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i think i am turning a bit weird ..... ????
i have no idea if this is in the right section so sorry if wrong but any way my question is i want to be nice guy it comes to a relationship like i want to love, respect my partner without thinking stuff like ooh man i cant wait to bang her.... i want to love her for her personality for me that would be the most perfect thing in a girl if they had a great fun sense in thier personality but recently i looked at a girl and thought wow shes hot then i litterly had a gob smacked face on me and thought omg am i turning into a dirt bag who only goes for looks i would hate to be like that please help me as i am kinda running it around in my mind for ages and i told a few of my girl mates and thier faces changed as i started on what i thought i dont wonna be like this please tell me sumin like its a one off but if you beg to differ plleeaaaase tell me i am a dirt bagged pile of sh!t and should try to change, thanks
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ok well everyone goes for everyone for looks honestly if someone had told me they dont go for looks i would call them the biggest lier ever ok im sorry but the person cannot look like the end of a shoe everybody has to go for someone thats atleast A lil attractive or atleas OK looking but im sure if the person was ass ugly you wouldnt go for them mabey someone else would find them, attractive thats the way the world works i think its sweet that you dont want to look like at women like their an object but aleats find someone with looks and personaility with both! or she doesnt have to be HOT but she can be ok so later on belive me when you start to really like her,then love her,youll see her as if shes the most beautiful girl in the world..so dont feel bad its good that you care.
PeAcE.
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It is great that you want to love someone for their personality. And you will. :)
You usually see a face first though. There is nothing wrong with looking at someone and thinking
they look hot. Doesn't make you a bad guy. That's just a first impression.
Once you get to know that person you think looks hot and she turns out to have a personality that you can't stand...she will no longer look hot. Trust me on that!
The opposite can also be true. You may meet someone who doesn't seem all that great looking. You get to know her and like her personality, and like magic she will look like the most beautiful girl in world.
I know some people don't think that's true but it really is.
So don't worry about it. You aren't a dirt bag! :)
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