hey, my name is jen.
i love giving advice. i have been giving advice to people all my life. my friends ask me for it all the time and they appreciate my advice. even my older sister asks me for advice too and takes it.
i have lived in new england my whole life and i love it here. i have a bunch of friends and i love them all. my life would pretty much be over if i didn't have them in it.
i'm in the middle between shy and outgoing-but around my friends i'm very outgoing. so ask me a question if you would like, just please d0n`t T4lK lYk Di$ because it's hard to read and i won't answer you.
i'm trying my best to help you with your questions ♥
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This girl will not leave me alone. She's so annoying and I can't get it across to her that she drives me insane. (link)
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if she is constantly talking to you and is being nice to you, then find someone else that is just like her in your school and have them meet up and be friends so she doesn't bother you as much. if she is annoying you as in bullying, then you can either ignore it so then she gets tired of it because she doesn't think that you care or you can talk to a guidance counselor or your parent and they can talk to the girl's parents or just the girl. whatever you do, do not tell the girl that she is driving you insane. that might be the case that she is still annoying you.
good luck
♥jen
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ok well i has lots of acne on my chin and my forheadi was wondering what i could get that really works but doesn't cost alot of money any thing would be great
Thanx in advance! (link)
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i've had horrible luck with acne for the past 2 years. dermatologists help and give you perscriptions that work, but as you said, you don't want to pay alot of money. recently, my sister has told me about "cetaphil". it's a type of soap cleanser that dermatologists recommend. priced at $6.99 in pharmacies, it doesn't dry your skin, it takes off makeup and dirt on your face, clears your pores, and is oil free. i've been using cetaphil for about 3 weeks and my face has been getting alot better. there are only 2 zits on my face and i used to have a million! if this doesn't work for you, then neutrogena products, clean&clear products, and clearasil products work, but they have dried out my skin. i would recommend cetaphil as my #1 choice.
good luck!!
♥jen
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I've been looking around for homecoming dresses with thicker straps, but I'm having a hard time. They don't have to be really wide, I would just like to be able to wear a regular bra underneath it. Strapless bras are always a pain because you have to keep pulling them up and even with underwire, they hardly support anything. Does anyone know where I might be able to find a dress with thicker straps? Thanks a lot!!! (link)
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instead of getting a dress with thicker straps, why not get this type of bra that you get at windsor. http://www.windsorstore.com/category.cfm?cat=37
the bras stick easily and don't come off. also, you can wear halter dresses with low backs. i've worn these to a dance once and they worked great.
hope i helped
♥jen
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I dont even know where to start.
Well, ok. My BFF Got a new boyfriend Named Kyle and she was most deffinetly in love I could tell! Then she found out Kyle has a brother thats my age too!His name was Brian so we decided to go on a double date! I was so excited to meet him. We all went to the buffet for the date. When I met brian we never stopped talking! we chated for hours! so long, my BFF and kyle left and said they would see us later. that night we talked on the phone for hours and the next day we went to the movie. before it started Brian asked if I would be his girlfriend! I was so shocked I said yes. I really really really liked Brian! so Bad! at the movie we held hands!!! then this is where the problum started - you see, Kyle and Brian are birthly brothers but Brian's mom got divoreced with kyles dad. and Brian had a new dad, But kyle was still living with his real father, Then in a car accedent Bolth his mother and father died so he had to live with Kyle and his dad. Fora week Brian seemed deppressed. I asked constently why finnaly he told me that story. I was crying. so he didnt even know his brother that well. But 2 days latter he got over it and me and my BFF wanted to go on another Double date. a real one sense we were all going out. But then my BFF had to tell Brian somthing so she toke him somewhere privet and it was just me and Kyle. Kyle was across from me at the table. Then Kyle touched my leg. "What are you doing?" I asked him he said nothing. and I shoved his hand off. Then He said "You know your pretty atractive." and he touched my leg even higher I said leave me alone! Im going to tell Brian! then he said Yeah Lanie Im really sure he wants to hear about this when his mom and dad just died a month ago. and whos word will he take, yours agenst mine? i mean he just met you. Im his brother. I stod up, begginging to cry, Then kyle got up and french kissed me I pulled him away then bumped into brian. luckily he didnt see the kiss. whats wrong Brian asked me I got somthing in my eye. I lied. i mean kyle was right he would take his side. I found out my BFF only told Brian to hold the door open for me. Now whenever Kyle see's me alone he tries to do "Stuff" to me. I couldent tell brian espeshily beacuse jus got over his parents and I couldent tell my BFF b/c well..you know hes her B/f!! Then things get worse, Brian Told me He wasent paying enough attention to me so he french kissed me! then 1 day later we started making out but I dont know! whenever Im making out with brian it makes me think of kyle. I know its not my fault But I feel like I'm cheeting on him. Kyle acts normal around Brian and my BFF But when we are alone.well you know. and I try to get away. somtimes I make it other times I dont. Please I need help advice advice! -
Lanie Day (link)
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this is a very interesting story. luckily, i think i can help.
