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ok, 14/f. ok. long story short- my parents freaking drive my insane. i'm not even kidding. they are CRAZY. for example. this just happend like, 10 min. ago. today i went to target, and i got a new showercurtain for my closet door. i know, it sounds weird- a showercurtain for a closet door, but its acutally pretty cool. anyways, my room is tropical, so i got a vinal showercurtain. when i took it out of the package, it smelled pretty strong. so my mom and i go into my room to hang it up. we hang it up and my room smells really strong. so my parents are getting ready to go to bed, and i'm on the computer and talking to my friend on the phone, and i see my dad coming through the back door with my showercurtain. and i said "what are you doing?!" and he and my mom was like "you have asthma, it is too strong for you.. bla bla bla. " so i start getting really pissed because they shouldn't be able to just go into my room, and take down my stuff. like seriously? wtf?? omg the drive me nuts. so my dad takes the curtain out to the grage and hangs it up somewhere. well, it is a grage, and it is dirty, so it will get dirty out there. and my parents are just like "it needs to air out" so now i'm going to spend $15 for something that is going to get dirty. my parents do stuff like this ALL OF THE TIME. they always team up against me, and never listen to what i have to say. i feel like i'm just here for.. well, i don't know why i'm in this world. my parents drive me so nuts, i never tell them anything. like what goes on in school, when i'm having problems with a friend or somthing. i just don't know what to do anymore. i've delt with this for a while, and i just need some help. so any advice?? please??! thanks so much! (link)
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Ok so basically your angry because you bought a shower curtain that was to strong to be put in your room because ur parents wer afraid YOU might get sick (rember that i said YOU might get sick not them they are worried for you not for themselves)and put it in the garadge which it can air so the next day you can wash it and put it back in your room but actually not get sick off it?...Now does that make any scense to you..your parents arent teaming up against you they were Deciding what is best for you..Thats why theyre called parents i bet if you relied in them more things would go smoother in your household please stop acting as if the world hates you and actually try to see things from there point of view i mean you are theyre daughter..your like a pet just more precious haha treat them as you wana be treated remember they wil be there when noone will..please before you fight with them takl to them as an adult and theyl see you more responsible and might let you have more freedom patience is the key to every problem my friend
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i have a really immature and pathetic problem thats made up of a few little problems. but it's REALLY bothering me and stressing me out.
this part isnt really a problem; two days ago the most amazing, sweetest thing happened to me. "matt" is my best friend. he means everything to me. i am so comfortable with him, can be myself around him, can tell him anything, and our relationship is so important to me. it's so hard to do that with anyone else because i'm kind of shy and insecure. but matt gives me butterflies (link)
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write me in my inbox..il give u al teh help you need but i cant answer your question publicly because alot of my friends use advicenators and they know who i am and for me to help you i cant let my friends read it because they dont know haha im soryy i just went thorugh the same thing about 1 week ago it ended and i know exactly how to solve it for you but it would take patience and time if your wiling to take it all a step at a time..il pray for you also best of luck and write my inbox if your considering my help if not its all good ..bye
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Okay, I'm a 14 year old female.
I've been masturbating since the summer.
See, on here, I've asked many questions and I always recieve the same answer, "Nothing is wrong with you, it's healthy." And sure, you say my friends are doing it but want to keep it personal, okay. Well I DON'T want to masturbate. The thing is, I don't know how to stop without getting urges or having the temptation to do it again, because I've tried fighting that and it's not helping. Please, help me. I don't want to be the monster I am anymore. (link)
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Just dont..its that simple..foreal..when you want to jus totaly ignore it make urself more useful into doing something else..DO NOT! lay down when you have the urge cal up a friend, go online,anythin that wil take your mind off it and youl get used to it ..best of luck
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19/F
Ok this seems long and soap-opera-ish but please bear with me. I’ve gotten rid of some of the details to make it shorter but please tell me if it isn’t clear enough. And please don't rant at me about being a cheating b**** or anything. I know I am a bad bad person. I just need you to tell me what to do.
