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I am 17 years old i have a 2 month old daughter but i am married and have been for a year to the babys father. Well i have just come across a very serious problem. My husband i have been sleeping together but we used protection but i think i might be pregnant again is that possible. I am very scared. I know if i am everyone is going to say i am a slut and im so worried but wwe both have jobs and stuff but i am scared of what a=our families wil say what do i do.
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-dont worry what people say
-thats your husband i mean how could you be a slut i could see if it were another guy
-talk to your husband
-its your choice if you can handle another child
-theres options
-tell your hucband how you fill
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you may be young, but you're also a mommy and a wife. sleeping with your husband does not mean you are a slut. it means you are affectionate. no one will call you a slut; and if they do, don't worry about it. because you know you aren't.
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If your married it doesn't matter what they say. If you think you both can handle another child then keep the child. If not then theres always adoption. But also abortion. I'm Pro-Life so I mean I don't support it. But some people do. So I mean theres your opitions.
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Since you're married, no one can say you're a slut. If they do, they're wrong. Don't be scared. Having kids while you are married is a good thing. Don't worry about what anyone could say. As long as you and your husband are happy everything is fine. Focus on yourself and your family. Good luck
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well dont worry what others think of you, and if they supported you with your daughter they probally will now so dont worry.
hope it works out. <3
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Yes Its Possible. I Dont See How Anyone Could See You As A Slut Tho Considering Hes Your Husband And Your Other Childs Father Its Not Like You Dont Know Who Your Babys Daddy Is. If I Was You I Just Wouldnt Worry About What Other People Think Its Your Life Not Theres. Theres Not Much Your Family Can Say I Mean Yuns Are Married And Yuns Support The Child And If You Have Another One You Would Still Be Supporting It.
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well the best thing to do is take a pregnancy test and dont worry about what other think! i mena how can u be a slut if your sleeping with the same man i mean what do they think you guys are going to do just look at each other? but if you think your pregnant and your cycle just so happens to come on wait til its off and still go get the test because my mom had her cycle til she was 5 months wit me and my sister had her til she was 4 so you never kno!
good luck!
~neka~
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stress can affect your cycle, love. if you've been using protection EVERYtime it's basically impossible to get pregnant, unless it's some off-the-wall accident. your family can't really call you a slut, because you're married. all your familes should do is support you if you actually are pregnant.
if you are especially nervous about being pregnant or not, take a home pregnancy test or go to the doctor and have them do one of those pain in the butt pee in the cup kinda tests.
i hope it helps, love. and congrats on the new baby. :]
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they cant really say your a slut because your married.once you are maried you cna have as many kids as you want. isnt that the point of getin married. to be able to have sex and not worry about anything because you can handle beign a parent. i wouldnt stress abotu it to much because stress can make your period let and then you wont really know for sure if your pregnant or not..
♥ Steph
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I think that you could possibly be pregnant if the condom broke. But Also, you shouldn't have to worry about all of those things because there is nothing to worry about. No one is going to call you a slut and if they do it isn't right. You're a married woman with a job and kids. You have a family. That's something to be admirable about, not something to poke fun at or insult.
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It IS possible that you're pregnant again, but that's only really if the condom broke ; which they can do sometimes. But I suggest purchasing some home pregnancy tests just in case, and wait to see if your period comes, if it doesn't, then take a couple of tests over that week and see what they come up as.
People should have no right to call you a slut. You're a married woman, and you both have good jobs and you're giving your baby a good life and supporting her and you guys are happy. And what do married couples do in life? Well, most? They have children, so they can't really call you a slut for bringing life into the world. Besides, millions of teenagers out there are having sex all the time, so they really don't even have the RIGHT to call you anything. If they do they're just immature jerks, and you should just ignore them.
As for your family, I don't think you really need to worry that much. If they supported you before, I'm sure they'll support you again! And I'm sure they won't react as badly as they might've before because whenever a parent FIRST finds out, tehy're thinking where are they gonna live, here? What are they gonna do, how are they gonna go to school, and millions of those thoughts run through their minds, but they know now you guys are getting good jobs, you're trying to support and raise your baby and they know you're happy and responsible parents and you guys are giving your baby a good enviroment to grow up in, so I'm sure they'll know the same treatment is going to come to the second baby ( if there is one ).
I'm real proud though you two got married and are getting jobs and being such good parents. Some teenagers just fully depend on their parents to take care of the baby the whole entire time and not get a job or anything and support the baby and become responsible.
I hope I helped, and I hope everything works out for you guys.
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It is possible to be pregnant, only if the condom broke. Which there is always a chance of.
People have no right to call you a slut. You are married to the man you love. If anyone calls you a slut, then they are just dumb and/or jealous of what you have and they don't.
Good Luck and I hope the best of luck to you and your new baby. :]
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There is a slite chance you could be pregnant, but since your married to the baby's father, people dont really have a right to call you a slut. No reason to be scared. Everythings going to be allright gurlie. No one has the right to call you a slut. These sort of thinks happen to people all the time around the world, and theres nothing anyone can do about it. You guys have jobs and thats good. You working hard to get the money you and your family will need. You can pay for the supplies for you baby. diappers, bottle, and stuff like that... You BOTH are working jobs, wich is good, though you need to spend time with your baby too (of course). I dont know what your family will say, but to my opinion, they should be happy for you. You have a baby, your married the the baby's father, your working a job to pay for everything, so your family should be proud. Most men walk out on a woman after having sex, and sometimes they even deny that the baby is theirs. You got a good man. Stick to him, and everything will be allright. Your baby has a mom AND a dad, and thats good.
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Yes it is possible you could be pregnant. If you have used protection its a good chance you aren't too. Take a home test if you don't get your period in the next couple of weeks. And stop worrying because that can make your period not come too.
If you are you certainly are not a slut. You are a married woman and have an equally responsible hubby.
Anyone who calls you that are immature to say the least.
As for your parents, well you're married and doing what married people do. It happens. You would not be the first couple to get pregnant a couple of months after having a baby. It happens a LOT.
So don't be embarrassed. It isn't the best of situations at your age but it isn't unheard of and it isn't a crime.
Good luck. :)
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