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Dear Advicenators-
Well this school year is my first time in highscool. I have 6 best friends.. and it seems like i'm the prudest. I've always been so over protective and i havnt even kissed a guy yet! I mean I'm not ugly... i dont wanna be snobby but im pretty. All my friends are hooking up with these new kids... and i feel like out of place. haha. I dont know how to explain it. I mean I guess it's because there are no new hot kids in my classes; because when i go to parties and talk to guys there, they always flirt with me and stuff and they ask for my number and stuff. can anybody give me tips to be more flirtaciuos and open minded.. haha. Well, basically.. i just need advice : ( thanks
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im the same way! with my group of friends i seem the most down to earth, they call me a prude and a goody goody all the time! and ive never kissed a guy either so dont worry about that part specifically because ALOT of girls havent. What i try to do is go along with guys quirks. like you know when guys flirt w/ you and they're sarchastic? go along with it and just joke around with them. when your friends with guys you become more comfortable around them and more confident. Then before you know it youll be walking up to guys and talking and flirting with them, and you wont even be aware of it! smiling when your listening to them talk is a good tip, and so is laughing. not laughing hysterically, but you know, like a giggle. Be interested in what theyre talking about and ask them questions. dont be afraid to approach a guy and ask them something. The calmer you are about it and the more you make it sound like its no big deal, the more confident you look. good luck!
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im not prude, but i dont make fun of people who are, and like its not bad, it just means that you like to take things slow
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aw, hunnie. dont worry i didnt get my first kiss until before sophomore year! i was pretty embarassed when anyone brought it up but after awhile i was like so what at least im not a slut going around doing things with guys just for the attention or just to say i did it. my cousin is a sophomore this year and she still hasnt gotten her first kiss and she is pretty! the right guy WILL come around you just may have to wait for the right time and for the right guy. to tell you the truth ive never had a boyfriend before and sometimes it bothers me and i just want to go out with someone i kinda like but then i stop and think, i want to wait for the right guy who wont break my heart in an instant for something i wont do with him. just go out more, hangout with these guys more and FLIRT FLIRT FLIRT :) the right one will come around and i know it sucks to wait, because im sick of waiting too! but you want it to be special right?!
well i hope i helped you but if it wasnt what you were looking for i have a lot of experience with different boys and situations! so just leave another one in the inbox or you can I/M me at " yeah UR the ONEx " and i will be happy to talk to you about it! ♥
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Honestly in my opinion i think its very good what your doing and dont worry about not being kissed because almost everyone i know hasent either its good that your not cheap or show guys that because that way theyll take u serious and learn to respect you and mabey mister right will come later but right now in highschool most guys are kids and only want one thing...so i say stay the way you are till later because if you want to be with anyone it should be with the man you love and always be with
Hope i helped peace
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Well i was the same freshman year... don't do things just to feel in place. it's stupid and they'll all regret it. I waited till the summer before sophomore year for my first kiss. it was definatly worth the wait too, no matter what anyone else says. it was special. i know a lot of people just want to do it and get it over with but really it was a lot better that way so dont find just a random person to hook up with. open minded... just be open to things. dont go calling people sluts for hooking up with people but dont go out and do it yourself basically. <3
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