Nate has always been the typical "rich bad boy" type. He gets a pack mentality when he is with his boys so he’s labeled an official ***hole. He's had a pretty bad past and when you get him alone, he’s different. He and I go a few years back when I wasn't into the party scene, and it got around that he "wanted" me. I shot that down and he gave up. I've been intrigued by him (i.e. had a crush on him) and we always used to exchange looks all the time at school and parties and I could feel the sizzles (but wasn’t sure it was mutual). Only last year did we start talking a bit inside and outside school. Then I finished school and didn’t see him.
In May, I met Blake. He’s ridiculously good-looking, the sweetest guy ever, and a cook. I didn’t think he was into me so I backed off then recently, Blake started showing interest in me and I was thrilled. We were perfect for each other, our life goals and views were the same, we had minor arguments sometimes, which ended with practically no resentment on either end, and we always made up quickly. It was the perfect relationship. I was still a virgin but he understood because he had only been with one chick (his year-long girlfriend in grade 11).
End of last year, Nate and I ended up at a party together. I was hammered out of my mind and we had sex in a bedroom. It was harsh to the point that he did it, shoved me away and left. I was broken after. Eventually, I told Blake and he was mostly sad for me and he did whatever he could to make me feel better. Including sex and it was just like the rest of our relationship, comfortable.
Then one day, Nate showed up at my house after I saw him at the mall and went home all shaken up. We had sex. We have had sex about five times now altogether. Usually it’s when I’m vunerable. It’s pretty much casual sex but it is explosive as in really really hot, stuff I thought didn’t exist outside novels. Blake and I haven’t even come close, even though there is some sizzle, it isn’t comparable. Told Blake once and he was mad but he came back and told me he’d still have me and he didn’t understand. Usually Nate just has sex with me and sticks around for a while and leaves but one time, he actually stayed after and kissed my face and stuff.
This is what confuses me. Blake and I are perfect for each other and it’s not a completely devoid of sexual drive either but when I’m with Nate, it feels right like it’s exactly where I belong.
I’m just so afraid of hurting Blake. I want to stay with him but at the same time, I feel like puking when I think about what a disgusting unfaithful slut I’m being. And I’m pretty sure Nate doesn’t want a relationship. I just don’t know what to do anymore. I don’t want to look back twenty years from now and regret it. I know that bad boy’s can’t be tamed but I know his history and I kind of still ache for Nate but Blake is just perfect.
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to tell you the truth...all in all your an idiot im not tryin to be nasty or mean im telling you the way your behaving with this situation is idiotatic it doesnt take a genious to see tht nate is usuing you yes your what they call friends with benifits or your his sex buddy he doesnt respect or care for you at all he obviously lost all respect for you he sees you easy and knows you are volnurable and thinks you somehow "need" him the kind of guy who would use you and then go sleep with other girls and tel his friends about a girl he finds easy and would do anything with him because he is irrestiable...is that what you want to be? someones slut story?? do you have any idea how much your hurting this blake guy? i mean he is givin you chances which is why your doing all this if he had not forgivin you the first time you would have known better and not done anythin wrong again but he did..he gave you chances you didnt deserve and your blwoing it for someone who doesnt love or respect you against someone who seems to respect you even though your not really deserving it..Girls always ask why isnt a guy respectin them or why dont i get a perfect guy because you blow it over for guys who wil use you ..girls like this give other respctful girls bad names..dont you want to be a role model to al the other girls who think they need a man to feel better?? At this moment you feel you need lots of attention is why your feeling so volnerable in the first place..but blake is the kind of guy that wouldnt cheat on you that wil be there to help you through the hardest times in your life and promise that hell make it better nate is the kind of guy when the tough get goin he'll run because you mean nothing to him he knows hes keepin you around as his own device and lord knows how much other girls hes doin this too..you can have something amazing with blake and i think you do but please do not reuin it do not let al men think girls are sluts and arent loyal because your body is precious and a women is gold why throw away something so precious then give it to someone youl love and live ur whole life with and the person wil find themselves so lucky cause hes the ONLY one who can see your beauty..im sure your a beautiful girl and im sure you have much to offer to the world but live it with your world partner apologize to blake and tel him how sory you are and that youl change start a new page forget your past,forget it ever happend!! this is your new begging no more regrets...dont let anyone play you for a fool your a women you are suposed to be respected and you do not need two men to make you feel like that just one man youl love and need forever..i hope i helped sry this is long but its a wake up call.take this advice as if its y ourlast chance..i hope it all clears bye