if you have more feelings for kyle than brian, tell brian the truth, even if his parents passed away recently-brian would appreciate you telling the truth. if have more feelings for brian than kyle, then tell brian everything that kyle has done to you and he will appreciate you telling him the truth. if i was in your position and i had feelings for both of them, i'd break up with brian and not go out with kyle because if i did have feelings for the both of them and still went out with brian, yes, it is considered cheating on him. what you're doing right now is the right thing-waiting for time to pass so brian won't be as hurt..so wait as long as possible before telling him. i might not be making sense because there's alot to tell you so i'm sorry if i'm not making any sense.
just do what your gut tells you to do, but what i would do is to tell brian what kyle has done to you, and keep going out with brian...
hope my advice helped.
♥jen
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I curentally live with my boyfriend and his great family. Everything is great except I wonder one thing, he is 19 years old and anytime we go anywhere he mom calls to see where we are and when we are going to be home, he also cant go a day without talking to her, and can never stand up for himself when she says no. She also calls him habebe whichs means "my baby", and she says she dosent like it when he is out late. I understand she is worried but he is 19 years old and I thought at 19 they would be a man. Mabye I am wrong but I was thinking of marring this guy because he is the love of my life but I dont wanna marry someone who is attached to there mother and can never grow up and be a man. Mabye its just me But i would really love any advice anyone can give me! Thank yOU!! (link)
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is he an only child? that might be why his mom is so attached to him. she doesn't want to let him go. be nice to his mom and give her time to realize how nice you are. who knows, she could be your mother-in-law!
♥jen
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My hair is really really frizzy It would be pretty straight if you minus all the frizz but magazines always have ideas for diffrent kinds of hair but not frizzy hair. Have any ideas on how i can style it without using an iron. or websites where i could get ideas. that would be great! thanks! (link)
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frizz-ease is a great non-frizz product that you can get at pharmacies.
♥jen
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14/f.my mom and my neighbor go walking 2 miles or more every night. last year i started going with them, but now i'm starting not to. i know that it is good exercise, but i'm just kind of embarrassed to be seen walking with my mom and my neighbor. i know that sounds mean but its true. sometimes we walking laps around the neighborhood and sometimes we walk outside the neighborhood where other people and people i go to school with can see us. what do i do? and i'm not going to tell my mom that i'm embarrassed to walk with her, that is just too mean. (link)
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instead of walking with your mom and neighbor, walk with one of your friends. also if none of your friends live nearby, walk by yourself!
♥jen
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I've been struggling with my wieght for years now and I have finally got into good shape and I work out alot and eat well. I want to loose wieght in a healthy way.
I swim everyday (week day) and I do pilates. I try to run or dance three times a week, but I cant aways do that. I am happy with my progress, but not happy with my body yet.
But I am afriad I still overwieght. I'm 14 years old and I used to be 5'6 and 189 pounds, now I am 5'7, and I wiegh 158 pounds.
Am I still overwieght?
And do you have any thoughts on how I can lose more wieght in a healthy matter?
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keep doing what you're doing-it's great that you are trying to lose weight in a healthy way.
♥jen
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i didnt know what i should put this under but any ways... umm right now im visiting family. im going this saturday the 24 or 26 back home. Im in tennessee i live in maine. the car ride is like 24 hours long and we are drivign straight through. my question is what are somethings to do while im traveling? i have a book to read. music to listen to. a portable dvd player. and i have a laptop but it doesnt charge for long and i dont have money to get a car charger what should i do? i know that this is alot of stuff to do but it gets boring after a while. thankx in advance. :] (link)
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long car rides are tough. but one thing that you can do is to take lots of naps-they make the car ride seem alot shorter.
♥jen
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ok so i had glasses for 3 years now and i REALLY want to get contacts. i went to the eye person and then he tried to put the contact in my eye but i didnt let him. this was a while ago. people tell me it takes hours for them to put them in.
idk if i still want them cause i hate that feeling of putting them in your eye and idk if its worth it.
is it ??? help me (link)
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having contacts is worth it. i have contacts and i was scared to get them too. the first day of putting your contacts in and taking them out is the hardest. all first day things are the hardest. luckily, you get used to them after a couple of days.
