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babi boy drivin me crazy
hey, well there is this guy i reeeeally like alot aaand well we dont know each other but im constantly checking him out soooooo i definitally know him i mean were not friends or anything we talk here and there but well anyway his girlfriend just broke up with him sooooo i was tinking about asking him to the dance or maybe asking him out buuut the problem is i dont want to ask him and find out that he doesnt like me but sometimes in class i see him staring at me and he acts hilarious around me as in he make s up jokes that make absolutly no sence buuuut i love them but he kinda acts a little shy around me to sometimes... i really like him an di really want to ask him out or to the dance but i am afraid that he is gonna say no and i am gonna be crushed!!! I want to know what i could do ask him out and get rejected or be happy and he says yes or if maybe i would just lay low and see if he asks first... and about him sstsring st me and stuff like that what could that mean?
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Well, I'm going to give you the same advice I just gave a guy last night who asked basically the same problem, and he messaged me back and let me know that it worked out.
Just firstly, show him how great you are. At school just hang out with, laugh at all his jokes and everything, and then whenever you're talking to him, just be like,"Hey, do you want to go to the dance together? I think it'd be so much fun!" And just let it start off as a friendly based thing to go together, so there'd be less pressure in asking and less nerves off having to be rejected, cause who would reject a friend?
And as for the staring and jokes and everything, it could possbily mean he likes you. Guys are always confusing whenever it comes to signals, so what a girl might be taking in as flirting and whatnot, the guy could only be thinking he's just being friendly, so you have to be careful with that one.
Then at the dance, REALLLLYYY show him how great you are. Flirt with him, hug him, dance with him, compliment him and everything and just have a lot of fun. Then at the last slow dance, just let him know of your feelings for him. Just be like,"Well, I have something to tell you. I like you, ____. I mean, I wanted to ask you here to the dance as sort of a more date kind of thing, but I was afraid you'd say no, so I just asked as friends. But, if I don't find out how you feel about me, I'm basically going to go nuts, haha." And also let him know that if he doesn't feel the same way towards you, then can you guys just remain friends, because you'd rather be his friend then completely lose him. ( but hopefully, we don't have to think about that cause hopefully he'll say yes! :D )
Also, if he DOES say no and you guys just remain friends, think of it this way. You've gained more courage in letting someone know how you feel ( which takes ALOT of guts ), you've had an amazing night at the dance, and you're still able to talk to him and everything and have a good time with him. So, it can also be taken in as a good thing, too. Rejection is a part of life, that everyone has to face sometime or another.
But like I said, hopefully you won't have to deal with rejection!
I hope everything works out, and I hope I helped!
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Well, if all the signs point to yes,yes,yes! Go for it girl! Rejection is something we all face, so instead of sayin, "I like you" wich would be more painful if you are rejected, instead ask him somewhere, like the local Ice Cream Parlor, but somewhere casual. If you have a blast together, ask him to the dance. If there's akward moments, consider other people, do you really fit?
If he likes you, you like him, all signs point to yes, I have faith in you.
Aneis
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Maybe he wants to ask you if he is acting that way but maybe he really likes yu like you like him and he is to scared to ask so you may as well ask him its worth a try coz there may be a happy ending to the situation
The Collumnis
--Rainbow !!! :P
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Sweetie, Sometimes you have to risk it. You don't know, maybe he's worth it. Don't be afraid. Find out where you stand, and don't put all of your self worth into what he says, if he says no, move on. More fish in the sea sort of thing.
Yours
Peggy
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