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ok...she really likes this guy. and it really is my freind. and shes really confused about whether she should go out with him or not. and its getting so annoying because its like...all she talks about and im really starting to hate it. alllso. we've been best friends since we were two...and weve always been really close..but ever since last year, shes been acting really weird and like...she wont hug me or joke around in a close way but she will with almost everyone else and its really getting annoying. wtf. im just gunna get some new friends. (link)
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if all she ever talks bout is him tell ehr its getting annoying if its really getting to you but remember your the person she opens up to and tells her secrets to it only just means she trusts you and bout hugging and kissing everyone else otehr then you well i guess some people are just liek that for exapmle me and my friend were sooo close young always hugging and stuff but now were so used to eachother we dont even do that anymore but we do it with otehr people becuase we dont wana seem rude and even though sometimes i dont want to hug some people i have to not to seem rude but with her i dont have to because ill just tell her no...do you get me? just talk to your friends you should never loose any of ur friends no matter how theyve become speak to them why loose a friendship of a life time over this it isnt wortth it every problem has a solution just solve this problem ....peace
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Ok This Guy At My School Asked Me Out About 2 Weeks Ago And He Said He Loved Me And Would Never Break Up With Me That If We Were Gonna Break Up I Would Have To Do It. Well He Broke Up With Me A Couple Days Ago And I Really Want Him Back. But I Tried Asking Him Why He Broke Up With Me And He Said He Couldn't Tell Me So Wat Should I Do ??? (link)
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ok well my guesses are he could have heard something bad about you like someone had told him a rumor of you like "shes cheating on you" or something like that or it could be some guys are just a-holes and get bored with their old girlfriends and just move on my suggestion is if he isnt man enough to tell you then forget him and try to find anyone else who can tell you what you think happened..just if he really wont be man enough to tell you he wasnt worth it to beggin with
Peace
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I like this boy.
I allways have.
I toke a risk just by sitting by him in class b/c I was new to that class and I got to choose who I was gonna sit by. at first I was neveros so I sat next to the girl who was like two seats away. and then the next day, Her back-pack was there so I sat by him he asked "what are you doiong?" and i said sitting here b/c that girl has her bag there. that was a good excuss. then we started talking like crazy about everything and the other kool thing was my BFF was right accross from me. and on one a assignment we had to choose a partner a diffrent gender. he choose me right away. Now I am homschooled. when my crush found out my BFF said he seemed really sad and whatev. and I went through all this planning 2 get his number. Then on the same day my BFF was going 2 get it 4 me, he asked her "So does LAnie call you alot?" and my BFF said "Not alot but we call 2 say hi" and he asked "So can I have her number?" and my bff said yea. and she gave it 2 him! and he called. he allways askes when r u comming back 2 school? and not very often but at rare time's he's like so do you like anyone? and if I have a party and I say guy name's he's like "who's he?" for each guy. and once i was going out with somone and my crush found out. and he told me he has a girlfriend. and I'm like ok... then I broke up with him and my crush is like me and my g/f broke up she moved away. and Im like ok w/e.recently he asked me if I liked anyone I said idk, then I asked him and he said no. but i dont know if he's telling the truth.....
does he like me??? (link)
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im not sure really it sounds like he does like you mabey he was just to shy to say anything bout it sometimes guys are like that and would say no some guys are shyer then the others
Peace
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Hi...I liked this guy for 3 years now.And everyday at school i see him in the hallway and he sees me 2.Iwant to know 2 things.
