Hi, I'm Rainbow. I am a teenager, so I understand every teenage drama ever! Literally. Feel free to ask me questions. I'm a good-natured person, I'm friendly - I swear, I don't bite.
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Ok, so for a while my friend has been really weird towards me. She likes a guy that used to like me, and she felt threatened or something. So she's been a bit bitchy towards me. This guy cannot stand me, we always fight.
So he obviously decided to have a bit of fun and screw up the friendship with this girl.
He told her I backstab her and all this crap (Please note, this guy lives on the other side of the country and he's some random on the internet) and she believed him. Heyy what happened to "Friends are forever boys are whatever" hey?
Anyway she decided to instantly believe him and not even ask my side and keeps sending me nasty emails and myspace comments. I'll delete and block her, it's too easy.
However we share mutual friends, so it may get a bit sticky.
But the question isn't how to react to that. The question is:
She obviously wants me out of her life. Yet she keeps bringing all this drama on =\ I just want her the HELL out of my life, how do I get her to just give up and move on, and date some stupid psycho guy that lives on the other side of the country. (link)
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Hi,
I believe that she shouldn't of dated this guy over the internet cuz it can be way dangerous and second of all just ignore her : dont reply to her nasty emails, dont reply to her comments keep in mind that if you do that for a few weeks she'll eventually give up
Act like she's not your friend because if you know she's doing all this to you she's obviously not your friend at all.
Try and forget about her and all what reminds you of her.
Hope I helped
xxooxx-Rainbow x
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I can't help what I do..
I'm tired of people telling me there problems, and acting like I have none. I'm always in the middle of everything. I lovee my friends I cant live without them but thry expect me to be perfect, and always be on the side and I can't.
It's multiple cases, couple break up, a fight happens over the weekend, people aren't friends anymore and they tell me. I say oo that sucks and give my opinion and say where this might've gone wrong.. and they expect me to be on there side.
I refuse to chose sides. And they get mad at me..
Soo I think last week I snapped! Call it PMS, call it me being bitchy but I couldn't help but tweakk on everyone who came to me with problems.
So people (friends) that I know mean wellstart asking questions. Questions I can't answer. And I know there trying to help, but I don't need them getting into the middle and trying to fight my battles. There trying but they wont succeed. I'm a lost coase. beyound help.
I don't know whats wrong with me.. one day ill be soooooo happy, flashing smiles to everyone and its contagious.. Next day you dont want to be around me. I can't handle peoples voices and bitch about everything. Weird this is i know I do it. and i try to nipp it in the butt and stop it from happening.. but it does anyway.
I've tried starting the day before again. Mimiking some of the things I did the day before.. make fun of me or not im desperate, Im moody...
I have my own problems.
I can't be on every side, I can't have my own opinion without someone being like WHAT!...
I cant be me.
I dont blame the people around me..
Hmm. My brother got in a car accident. Walked out scotch free. Day after get's a DWI and I frove him outa the house. I knew he was drinking, I knew it wasn't safe but i went on and On... he blamed me for my Dads heartattack.
I knew he did tat because he was drunk but i could just walk away. No. I threw every little think about him I hated.
Like him calling me Katie-Kat... It was cute when I was 7. Now just annoying.. But yesturday I wouldn've cared, you know. One day nothing can dent me.. you can't tear me down from them cloud that comes and goes. The next day when I hit the ground Ill point it out adn how it annoys the hell outa me.
I know its not PMS. I KNOW>>>>
Stevens come to me about Olivia.
Olivias come to me about Steven
Ariele come to me about how Steven and Olvia are going out.
Cole came to me about liking Ariele.
im tired of the stupid drama.. I dont say that to there faces... but when im in this distructive mood.. I cant garentee i wont haul of and beat someone..
how am I going to explain there moods. Or what I say to people. ill think oo shouldvent said that in my head but my mouths flying..
