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im 15. i still love my ex, travis. but he treated me like crap. so ive been trying to get over him and i met this guy named dillion. he is really nice, cute, and would never treat a girl bad. and i was considering goin out with him. and then my ex starting talking to me and he was saying he thinks we will probably go out again. i was so happy but i dont want to get hurt AGAIN but i cant help it no matter how many amazing guys i meet he is always the one i want. dillion is goin to be upset. and i will feel really bad because he was so great to me. what should i do
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Well, I wouldn't go back out with travis if I were you. That's going to be hard, but you need to try getting over him and moving on. Try going out with dillon and if that doesn't work, go back to travis, but give dillon a shot.
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He thinks you will probably go out again...big deal! Where is your self-esteem! Don't let him get away with treating you like a dog at his beck and call. He broke your heart and he will do it again. Until he apologizes for treating you like crap and begs you back, you have no reason to even pay attention to him. If you blow off the nice guys to chase bad boys all your life (which is the pattern if you already are geared this way) then you will face a lifetime of heartbreaks and letting yourself be treated like trash. Eventually even the nice guys won't be interested in you, because they will have figured out by then that you are a waste of time. Sound harsh? Reality can be way harsher, and I am trying to help you avoid going down a path you will suffer for. See Travis for who he really is...a guy that treats you like crap. See Dillion for who he really is...a guy that sees your truth worth and should not be taken for granted.
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Go for dillion because as they say once a cheater always a cheater it pretty much the same only replacing cheater with asshole for instance. But maybe he thinks he can always get you back and your proving him right so thats why hes an asshole.
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Sweetie, there are some things that never change, men is one of them. If this guy Travis treated you like crap before, nothing in the world is going to change him. Don't be upset, every woman on the planet makes this mistake, including myself you just have to learn from it and move on. Go out with Dillon, even if you want to go out with the Jerky boy. There are those boys you flirt with and those you take home. You will be happier with Dillon.
Yours
Peggy
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Even though you're happy you two are going to get together, why be happy now whenever you're just going to be sad and upset for alot while longer? Even if you don't want to be together with Dillion, I would suggest staying away from Travis too. I know that's not what you want to hear, but you wanted some advice, right? If Travis really liked you and wanted to be with you, he wouldn't be sitting there treating you like crap. You deserve better that that. I would just either take a chance with Dillion, you never know, feelings can always change with people, or I would just remain friends with the too. So at least Travis could be in your life, but he wouldn't be putting you through all the hurt. But if you feel it hurts too much to even be friends with Travis, I might want to try and stop talking to him. He's only hurting, and you don't need a person like that in your life, and plus, you'd never be able to move on if he's there talking to you.
But, basically. My advice: Take a chance with Dillion and forget Travis. Or don't even date Dillion, just don't get together with Travis, you'll only get hurt.
I can't tell you exactly what to do, that's your choice. But I hope you make the right one and are happy with it.
I hope I helped.
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