1.How do i get him to notice me without him knowing?
2.How do i know if he likes me?
Thanx 4 your help!
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to get him to notice you without him knowing im not very sure about but how you know if he likes you..
He smiles at you alot
stares at you
flirts with you
Sometimes shy with you (if hes one of those shy guys)
and brings up something you said in the past...means hes intrested in you...
kk good luck!
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i have no idea if this is in the right section so sorry if wrong but any way my question is i want to be nice guy it comes to a relationship like i want to love, respect my partner without thinking stuff like ooh man i cant wait to bang her.... i want to love her for her personality for me that would be the most perfect thing in a girl if they had a great fun sense in thier personality but recently i looked at a girl and thought wow shes hot then i litterly had a gob smacked face on me and thought omg am i turning into a dirt bag who only goes for looks i would hate to be like that please help me as i am kinda running it around in my mind for ages and i told a few of my girl mates and thier faces changed as i started on what i thought i dont wonna be like this please tell me sumin like its a one off but if you beg to differ plleeaaaase tell me i am a dirt bagged pile of sh!t and should try to change, thanks (link)
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ok well everyone goes for everyone for looks honestly if someone had told me they dont go for looks i would call them the biggest lier ever ok im sorry but the person cannot look like the end of a shoe everybody has to go for someone thats atleast A lil attractive or atleas OK looking but im sure if the person was ass ugly you wouldnt go for them mabey someone else would find them, attractive thats the way the world works i think its sweet that you dont want to look like at women like their an object but aleats find someone with looks and personaility with both! or she doesnt have to be HOT but she can be ok so later on belive me when you start to really like her,then love her,youll see her as if shes the most beautiful girl in the world..so dont feel bad its good that you care.
PeAcE.
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Dear Advicenators-
Well this school year is my first time in highscool. I have 6 best friends.. and it seems like i'm the prudest. I've always been so over protective and i havnt even kissed a guy yet! I mean I'm not ugly... i dont wanna be snobby but im pretty. All my friends are hooking up with these new kids... and i feel like out of place. haha. I dont know how to explain it. I mean I guess it's because there are no new hot kids in my classes; because when i go to parties and talk to guys there, they always flirt with me and stuff and they ask for my number and stuff. can anybody give me tips to be more flirtaciuos and open minded.. haha. Well, basically.. i just need advice : ( thanks (link)
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Honestly in my opinion i think its very good what your doing and dont worry about not being kissed because almost everyone i know hasent either its good that your not cheap or show guys that because that way theyll take u serious and learn to respect you and mabey mister right will come later but right now in highschool most guys are kids and only want one thing...so i say stay the way you are till later because if you want to be with anyone it should be with the man you love and always be with
Hope i helped peace
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I broke up with my bf of nearly 4 years about 3 months ago. He was emotionally and mentally abusive to me. I had been in councelling for a while and I thought I had nearly got over him. Well yesterday I decided to sign up for a dating site. I actually received about 4 responses to my profile. Instead of contacting these guys that wrote me; I got freaked out and deleted my profile. Does anyone know what is wrong with me? (link)
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you'r afraid that these guys will also be the way your ex boyfriend was to you.
