Question Posted Wednesday September 13 2006, 1:44 pm
So I'm a nice person, I get a long with people. A lot of the time, if I'm mad at someone, its for a real reason. Other than that I'm really down to earth, and I love everyone. But sometimes, I feel like I don't look as if I'm nice. Sometimes people tell me I look stuck up. Which I do. I don't concentrate on my facial expressions..but they always make me look rude or annoyed with someone. Haha. I don't get it. And that's why sometimes people don't talk to me, because it looks like I'm stuck up. But I'm not! I don't know what to do..help?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? sizzlinmandolin answered Wednesday September 13 2006, 9:38 pm: I've gotten that a lot before too. Whenever I'm bored, people think I look angry so they leave me alone, of course, making me even more bored and apparently look more angry! It's awful. There are a few things that you can do. I know it's hard to control your facial expressions, but your body language plays a big part in all this too. Try to have what's called an open stance. Slouching, crossing your arms, crossing your legs, and actions like those are all examples of a closed stance. With the exact same facial expression, a person with their arms uncrossed will look a lot friendlier than a person with crossed arms. Become more aware of what your body is telling other people and work on changing that. Once you get that down, it will be easier for you to work on your facial expressions. Keep in mind, too, what you are wearing. Sometimes clothing can convey unwanted messages too. Try to dress a little less fashion and a little more casual. Good luck! :) [ sizzlinmandolin's advice column | Ask sizzlinmandolin A Question ]
adviice_whore answered Wednesday September 13 2006, 5:48 pm: just smile a lot and dont give people dirty looks or walk around sticking your nose up in the air and acting like your better then everyone else. just try to look sweet practice in the mirror and when you meet someone new talk to them so they know your not really a bitch and be nice and stuff. hope i helped ♥ [ adviice_whore's advice column | Ask adviice_whore A Question ]
hOwithanE answered Wednesday September 13 2006, 4:59 pm: Haha ya people get that vibe off of me too and im not like bitchy or anything if you catch me before someone pisses me off in a major way lol. Just talk to people even if you dont know them cuz then you'll also have more friends. [ hOwithanE's advice column | Ask hOwithanE A Question ]
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