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okay well my names taylor and i really want a new screenname with my name in it. i like things like taylor is a badass, team taylor, taylor x fcuk, etc. please help ill rate high. (link)
tay x rific

as in terrific.

or tay rific x or something

hope this helped


This is embarasing but I have pretty hairy arms. All my friends shave theirs and stuff but I heard that makes it grow back darker and stuff. I obviously don't want to get the lazer treatment done or anything crazy like that. Does anyone know any ideas of how to solve my problem? (link)
you can try nairing your hair. Nair is a a lotion you put on your arms and then wait a few minutes and wipe it off. along with the lotion the hair gets wiped off too. this does not hurt at all, but some of the lotions smell really bad. I dont know about prices, but their are a few different brands. The hair will not grow back as quickly as it would when shaving. hope this helped.


Okay I will try to make it short. I have a boyfriend and I like him a lot. We have just started going out(it will be a month in like a week). Well the other day I was at his house, just hanging out and well I wont go into detail but at the end of the night we had reached 2nd base. & for me thats too fast. I mean I know we have both already had long term relationships and done everything like that, but I thought he would take it slower. Well my question is how do I tell him I want to slow it down without pushing him away? (link)
i think you should tell him exactly how it feels. tell him you still like/love (up to you) him the same since you've first went out, but were just going to fast and usually i like to build it up. so can we just stay where we are at until we've been going out longer. or something like that. hope i helped


Just like my subject, how do I tell a guy that I like him?

I mean I guess saying it to face "I like you" is the best way, because I'd know the answer but I mean how do I paraphrase that or some other way?

Thanks so much (link)
if you do want to tell him in person then some of the options would be to say.

1. i think im kinda falling for you, do you feel the same way at all?
2. im starting to think about you as more than a friend.

or just be really flirtatious(sp) whenever your with him. send him hints and see how that goes.
hope i helped.


Anytime there's a project that I'm working on for school, I get so stressed out about it until I'm done. It takes me longer than usual to go to sleep, the littlest things irritate me, I get in horrible moods, if I mess up just a little bit I feel like I'm about to cry, and things along the lines of that. If I'm asleep and I suddenly remember that I forgot to do something (It can be anything! It doens't matter.), I can't sleep for the rest of the night because I'm worrying about it. It's just things like that and I get very stressed out about it. Is there something that you can do to hadle it or something you can take to relieve stress? (link)
i tihnk maybe you shouldn't procrastinate (wait until last minute) to do things.. if you do. because if you do, then you rush more and you get stressed. if you plan out your project/homework early, then you probably wont get so stressed over it later. also you should just think about one situation at a time so your mind isnt all over the place. make sure you get things done before you go to bed, and if you don't, plan it so you can do it the next day.

your social life also might be the issue, because you might be worried over other things than school. but work should be your first priority.

when you feel frustrated, just relax and plan out what you are going to do than just winging it.

hope i helped


k so my gf and i were jumping off of our roof on 2 our tramp (imature i know) so she jumps and lands then her shirt flew up giving me a full view of her tits she does not know this but i wish she would where a bra 2 avoid this situation again but i dont know how 2 tell her i mean she is 13 for gods sake. (link)
1. wouldnt u want to see her boobs? jw
2.just be like, "you should wear a bra, cuase when i feel you up, it makes it more fun when i get to take your bra off"

or if your not comfotable saying that. just be like where do you get your bras? and she willbe like i dont wear them and then be like, oh why not ? u should. or something like that.
hope i helped.


i have really frizzy, pouffy hair and I usually straighten my hair to go to school every day. But it never stays straight! Not even for like an hour after Istraighten it..and I have a Chi which is supposed to be really good. My question is how do I keep my hair straight all day? (link)
i dont know if you do it now, but straighten your hair in layers.. which makes it really straight. i have naturally staright hair, but most of my friends use biosilk, like you put very little in your hair and it keeps it not frizzy all day and it smells good.. you can buy in anywhere really (CVS)but its a little pricey.. like $12 for a small bottle.. but it works really well!
hope i helped


ok i kinda like just started goin out with my bf, but yea what could i get him, i dont wanna get him like any of those fragrence things cuz that seems too..idk. but what should i get him??
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you could get him a sweatshirt/shirt from like hollister or abercrombie. my friend got her bf a giftcard to itunes like 15$. i hope that helps.


I an going to the z100 jingleball tomorrow and I have some questions for people that might have went in the past.
1) can we bring a camera?
2)do you get a gift for coming or like a little something?
thankss!! (link)
sorry this is late but i went yesterday, and u can def bring a camera and no you dont get gifts.

i hope u had fun.. it was amazing


it might be long =/
Alrightt this school year just seems to be horrible. It was amazing at the begging of the year i have so much fun and eveything i wanted, amazing friends and a boyfriend. Every weekend i was going out going to parties have fun and doing good in school. BUt then one week it badcially all came down, my boyfriend broke up with me and a few of my friends turned on me and it it was just a lot to handel at once. Be cause of all that i only have 2 true friends now abnd one of them had to move to another state. So lately i have been going out im doing bad in school ad i just alwasy feel depressed. I hide it alot because im trying to dssorta talk to more pople maybe make this year beter but when you have gone to school with the same poeple your whole life, they already have an idea of who you are so aming friends is hard, so bacially here is my question what are some ways i can make myself more happy? What can i do to have a funner year.

thankss for anyone who read this cause its long =] (link)
well i'm really sorry to hear about this.
those friends that turned against you, if they are willing to talk to you, try to make it all better.

if you'd rather make more friends, you should start talking to people you happen to be with. like say you're in a class with people you don't really know and start to be friendly with them.

to birng your grades up, you should like stop worrying about your social life too much and focus more on school, because it's more important. but.. you shouldn't just give up on making friends.

good luck and i hope all goes well.


can some one help me figure out what matches with these flats? http://wetseal.com/productdetail.asp?mi=1700&size=&style=37371852&color=290&token=


there so hard to match,please no leapord print on the shirt/pants! any ideas? thankyou!! (link)
i think that black skinny jeans would look good. but i dont know what shirt, because i dont know what you have.