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i'm srry this is really long but i need elp i'm so confused
ok so i was looking throuh our pictures one day and i found one of my sisters class from 4th grade so she went on myspace and looked if anyone had one and she found a named Quinten and so she talked to him for a while and then she left her messanger on one day and he started talking while i was on the computer and so i told him that she left it signed on and that it was her sister so we talked for a while then after that we started talking alot and i was kind of tartng to like him and then he said he liked me but he couldnt tell me before cause he thought it would rec our friednship and so i told him i liked him to and so we decided to try a long distance relationgship then we started talking everyday and the more i talked to him the harder it was to stop talking to him and everytime i see he is on or i get an offline message from it makes me really happy and for a while everythime i talked to him or thought about him wich was alot i started shaking now i told him about it and he said it was cause i wasnt getting anough sleep and something about my muscles and stuff but then i got more sleep and i was still shaking and he started syaing it was cause i kept thinking about him and stuff and i wanted to know if anyone might know why i was shaking?? and if i do love him?? and whether the long distance relationship will wokr i mean we are planning on actualy hooking up after high school and do you think it would be bad if we ad bfs or gfs until we actualy hook up???i'm soo confused help me please and if it would be easier to talk on aim or yahoo messanger my aim is everyonesproblem@aim.com and yahoo is For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com (link)
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i think i might have an idea why this is happening but it is easier to talk to you on yahoo or aim so i can eatheir talk to you on there or you can send one of those private questions and i can help you through..best of luck..peace
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i just got diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder. can somebody give me a way to cope with the kids that make fun of me in class when i cant answer a question or pick up where we left of reading?! i just wanna punch them, but i know i would get suspened. all my friends abandoned me so i dont no who to go to for advice. thanks, i rate high (link)
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ignoring wont work....look this isnt anything you cant control..youll get used attention defict disorder..surprisingly about 60 % of american teens have this or ADHD...and they grow out of it...3 of my friends have them..my best friends...look you got to control it,,,just sit down and concertrate..theres pills for this btw tht i think your doctor already prescribed,anyhow the kids cant hate you for it,tell them its something noraml to lose concertration,.,i dont have ADD and i cant conetrate...its so noraml..catch them not conctrating and use it on them laugh at them when they make fun of you and tell them how childish they are ,about ur mom talk to her,,tell her watch DR .PHIL haha,,no serisuly he was talking about it recently haha anyways add and adhd is so common for teens,,out of 10 there is atlest 2 or 3 tht have it,,,so its nothing really,,,take care and just smile back to the world :D
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Where do I start? life is really bad.
I'd kill myself but im a coward.
I've cried myself to sleep every night the past year, i cant say it feels like anyone heard me cry for help or helped me at all.. so where do I go from here with my religion? what do I do? Why is the devil putting me through this (assuming its him) and howcome G0d isnt helping?
help me find answers please. (link)
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In some point life is really bad for everyone...some people are happy now and then go through hell later on and some people go through hell now and have the great life later on theres always a time where life sux like hell but you just have to be patient..its been 4 years for me and i know you cant wait that long but who says you have to you never know you might wake up tomorrow so happy...did you really ever ask God for help? or are you just waiting for him? If you walk to God..God runs to you...walk to God and if i was you id ask him for help on your religion ask God to truely point out the true religion for you,,read about diffrnet religions and try to understand them youll feel so amazed at the end when you choose the right one..and God will help you through it all but pray to God if you truely need his help...your going through a horrible stage of depression and the smallest things can make you feel like you no longer want to live i know exactly how you feelbut have more faith in God and use my advice and if you need anything write me and ill help you the best possible way i can..i hope the best for you and just be a little more patient i promise you something good will come out of this no matter what situation your in theres awlays a lesson to learn =) stay smart dont do anything stupid byez
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I'm 14/f and a freshman in Highschool. I was my first highschool dance the other night and tons of seniors wanted to grind with me. I didn't really mind cause I wasn't overdoing it. The first guy I danced with though eventually asked me when we were dancing "Do you want to go somewhere else?" and I really didn't want to have sex (I'm a virgin) so I said 'no'. Then he said "okay it was nice to meet you.", he shook my hand, and walked away. I have no idea why, but all night I felt really bad for him. I know it's dumb cause it's like 'I feel bad because I didn't have sex with him like he wanted'. Do you know why I feel this way? What do you think I would have ended up doing if I did? (blowjob, just sex, fingering, ect.)
