Member Since: September 19, 2006
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Last Update: September 30, 2006
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So school is started again and theres this boy that im getting along with really well. we have soo much in common, come from similar backgrounds, like the same things..its intense. I told my friends i have a bit of a crush on him, so that theyd know hes off limits. I told my flirtiest friend too so shed back off, but shes going full throttle now. I told her i like him, and she said she does a bit too. theres this big dance comming up, formal wear, dinner, the whole nine yards. I said i might like to go with him, and she was like yeah, me too... I dont know what to do because i think if he had to choose...he might pick her..and i dont think i could handle this happening, because its always been my biggest fear even with other guys. what do i do? (link)
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Well obviously she is not that good a friend to is she? Normally I would say you shouldn't let a guy get in the way of a good friendship but she is out of bounds. My advice would be may the best woman win. Go get him. Tell her he's yours and to back off.
Hope this helps
Peggy
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hey, well there is this guy i reeeeally like alot aaand well we dont know each other but im constantly checking him out soooooo i definitally know him i mean were not friends or anything we talk here and there but well anyway his girlfriend just broke up with him sooooo i was tinking about asking him to the dance or maybe asking him out buuut the problem is i dont want to ask him and find out that he doesnt like me but sometimes in class i see him staring at me and he acts hilarious around me as in he make s up jokes that make absolutly no sence buuuut i love them but he kinda acts a little shy around me to sometimes... i really like him an di really want to ask him out or to the dance but i am afraid that he is gonna say no and i am gonna be crushed!!! I want to know what i could do ask him out and get rejected or be happy and he says yes or if maybe i would just lay low and see if he asks first... and about him sstsring st me and stuff like that what could that mean? (link)
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Sweetie, Sometimes you have to risk it. You don't know, maybe he's worth it. Don't be afraid. Find out where you stand, and don't put all of your self worth into what he says, if he says no, move on. More fish in the sea sort of thing.
Yours
Peggy
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How do you put on a tampon? (link)
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Inside the box there is a flyer with a diagram on how to do it. Don't be nervous, we all do it.
Yours
Peggys
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Hi, I've answered some questions and read the other people's advice regarding high school. The thing that shocked me was to see SO many of the people hating HS
I'd actually intended to migrate to the states and attend high school. But anyways, I'm 18 now. I'm just really curious to know bout high school culture and all. I've really enjoyed my secondary school (we call it secondary school in our country)and I really can't picture what is so bad bout high school.Besides, hollywood kinda portrayed HS in a very fun and un-stressful way. So maybe you guys can tell me what's wrong? Perhaps I could give better advice after understanding how HS is like.
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High School for a lot of people is very challenging, you are not only dealing with a large number of different personalities, you are shaping your coping mechanism in dealing with them. Forget what you saw in the hollywood version of High-School, the sad truth is that unless you are popular and pretty, it is not a fun place.
Sorry,
Peggys
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I am from Pakistan, an educationest working in public sector. New research papers and articles will really enhance my professional compitency. But the problem is that I did not have reading habit. when I try to read some article in english I get sleep or get boared soon. can you please tell me the ways to develop the reading habit for reading latest education related material. (link)
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Sweetie, the best way to stay focused is to read aloud or pace when you get bored or sleepie. It worked wonders for me when in college.
Have fun!
Peggys
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Can you give me some sites for some cute heels?
that aren`t real real expensive.
some to go with like jeans you know.
Thanks!! (link)
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payless.com
shop on!
peggy
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itz this boy i like alot his name is booshi. i have had feelinz for him the longest and one day we were at my friends house and he was telling me he love me and kissing the back of my neck tounge kissing me down and thatwas the last i saw him bcause he got locked up then when school started he got out and my friends told me that he was kissing another gurl and that everything he did to me he did to her. did he just forget about me. then i would see him often but just recently it was him and his friend and me and my friend and we walked past them 2times and they said nothing i guess cause they were around there other friends then he comes and start rubbing down my back and kissing me everywhere then my friend said dont touch her and as bad as i wanted that from him i couldnt let him do it for long cause i want a boy who can handle me and since hes older 17 exactly i still feel lkie he could only handle me around one of his friends should i love him or move on? (link)
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Darling, men are a lot like dogs, they take what they want and keep on roaming. get a man that is nice to you, remember, if your not happy, obviously its his fault.
Toodles
Peg
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im 15. i still love my ex, travis. but he treated me like crap. so ive been trying to get over him and i met this guy named dillion. he is really nice, cute, and would never treat a girl bad. and i was considering goin out with him. and then my ex starting talking to me and he was saying he thinks we will probably go out again. i was so happy but i dont want to get hurt AGAIN but i cant help it no matter how many amazing guys i meet he is always the one i want. dillion is goin to be upset. and i will feel really bad because he was so great to me. what should i do (link)
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Sweetie, there are some things that never change, men is one of them. If this guy Travis treated you like crap before, nothing in the world is going to change him. Don't be upset, every woman on the planet makes this mistake, including myself you just have to learn from it and move on. Go out with Dillon, even if you want to go out with the Jerky boy. There are those boys you flirt with and those you take home. You will be happier with Dillon.
Yours
Peggy
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So i liked this guy a lot last year and he was in my school and then in the middle of the school year he switched schools and the day he was leaving our school this one girl told him that i liked him and then he started hating me because i still lived in his neighborhood and he thought i stalked him even though i didnt and he went and told everyone at his new school. So like now hes back in the US( i moved from there and im really far away) so yeah and me and my friend switched schools to the school he was going 2 cuz we hated our school and now i think a lot of people hate me because he spread rumors about me and like i know most of you r gonna say just b urself and ignore them but thats easier said than done because like i dont want people to hate me and stuff...wat should i do?? PLEASE HELP!! (link)
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Honey, the simple fact of the matter is that High School sucks the big one. But this is Life, and you have to learn to deal with people that are jerks. This is hard to hear because it is not helping you, you think, but it is a reality.
If anyone brings it up just laugh as if you find it amusing, because people like that feed on the response, causing pain and embarrassment is what they feed on. Don't give it to them.
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okay well you see, me and my boyfriend have been on and off for about a year and a half now. but the thing is, yes we go to the same school even though we're in different grades but we get 10 minute break and lunch together, plus he has to walk by my locker to get to some of his classes. and he hasn't talked to me in about a week and a half now. he just walks right by me and pretends he doesn't see me. then when our two grades have an assembly or something, and we have to sit on different sides of the room, he'll be looking at me throughout the whole thing with sad face on. after about a week of not talking, i finally got fed up and called him ( which suprised me, and prolly him, too becuase he knows how nervous i get to be the first to call or something) so. i told him that I IIIIIIIIIIII was sorry for not talking to him lately, when really it was both of us and he said it was fine and not to worry about it. and he said he loved me when we were about to hang up so i dont know. this has never happpened before so i dont know what to do. i get really nervous if i try to go up and talk to him. he wasn't in school today so idk. i wanna talk to him , but i want HIM to come to ME ( or my locker... when i'm there, or lunch or SOMETHING...ANYTHING) and just talk to me.oh, and this weekend, (friday satruday and sunday) theres a fair coming up so hopefully he's going and then like in like three weeks theres a halloween dance at our school and i really hope we're talking by then :( please, give me some advice on what i should do. you can also IM me on my screen name for myspace, xanga, and advicenators. it is....
stars wish on us
thanksss (link)
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What your learning is that there are different ways to communicate. Being the first to call or going up to him in school is not a sign of weakness, just that your over that childish who-speaks-to-whom-first nonsense. My advice? suck it up, and march up to him when you want to talk to him. He won't bite.
Good luck
peggy
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