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How to get guy friends?
My bestfriend has a ton of guy friends. Sometimes I feel left out of all their conversations and dont know how to get in the conversation too. I have some guy friends but I always end up liking them for more that a friend and then i get to nervose around them so I only talk to them online...not in person...any tips?
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one thing you can do is pretend they're girls-tell them things that you would tell your friends that are girls-not things that are girl-related but you know. laugh and smile around them and even if they don't talk to you don't let it get to you.
hope this helps,
♥jen
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Be yourself laugh at any jokes they say and you will get into the conversations and if you start liking them be yourself if you get nervous do something that makes you calm down.
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You don't have to do any research or anything extreme to have guy friends. I have plenty of them and I do none of that. You simply have to BE YOURSELF. Its almost like talking to one of your girl friends except you cut out things like your period, what outfit you are going to wear tomorrow, which lip gloss is better, etc. They like to know that you are being real with them. So don't try to act like someone you're not. Because just like girls they can usually tell when you are not being yourself.
If you need any more tips, suggestions, or advice feel free to write me back. :)
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try researching the topics that they enjoy talking about. If they like talking about sports, be sure that you know sports. You don't have to LIKE the things, but be sure you know a little, that way when they talk about it you can at least understand the basis of the conversations.
Hope I helped :)
~Ash
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