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well dont worry because he obviously wanted to do something sextual with you and the guys an asshole because once you said no he nice to meet you and left just because you didnt want to do anything with him so he should feel bad because he was only intrested into doing it with you rather then knowing you for who you are and talk and have a good time with you...you getting my point here? ok well dont feel bad just be happy you had a great time..peace
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ok,i have this friend and she is my bff and i have a problem...ok,she is friends with this grrl lets call her sam and they hated each other at first and now they have some how gotten rly close and im ok with thatright,and i feel like every time i cant conme over or hang out with her she will say sumthin rude n start talkin rly good about sam* and like i want to go to a concert coming up and i wanted to take my good friend lets call vicki* becxuz she likes this person more than my bff and soo she got all mad and started sayin i bet SAM* would go such n such with me instead of some ppl i no n it rly pisses me off....they r possed to hang tommorrow and SAM* wanted me to come but she lied n said on no shes doin sumthin..wut should i do?????is she rly a bff?and she has also lied ALOT in the past.... (link)
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well your best friends never lie to you..i mean mabey a white lie or a small lie sometimes but a lie to get out of something with you they never do..rember if she can lie once she can lie again so confront about her lieing dont let her lie to you all the time and let it go just tell her that she has to stop lieing espacially if she considers herself your "best friend" shes not worth being your best friend if she cant be honest...peace
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i cut i do it because i am stressed life is really hard right now for me and i just have the desire to cut and i think it is time and find a better emotional outlet.i am not doing this for mysellf i am doing it for my friend she cuts and i cant stand to see her hurting and stuff.but i i am a hipocrite if i just tell her to stop since i do it.so i know i nee to get help before i can help her.
serios answers only please its not funny so dont make it seem like it is
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i know you might feel like you need to cut but belive me its never an option...it doesnt help ok it just hurts you so much more...i know sometimes you go through pain and for many people go threw it all the time but whats cutting going to do...how are you getting rid of pain by causing more pain? think about it...im sorry i know you dont need a lecture but you can cause serious damages...scars...and so much more..youll regret it belive me you will and youll wish you never have...i know a whole lot about stress try to relive your stress a diffrent kind of way hit a pillow yell scream let it all out and i suggest whoever is making you do this..do go confront them..even if it mite be your parents...you cant solve a problem by creating a new one..so start solving the main problem to get to all the others..i hope i helped and if you need anything else just write to me ok peace
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I dont even know where to start.
Well, ok. My BFF Got a new boyfriend Named Kyle and she was most deffinetly in love I could tell! Then she found out Kyle has a brother thats my age too!His name was Brian so we decided to go on a double date! I was so excited to meet him. We all went to the buffet for the date. When I met brian we never stopped talking! we chated for hours! so long, my BFF and kyle left and said they would see us later. that night we talked on the phone for hours and the next day we went to the movie. before it started Brian asked if I would be his girlfriend! I was so shocked I said yes. I really really really liked Brian! so Bad! at the movie we held hands!!! then this is where the problum started - you see, Kyle and Brian are birthly brothers but Brian's mom got divoreced with kyles dad. and Brian had a new dad, But kyle was still living with his real father, Then in a car accedent Bolth his mother and father died so he had to live with Kyle and his dad. Fora week Brian seemed deppressed. I asked constently why finnaly he told me that story. I was crying. so he didnt even know his brother that well. But 2 days latter he got over it and me and my BFF wanted to go on another Double date. a real one sense we were all going out. But then my BFF had to tell Brian somthing so she toke him somewhere privet and it was just me and Kyle. Kyle was across from me at the table. Then Kyle touched my leg. "What are you doing?" I asked him he said nothing. and I shoved his hand off. Then He said "You know your pretty atractive." and he touched my leg even higher I said leave me alone! Im going to tell Brian! then he said Yeah Lanie Im really sure he wants to hear about this when his mom and dad just died a month ago. and whos word will he take, yours agenst mine? i mean he just met you. Im his brother. I stod up, begginging to cry, Then kyle got up and french kissed me I pulled him away then bumped into brian. luckily he didnt see the kiss. whats wrong Brian asked me I got somthing in my eye. I lied. i mean kyle was right he would take his side. I found out my BFF only told Brian to hold the door open for me. Now whenever Kyle see's me alone he tries to do "Stuff" to me. I couldent tell brian espeshily beacuse jus got over his parents and I couldent tell my BFF b/c well..you know hes her B/f!! Then things get worse, Brian Told me He wasent paying enough attention to me so he french kissed me! then 1 day later we started making out but I dont know! whenever Im making out with brian it makes me think of kyle. I know its not my fault But I feel like I'm cheeting on him. Kyle acts normal around Brian and my BFF But when we are alone.well you know. and I try to get away. somtimes I make it other times I dont. Please I need help advice advice! -
