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hard year for me.


Question Posted Friday December 15 2006, 6:45 pm

it might be long =/
Alrightt this school year just seems to be horrible. It was amazing at the begging of the year i have so much fun and eveything i wanted, amazing friends and a boyfriend. Every weekend i was going out going to parties have fun and doing good in school. BUt then one week it badcially all came down, my boyfriend broke up with me and a few of my friends turned on me and it it was just a lot to handel at once. Be cause of all that i only have 2 true friends now abnd one of them had to move to another state. So lately i have been going out im doing bad in school ad i just alwasy feel depressed. I hide it alot because im trying to dssorta talk to more pople maybe make this year beter but when you have gone to school with the same poeple your whole life, they already have an idea of who you are so aming friends is hard, so bacially here is my question what are some ways i can make myself more happy? What can i do to have a funner year.

thankss for anyone who read this cause its long =]


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xOoSmoochemzx3 answered Friday December 15 2006, 10:57 pm:
heyy listen my names ashley and i just changed schools and it was hard because i was leaving my other friends behind and they got upset because when i got to the new school i wasnt really keeping intouch with them as much as i had used to, so i felt really bad and i gave them the same amount of attention as i used to and didnt forget bout them. why did your boyfriend dump you? and what did you do to lose your other friends??!there has gotta be a reason to all of this because friends dont leave ur relationship for no reason and guys dont break up with you without saying why.. soo yeahh i mean the thing you should do is talk to them and try to get them back as your friends or just leave it all behind and try to make new friends. just remember to be yourself because if you act like somebody your not nobody would ever wanna chill or be your friend. i mean some people dont notice it but when you know a person for a long time you kinda find it out fast. but anyways. i hope my advise helps you hun. if you have anymore questions message me or im me @ winter x0o cuti3

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beanie answered Friday December 15 2006, 8:01 pm:
Dear hard year,

I know it may seem bad but things will turn around for you, it always does. This may seem harsh, but it's a just, that you will probably get over within this month. And really when you think about it no one has that many true friends. Because really think about true friends are the people that stick by your side no matter what. You find out who your true friends when you are put in a situation. And that seems like what happened. So now you know who your true friends are. And honestly most people only have around 1-3 true friends. And don't worry the depression will go away, do something when you start feeling depressed.
Draw or paint, make some music or go shoot a few hoops. And just try to stay positive, instead of looking at all the bad things, look at all the good things, you can now check other guyz out, and you can always make new friends.

A good idea is to join a sport team, it'll bring you close together with all the people in the team.

Don't worry it wasn't too long of a question.

-Beanie

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girlmeetsboy answered Friday December 15 2006, 7:00 pm:
well i'm really sorry to hear about this.
those friends that turned against you, if they are willing to talk to you, try to make it all better.

if you'd rather make more friends, you should start talking to people you happen to be with. like say you're in a class with people you don't really know and start to be friendly with them.

to birng your grades up, you should like stop worrying about your social life too much and focus more on school, because it's more important. but.. you shouldn't just give up on making friends.

good luck and i hope all goes well.

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