation and if he's mature, he'll know that and take it to heart.
Be flirty but not "I love you"ish just yet. Be confident but not cocky. :-)
With this advice, you should do fine! :-]]
If you need anything else, you know where yo find me! ♥
♥ Kayla
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hey,
I know how it feels to really love someone, care for him, and be so attached to him, that when he is away for a while, its exactly as if your heart was broken. But why waste all my time thinking of someone and running after him, when there could be a possibility that he is just busy with something and that he will be back soon, talking to you and hanging out and having fun. Sometimes, we can't do everything, and we have to wait a while, till everything falls down in place where it should be.
So i am suggesting that you give this situation sometime,you may have to wait alot and maybe not. but either ways, its not in your hand to do anything, and don't ask his freind because he probably goes and tells him about you ,and he may think that you are so desperate, and guys don't like that. So just act cool and natural, and hang in there for a while. And if you finally succeed in IMing him, then you could maybe ask him if you could hang out together or something, and have some fun. Then when he knows you much better, he could make a step forward and ask you out or something, then you wouldn't be having this weird feeling in the pit of your stomach, but you will be happy to have him with you and to own him, no more running after him.But then again you have to go back and know the reason that made you together, and its because you gave the situation sometime, and you didn't sound desperate, but you simply acted cool and natural.
So try to consider what i said, and don't try to force yourself on him. You are sweet, loving and caring person, so take advantage of that in a good way, and use it right.
And if you need any other advice or help. Then please be free to contact me. Goodluck:)
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OMG i do that too. ill be like "no i wont IM him.. hes probaly talking to a thousand people" then later on, ill be mad at myself i didnt IM him, & then when i do, we have so much fun talking to eachother. if his friend says he likes you, he probaly does. why would his friend make that up? yano? well just IM him say hey, & just tell him about your day & stuff..ask his friend more about it.
hope that helped ! kbye
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I wouldn't trust what other people say. You should ask him yourself. You could email him asking him if he likes you. Or just wait for him to make a move and just to let you know age doesn't matter. Go with who you love/like. It doesn't matter what other people say just as long as he makes you laugh and feel good inside.
The Best
Austin
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Hey!
2 years isnt bad, i say go for it.
Now for the IMing thing. Just start out the conversation with a simple hey or hello whichever appeals to you. and then just see how it goes, if him liking you comes up, dont go away or sign off, take a deep breath and try to chill out, because i know you'll get excited or butterflies, it's happened to me.
I think you should casually ask around from some of his friends. Just talk to them and casually bring up, "do you know who ((whatever his name is)) likes?" and if they say "idk" just be like, "oh ok, maybe you can find out for me?" or something along those lines!
Hope I helped!!
♥Paige
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I think I've answered like 5 of these questions already lol; NO AGE ISN'T NOTHING BUT A NUMBER! If you think he is interested go for it! Who knows, he could like you. 2 years isn't a big difference.. Trust me, I know from first hand. Be available, but not desperate. Talk about him alot. Don't be shy though because guys hate that. Guys also don't like girls who are too quiet, too shy, or slutty. They like innocent girls who don't have too much experience. Be flirtacious with him, but at the same time let him know that if he doesn't like you, act like you don't care. Let him know he can trust you, and count on your friendship. Boost your appearance for when you see him as well! And be calm about talking about him.. think about it. He's just a guy! Yeah you like him, but if you get too nervous you will act extremely dumb!
Hope I helped! <3
sincerely, Abby
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