Lanie Day (link)
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ok well i suggest to put everyone aside for a second and take yourself in your best friends position...would you have liked it if your boyfriend did that to her and she never told you? First thing i suggest you tell your best friend..tell her you never wanted tjhis to happen she might get mad at you but that would come from jealousy dont worry though talk to her tell her its for her own good i mean this guy can turn out to rape you hes practically doing that now...and then you tell brain...even though his parents died a month ago i dont think hell want this to happen to you talk to him and look him in the eyes showing him alll the fear in horror you had to go through with that faggot...and if i was you really i would have socked that guy in the face...i wouldve made the biggest scene in the movies and start screaming and yelling and smack him while everyone could see and scream "dont touch me you bastard" and leave that way everyone knows what he did...and he looks like a pervert...and you look innocent so noone can call you a lier but i kno you might not be able to do that so...just do what i told you to do above..theyll understand if you handle the situation correctly...hope i helped Peace
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For starters,I have completely no freinds, and no one to talk to or hang out with .
I left my old school with a low reputation and i was known as a bitch. Guys always play with me and mock me because they think that i am the easy type of girl.
I am totally alone in this life, and my mom never cares or asks because she;s always at work, and my dad is definitely not the type of person to listen and sympathize.
I also play this sport at the club, and i am trying hard to improve and go to championships, but my coach just cares about the people who are real champions, and he just trains me for half and hour or something. I feel like a complete loser.
I even work here on the site, but i have had it from helping people and advising them, its like the only thing that i do. And then when i stopped for a moment, i found out that my own life is messed up and i need advice myself.
I considered committing suicide before, but thats just bullshit. I thought becoming really religious and maybe god would be on my side.
But it didn't actually have a result and nothing happened. I tried just being myself , but i hate who i am . I tried changing, but its not working at all.
I need help because right now i am nothing but a depressed desperate bitch with a screwed up life . I would really love some help. (link)
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so many things i want to talk to you about and help you with but its too long to write down and i have a questions for you so if you can just add me up on my aim or yahoo and well be able to talk and ill be able to help you alot and tell you how to turn things around ok? my yahoo is melodydreams2001@yahoo.com,and aim is skaterbomb13...ok? btw you should never call yourself a bitch ok some girls arent able to stay as strong as others and some girls fall for guys easily and youve seen the messed up part of it is and now you would do it anymore...all you have to do is wait and the rite guy will come to you and hell treat you amazingly as long as you dont throw yourself at him but show that your something worth thrying to get..anyways i hope i get a chance to talk to you...Gods with everyone he never leaves you alone and you have to remeber hes always watching and as long as you know who God is and belive in the right and true religion things will get easier and youll wake up being so happy that your alive and that you have awsome friends and an amazing man! hahha but remeber things take time..be patient everything comes around in the end..peace and good luck hope i talk to you soon
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ok i was going crazy not hearing anything from my crush during the summer, so i sent him an empty email, and i guess he understood that i just wanted him to reply cause he said "well its nice to hear from u...how have youu been? hows school? family?" noow, i want to answer this in a FUNNY way, maybe that's impossible since it's such a normal quesion.. but if there's any funny people out there, who has a clue on how to make a boy smile, HELP ME! thank you! very very much! =) (link)
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well i usally answer a question like that id be like " wow its been like how long since wev talked..5,6 12 years? so howve you been..hows the wife and kids?" then just say "lol jp yeh everyone things im ok family stil lcrazy as usual..dont worry im sure im adobted..skools great im failing every subject" and again say "lol" and then be like hows things with you and everything then talk like a normal person so he doenst think your crazy haha kk byez
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