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cuting
i cut i do it because i am stressed life is really hard right now for me and i just have the desire to cut and i think it is time and find a better emotional outlet.i am not doing this for mysellf i am doing it for my friend she cuts and i cant stand to see her hurting and stuff.but i i am a hipocrite if i just tell her to stop since i do it.so i know i nee to get help before i can help her.
serios answers only please its not funny so dont make it seem like it is
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since when was cutting a funny subject?
the best thing you can do, is tell your parents you might want to see a Therapist. Yes, the T-WORD. A lot of people generalize therapists as christians who sit straight up in their chair who don't care about you. But that is not true at all, my therapist is a femenist, spiratual and went through the same things when she was a child. It helps alot. It's better than talking to a friend because you know you have to face and speak to them tomorrow, but therapy can and will help you to get through your issues.
You don't even have to tell them you cut.
My 2nd suggestion is starting a journal, when you get all of your angst out, there's none left inside of you to have the desire to cut.
3rd, whenever I get stressed--I run. It helps get all of the anger out, you can replace running with boxing or working out in general, but it's a way of modifying your body in a positive way.
goodluck.
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OK let you know that cutting yourself is NOT ging to make you feel better.Its only going to get you skin disease and scar your skin,not only your skin but your life because when you look at the scars on your skin when your older youll remember the past and itll be worse.Open up to someone about your problems or take it out by puncing something.You didnt really say what was annoying you but id be glad to help you more,i have myspace,msn and yahoo.
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i know you might feel like you need to cut but belive me its never an option...it doesnt help ok it just hurts you so much more...i know sometimes you go through pain and for many people go threw it all the time but whats cutting going to do...how are you getting rid of pain by causing more pain? think about it...im sorry i know you dont need a lecture but you can cause serious damages...scars...and so much more..youll regret it belive me you will and youll wish you never have...i know a whole lot about stress try to relive your stress a diffrent kind of way hit a pillow yell scream let it all out and i suggest whoever is making you do this..do go confront them..even if it mite be your parents...you cant solve a problem by creating a new one..so start solving the main problem to get to all the others..i hope i helped and if you need anything else just write to me ok peace
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cutting is serios i used to do it when i thought i needed to feel alive and maybe people would understand but no one does understand why a person would do that but the people who do what you need to do is talk to you'r friend and be like we both need to stop this so let's do it together (make it a team thing) write down all your problems to her and have her wrote her's to you (thats if you guys are good friends)
Olivia
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well it is verry hard for me to help you over this so...i would say i can help you alot..i have been though alot of stuff my e-mail is xoalleyox2694@msn.com my aim screen name is MiSsMUrDer 007 x my myspace is www.myspace.com/alleyx69xlol i can and will help you but i wont be able to help you over this....i realy wanna help you so i hope to hear from you
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