♥jen
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I absolutley hate my figure! I am 5 foot 6 inches tall and I weigh 127 pounds. My main problem is my legs. They are very long and make me feel disproportioned. They also seem to be the first thing people notice, which I don't like. How can I take the notice away from my legs and bring it to my other great features? (link)
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i have very long legs too. you have to realize that everyone is different and everyone has some thing about them that they don't like. you can't have people stop looking at your legs.
♥jen
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My friend is going to NY for college this year and I realized I really like him. I get really nervous around him, but I don't know if I should tell him or just leave it alone. I am going to miss him so much. (link)
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you should definitely tell him. but, if you are too nervous then call him while he's away and ask to hang out while he's on vacation. if you dont think that he has feelings for you, don't let it stop you from being friends with him.
♥jen
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awhile ago i went out with this girls ex-boyfriend. now everytime she see's me she calls me a fat whore // slut. i'm no where near fat and i never even say anything back to her. how can i make it stop or just ignore her.
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it's great that it doesn't get to you
she probably called you those names because she was jealous-it happens alot. she will eventually stop since she thinks that it doesn't bother you
hope she stops
♥jen
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I need to get rid of a few problem zits overnight or as soon as possible.
I cant go out and buy anything so is there anything I can do at home to make them go away?
Thanks.
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zits can't go away in just one night, but here are some ideas to have zits not look as big as they were the night before.
-a dot of toothpaste
-use a qtip and have the hottest water running (this is to open up your pore) then put the qtip under the faucet, and put the qtip on your zit-hold it there. then apply some soap or a zit cleaner, and then have the coldest water running (to close the pore so dirt doesn't come in) and put the qtip under the water and put the qtip on your zit.
good luck!
♥jen
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I have two best friends that I've been hanging out with all summer A LOT. One takes me with her family everywhere and for the last year I've spent my life at her house.
My other friend takes me to theme parks, pays for my food, and takes me lots of other places.
Another friend takes me to pro baseball games a lot.
I never have my friends over (cuz i live in the middle of the woods and there's nothing to do at my house) and I never take them places.
I feel like its my turn to do something really fun, but I don't know what to do.
I have a ginormous basement... and my room has nothing to do in it.. so i usually use the basement.
I was thinking a scary movie sleepover with the ring movies and the grudge (b/c I'm most likely taking them to the grudge 2 for my bday).
Is there anything else that would be fun to take them to? And what are some fun ideas to do when my friends are over?
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watching movies with your friends is a great idea. also, play board games or cards with them. you're never too old to do that-also you can play fun kid games for a laugh. bake something with them. if you think your house is too boring, then go out with them-like what they do: take them to a concert, go to the movie theater with them!
♥jen
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I am looking for a breed of dog (mixed is fine) that is especially good for children, and it would be great if it did not shed much. Thanks for any suggestions! (link)
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my favorite breed of dogs is a golden retriever-they shed alot, but they're very loveable. if you wanted a dog that didn't shed, they'd be little dogs but little dogs are energetic, not loveable. sacrifice to dogs that shed: newfoundlands, german shepards...the list goes on and on.
♥jen
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My bestfriend has a ton of guy friends. Sometimes I feel left out of all their conversations and dont know how to get in the conversation too. I have some guy friends but I always end up liking them for more that a friend and then i get to nervose around them so I only talk to them online...not in person...any tips? (link)
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one thing you can do is pretend they're girls-tell them things that you would tell your friends that are girls-not things that are girl-related but you know. laugh and smile around them and even if they don't talk to you don't let it get to you.
hope this helps,
♥jen
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if i wore white pants, a black shirt, a silver belt, and a black jacket with white daises is that just like too much white and black?? it looks good but i dont want to look like some freak whos afraid of colors or something. (link)
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your outfit seems great. i always color theme my outfits. be different than everyone else-even if no one compliments your outfit, it's not the end of the world.
♥jen
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i have these two pimples on my chin that are still under the suface of my skin. they are just red bumps. i just know that they are going to come out just in time for school and picture day!! so what can i do to make them go away before they come out? (link)
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last year i started to get a pimple on my chin on the first day of school-i used this cream that you get at a pharmacy called zapzit. it worked pretty well but not entirely. everyone deals with zits so it's normal.
♥jen
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My two best friends just recently started drinking over the summer. I have been away and just found out about this recently. I however, dont want to start drinking they are, I think it is pretty pointless and I dont need alcohol to have a good time. I KNOW that I am able to say no if I am put into a pressuring situation by them, but I am afraid our friendship isnt the same anymore. It seems like they want to move on to bigger and better things, but they truly are my best friends in the world. What do I do? 15/f (link)
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congrats that you don't want to drink with them. if you are willing to give up your friends to not drink, then you are a great person. make some new friends if they think that you have to drink to be friends with them.
♥jen
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