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A friend problem...
i have a friend who has scary dreams..really scary dreams and he told me about one that one of his close family member got cut and the next day found a cut on her arm.hes really getting scared and doesnt want to tell anyone else about this ive told him to tell a parent but hes only told me.and i dont kno how to help him ive told him all i kno about telling somone who can help but he doesnt want to.
any ideas
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tell him its for his and his familys safety and say hey i really care about you and i dont want this to take over a part of your life you dont deserve this you really need to get help and im saying this because i care.
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hmmm , sounds like a case of deja vu.
Many people who have dreams like that should deffiently see a physciatrist or a theropist to talk about their dreams and effects. Also, another way to prevent things like that , is to not think about things like that. Tell him to think about different stuff then he's usually been thinking about , it can deffinetly change!
Good luck to him!
-- Kendra
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This could be a special talent. He shouldn't hide it. I don't really believe in psychics (however you spell that!) but you never know. He could be but just in dreams. So if something really bad happens in a dream to someone he knows or loves he should definetly tell someone! You should keep trying to get him to tell. You're being a good friend :)
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My cousin had something like this happen... she had a dream that our grammie had something wrong with her heart or chest or something and then in the morning she went to go see her and she was fine but she still had a feeling something was wrong so my cousin put her hand on my grammies heart and prayed for her and the next day or two my grammie got a call from the doctor telling her that she needs to start taking medication for cist they found. Weird stuff happens like that... I'm not really sure what you can do to stop it. I've heard that if you eat food (mostly junkfoods) before you go to bed you tend to have scary dreams. But maybe it was just coincidence that she had a cut on her arm.
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The truth is some dreams you have actually come true.Tell him the dangers of keeping this and not seeking help,you should get him a book about dreams to be able to explain better of why these dreams come to reality.Also he should go to the doctor to give some special pills to not have nightmares anymore.
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ok well this kid might be sleep walking for example he might dream of cutting someone and was sleep walking and cut her honestly thats the most sensable souloution either that or a horrible coinedence haha..i dont think whatever he dreams of would come true my brother sleep walks also and might dream of drinking milk and gets up and drinks milk and the next day wed tell him that he wokr up at5 in the morning to drink milk and he wouldnt remeber sometimes he evern gets up and grabs my arm stares at me and goes to sleep and he wont remeber the next morning and he would just dream of that so i think hes just sleep walking but they family memebers should watch out for him cuz the next time might not be a cut..
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well you can't force him to do anything he doesn't want to do. maybe get someone he is close to that he can talk to and feel comfortable talking to. if it realy gets out of hand you should tell an adult ASAP!
-Bess
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