I just got a new nano. I already downloaded the newest itunes and put music on it already. How do I get my ipod and itunes connected-so I can put my itunes on my ipod? thanks (link)
on your computer(like whats attached to the moniter) are like plug-ins. the wire that came with your ipod, the usb side goes into one of the plugs on the computer.. and attach the other side to your ipod.

your ipod should automatically connect to your computer and go into itunes. the songs that you got, you can drag and drop into your ipod. its should work.. if not, ask a friend.




ok. For Christmas my mom is getting me a digital camera. My price range is $99-$150 What do you think would be the best kind for me to get? (link)
im not like a electronic wiz, but the best way is to go to bestbuy.com and they have digital cameras acordding to price range so..

http://www.bestbuy.com/site//olspage.jsp?id=pcmcat99100050023&type=category

sry thats the cheapest they have, if you cant find one


Whats the best website to download free music on mp3 player (link)
limewire is really good. you can get movies and videos too. it all free an easy.

it also kind of messes up your computer, but sometimes it doesn't, like for me it didn't. so beware of that.


I just- dont know how to make friends.i feel pathetic saying that,but really,its the truth. i have no idea how to start convos,act normal and just have fun and join in. no idea. and everyone seems to be so uncomfortable(sp) around me. i dont think im ugly..and i doubt that even matters. but i was kinda in this group and now im just there,i dont mean anything to them,only 2 i really talk to. its like if i left it wouldnt matter. i dont know how to open up,and i really need help, what can i do so nothing is akward?i really want friends who care. it seems so easy to everyone but me. i just feel like dont belong anywhere. i dont even know how to take the first step,if you've been through this,can you please help? i really appreciat it. i also need advice on being friendly and not makeing things to akward/makeing people feel uncomfortable,i love it when i make people smile,but it barely happens.please help & thanks. (link)
i am in the same problem now a little, but im getting through it a little better.

all i do is like be loud and funny. making them laugh is the key.. like nonstop. tell them things that happened last night like there was a bug on my wall or i dont that was a bad example but just keep talking. im not gunna say just dont be shy, cause thats not something you can just do.. but try to feel comfortable around your friends.. cause like theyre your friends.
if you arent happy with the people you are in a group with now, then find some other people you can hang with. you can stay with them but find other people besides them.
i know this sounds like conceided, but like make them give you attention.. i dont know how to explain that but you can find a way.

i know this is a tough time.. i feel the same way so don't feel alone. i really hope i helped. i dont really know much to say since i am in the same position as you.

tell me what happens.. good luckk!


i accidentally set a picture as a desktop item...does any one know how to remove it???

Thankss soo much!! (link)
right click ur desktop
go to properties
.. go to the top that says desktop
and change it


where can i find a necklace with an anchor on it?? please dont just say a website i need to know if you have SEEN one please and thank you (link)
i saw one at american eagle like 2 weeks ago


my best guy friend says that he wants to have sex with me before we graduate. we're sophmores. i dont mind because i care about him because he is one of my best friends but if i have sex with him will it ruin our friendship? (link)
i mean i guess you can have sex with him, but i dont see the point in it. you guys are just having sex for the hell of it, or you like eachother? if you had sex with him, it probably won't ruin your friendship, unless something happens.. its a risk. i really can't decide for you.

good luck and i hope i helped.


ugh.So my best friend [he's a guy im a girl] says he's gay, the thing is i dated him like twice and even thought we knew things couldnt work out it made us closer like seriously hes my best friend but the thing is i still have feelings for him i know i dont have a chance [obviously] i just dont know what to do he knows i like him and that doesnt change a thing about our friendship.but he doesnt know if hes gay or just "curious" he just got out of a 5 month relationship [w/ a girl] and i dont know if its a rebound thing, what do i do? (link)
if hes your best friend, you should understand that he is thinking about things, like if he's gay or not because that is a big issue/decision for him. show him that youre there for him and will help him cope with it. don't make any sudden moves on him unless he's sure he's not gay. if he likes you than he'll make the move.

good luck and i hope i helped


soo, i'm 15 F, and I just had a crazy night. I've had a crush on my english teacher for a while. he's 42 but is extremely hot and sweet. I thought he never noticed me, but it turns out he did. Yesterday afternoon, i went to his office for extra help and one thing led to the next. I ended up performing oral sex on him(with a condom), we made out for a while, and he fingered me and gave me oral sex. I like him so much, how can I continue the relationship without getting him or me in trouble and without people finding out? (link)
you know thats illegal because youre 15 and hes 42. just stop what you are doing because it can go no where but trouble. you can get expelled, and he can lose his job and get arrested. trust me, there are better guys out there that are your own age. if you don't want to take my advice think about where this is going...(nowhere but TROUBLE!)

please don't do thiss !!!




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