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I am Fighting so hard to not become Depressed
Ok my boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and it’s really hard sometimes, we get to see each other 1 time a month and I am pregnant with his kid. And he Never I mean Never believes me about anything!!! I have a friend that is 15 and I am 18 and she thinks she pregnant and her mom knows her password and everything so I let her use my name! And my boyfriend thinks it’s me! Me 15 haha and I am already pregnant. So for a few days he got really pissed at me! And wouldn’t tell me why! And I found out its cause of my friends question she posted! He checks my email and everything! I know his email but I trust him and I ask him stuff before I get pissed over it!! What should I do! I don’t need to be depressed I am pregnant and there is no way I can just leave him, please tell me what I should do!!
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First of all, change your password and don't let him have access to your email account. Tell him to do the same. To make any relationship work, there has to be trust. He shouldn't be checking up on you.
In addition, don't let your friend use your account either. Tell her to go to Yahoo or Hotmail and create a new one that her Mom doesn't have the password to.
Tell your BF that you intend to be mature about this matter, and will not be upset or depressed any longer. Then explain the part about the TRUST. If he remains angry at you for something you didn't do, he has two choices...get over it and never bring it up again, or to move on. You say there is no way you can leave him, but you shouldn't have to live with his anger either.
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Talk to him.
Reality Check: It was a simple misunderstanding, not worth getting depressed over or getting pissed over, and certainly not worth ending the whole relationship over! All it should be worth is a healthy laugh!
Stop blowing this up in your own mind. Explain to him calmly and cooly what had happened. Unless he is a complete fool, he will see the truth in what you say, but if he can't even trust you that far, he has problems beyond confused e-mails...
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