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I dont even know where to start.
Well, ok. My BFF Got a new boyfriend Named Kyle and she was most deffinetly in love I could tell! Then she found out Kyle has a brother thats my age too!His name was Brian so we decided to go on a double date! I was so excited to meet him. We all went to the buffet for the date. When I met brian we never stopped talking! we chated for hours! so long, my BFF and kyle left and said they would see us later. that night we talked on the phone for hours and the next day we went to the movie. before it started Brian asked if I would be his girlfriend! I was so shocked I said yes. I really really really liked Brian! so Bad! at the movie we held hands!!! then this is where the problum started - you see, Kyle and Brian are birthly brothers but Brian's mom got divoreced with kyles dad. and Brian had a new dad, But kyle was still living with his real father, Then in a car accedent Bolth his mother and father died so he had to live with Kyle and his dad. Fora week Brian seemed deppressed. I asked constently why finnaly he told me that story. I was crying. so he didnt even know his brother that well. But 2 days latter he got over it and me and my BFF wanted to go on another Double date. a real one sense we were all going out. But then my BFF had to tell Brian somthing so she toke him somewhere privet and it was just me and Kyle. Kyle was across from me at the table. Then Kyle touched my leg. "What are you doing?" I asked him he said nothing. and I shoved his hand off. Then He said "You know your pretty atractive." and he touched my leg even higher I said leave me alone! Im going to tell Brian! then he said Yeah Lanie Im really sure he wants to hear about this when his mom and dad just died a month ago. and whos word will he take, yours agenst mine? i mean he just met you. Im his brother. I stod up, begginging to cry, Then kyle got up and french kissed me I pulled him away then bumped into brian. luckily he didnt see the kiss. whats wrong Brian asked me I got somthing in my eye. I lied. i mean kyle was right he would take his side. I found out my BFF only told Brian to hold the door open for me. Now whenever Kyle see's me alone he tries to do "Stuff" to me. I couldent tell brian espeshily beacuse jus got over his parents and I couldent tell my BFF b/c well..you know hes her B/f!! Then things get worse, Brian Told me He wasent paying enough attention to me so he french kissed me! then 1 day later we started making out but I dont know! whenever Im making out with brian it makes me think of kyle. I know its not my fault But I feel like I'm cheeting on him. Kyle acts normal around Brian and my BFF But when we are alone.well you know. and I try to get away. somtimes I make it other times I dont. Please I need help advice advice! -
Lanie Day
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Well, first of all, I think at least you should tell your best friend because she should know what her boyfriends doing. Wouldn't you want to know if you were her? So just explain to her what happens whenver she leaves the table and such. And if she doesn't believe you [ if he does it EVERY single time ] maybe try having her walk away and hide somewhere close and have her see him try and make a move. But like I just mentioned, make sure he does it every time, cause if he doesn't go after you that time, she'll think you're lying and she'll never believe you then. And even though it'll be really hard to tell Brian, he should know before it continues any further, cause then if Brian knows, Kyle won't be able to come near you anymore cause he probably won't let Kyle hang out with you guys. Just explain to him as calmly as you can. Just be like,"Brian, I know it's only been a month, and I don't want to bring anything else up on you, but I just really need to tell you. Whenever you and [your bff] ever leave the table.. Kyle starts to try and make moves on me. Now, I don't want this to turn into anything big, cause you're already dealing with enough. But, do you think whenever we go on our dates, Kyle can't come along? Or at least, just don't leave the table please?" And Kyle can get in alot of trouble because what he is doing maybe be considered harassment. Look at this site:
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ok well i suggest to put everyone aside for a second and take yourself in your best friends position...would you have liked it if your boyfriend did that to her and she never told you? First thing i suggest you tell your best friend..tell her you never wanted tjhis to happen she might get mad at you but that would come from jealousy dont worry though talk to her tell her its for her own good i mean this guy can turn out to rape you hes practically doing that now...and then you tell brain...even though his parents died a month ago i dont think hell want this to happen to you talk to him and look him in the eyes showing him alll the fear in horror you had to go through with that faggot...and if i was you really i would have socked that guy in the face...i wouldve made the biggest scene in the movies and start screaming and yelling and smack him while everyone could see and scream "dont touch me you bastard" and leave that way everyone knows what he did...and he looks like a pervert...and you look innocent so noone can call you a lier but i kno you might not be able to do that so...just do what i told you to do above..theyll understand if you handle the situation correctly...hope i helped Peace
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Wow dude, I was reading this and I was like "this is like something out of a soap opera or something."
But anyways, let me just say that Kyle is a scumbag for doing that. Telling you that telling Brian would be a bad idea was very low of him to do, seeing as what he is doing to someone he calls his friend is ten times worse. You have got to let someone know immediately what is going on, but first, you must confront Kyle. Tell him that what he's doing to his brother is definately much much worse that what you're doing. Tell him that if this doesn't stop, you'll tell your best friend. She's a victim in this too. Judging by what he says, go to your freind and tell her. She has a right to know, since she's being cheated too. Assure her that you're not lying, tell her all the times this happened, if you bring up the times you ened up alone with Kyle, she may be more likely to believe you. You should probly tell her about the first time this happened, explain that you didn't have soemthing in your eye, you just didn't want to upset either her or Brian. Once she's convinced, you have got to tell Brian, he needs to know too. If you really care about this boy you have to be absolutely honest with him. I don't think I can help you much beyond this point, all you have to do now is be brave and hope that this whole mess will come to an end. Of course people will get hurt, but this whole situation is Kyle's fault to begin with. I hope everything will work out for you and Brian in the end (he sounds like such a sweet guy).
Best of Luck,
Kayla Jay
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this is a very interesting story. luckily, i think i can help.
if you have more feelings for kyle than brian, tell brian the truth, even if his parents passed away recently-brian would appreciate you telling the truth. if have more feelings for brian than kyle, then tell brian everything that kyle has done to you and he will appreciate you telling him the truth. if i was in your position and i had feelings for both of them, i'd break up with brian and not go out with kyle because if i did have feelings for the both of them and still went out with brian, yes, it is considered cheating on him. what you're doing right now is the right thing-waiting for time to pass so brian won't be as hurt..so wait as long as possible before telling him. i might not be making sense because there's alot to tell you so i'm sorry if i'm not making any sense.
just do what your gut tells you to do, but what i would do is to tell brian what kyle has done to you, and keep going out with brian...
hope my advice helped.
♥jen
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well your story is really long and intense. just whenever you are with kyle alone tell him straight up that you don't like what he is doing to you and tell him if he doesn't stop you will tell brian the truth. because the most important element in a relationship is honesty. i can tell that you really like brian so you really shouldn't be cheating on him. so when/if you tell him, be serious and soft. hope i helped.. good luck
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