GRR HELP (link)
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Its what teenage life is all about its drama...but if you are really upset about this and need certain and about you drinking and the heart attack thing tell your parents or just try and relax the situation by ignoring it and pretend you cant hear them for about a week or two...then when you feel you've relaxed a bit start talking to them again and just tell them you cant take sides because your stuck in the middle and just tell them your all their friend and its impossible to take sides
As about the whole gossip thing dont get involved or just leave them to gossip because you cant take control of everyones life can you? Exactly! Its their problem
Hope I helped
Signed
Rainbow
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My boyfriend and I have been together a little over three months. For his birthday, all he asked me for was the biggest best most amazing kiss ever. I've kissed a lot of guys, but its always been like a little peck. Now I promised him this big amazing kiss, so how do I pull it off? haha. ANYTHING can help. Thanks. (link)
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Wrap your arms around his neck snog him and he'll carry it on and just do what u started
Rainbow
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my kitten got out last night & he always stays in the backyard whenever he gets out. its been a day now and he's still not home. i walked in some of my development tonight and i asked people if they've seen him and noone has. this isn't like my cat because he is very attached to me so i know if he was looking for my house, he'd be home by now. i can't stop crying because i really miss him. tomorrow im going to put flyers up for him. is there anything else i can do? he only has a collar and no name tag because we havent gotten the chance to get him one. everyone keeps telling me he will be home in a few days but i really want him home now. (link)
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You could try your local animal shelter and see if they have your cat there
Or try like a pet care centre near you or something
Hope i helped
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ok my bff and i have been bff for 2 1/2 years now we are in a major fight. I started ignoring her a week after she started lying to me and changing big time. Shes acting like someone shes not. She finnaly got the clue today and she cant see whats wrong i've tried everything! My other bestfriend is agreeing with me and when my bff talked to her she was saying i was only ignoring you because of this one kid. and i know that is a lie because i am never with that kid because we are in diffferent classes. SHe keeps lieing to us and keeps denying it. i have no clue what to do i have tried everything but she just wont listen! We used to tell eachother everything.
And plz dont msg me saying that shes probably having problems at home because we tel eachother everything and i know her problems at home and i help her vent through them so yea.
Just plz help me! (link)
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Finally i know what you should do. Sit her downa and ask her why she is being like this and she might tell you or you could try saying why are you lying to us all the time and denying and make her realise how much fun you had when you were all bffs
If you need anymore help
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See u later
Rainbow x
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Hi, lately I've been the opposite of insomnia. Meaning I won't and can't wake up. Like, I will wake up and be wide awake, but when I start to move, or sit up I fall back asleep. I haveal tried everything I can think of: going to sleep earlier, not eating late, thinking of things, excersizing before bed, sleeping with no electronics on (t.v., lights, etc.), and the opposite of all of those things. What else can I do?
ps. I have been almost late for school 3 times now! (link)
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I know what you should do. Try speaking to yout parents and get a doctor round.Because if your late for school your education! and then you should definetly go to a doctor because they might know what you dont know and your parents about it and they can find out exactly whats up
Rainbow
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I have a shih tzu named Oreo, he's black and white. I just got a new brown and white shih tzu and I was just looking for a name that goes with Oreo. Any ideas? (link)
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Black Cloud or anything like that
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I have to wake up at 6:30 in the morning to get ready for school, so what time should I go to bed on a school night to get enough sleep?
Also, don't you get tired from getting TOO MUCH sleep? (link)
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Well ....9:30 or 10 i wouls say and btw i hope i helped uu
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me and my friend Vanessa are really close(yes same friend from last question)but....things are slipping.Im becoming popular, hanging out with new,mature people, and she well isnt.I want her to fit in with my new friends but,whenever she does she makes a fool out of her self what do i do?Im not gunna ditch her, but i am gunna stay friends with the populars, cause theyre really nice to me! (link)
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Popularity has no comparison with friendship i think what the easiest thing you should do is accept her for who she truly is and still can be friends with the populars
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good god, where do i begin. okay well first off, well call him bob. me and bob were really good friends, then we went off to different schools. a few months ago i use to like him and i'm pretty sure he liked me. but now i miss it, and i want to win him back. but how can i do that? we go to different schools, and when i see him in his school we are with different people. i'll say hi, but thats about it. I really liked him, i'm going to be at his school next year, but this summer i wanna win his heart. there are always girls going after him, but i really like him, and he did like me. i wanna get that back. any help? (link)
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Oh yes i can help you with this its happening with me too!...Well first off ...you should ring him up and tell him to come on a little day out you know like that sorta thing
Then on the day out that you plan tell him how you feel ...dont hesitate any longer dont keep it wrapped up tell him unfold your feelings for him he may feel exactly the same
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Rainbow
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Okay... I have this friend that I've liked for a really long time. I'm so close to just saying "I like you more than just a friend" but I can't seem to find a time to just say it. I have to find a way for her to bring it up, or else I won't say it. I know, it's bad, but I can't do it. If she would somehow bring it up if I like her or not, then I would say I do like her... Any ideas?? (link)
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Just say "Soo are you in a realationship or not?" and that will start the conversation
Maybe happily ever after
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my dad always like criticizes me whenever i eat something. like all the time, unless its breakfast. like he says he always sees me eating when its not true, but usually im eating when hes around, but still. its really annoying because i can control it myself, and not really overeat alot, but it really pisses me off when hes like "no more supper for you, you already ate enough" because i ate dinner kinda early, and 5 hours later i just wanted a little more.. and that was like 1 hour ago. maybe i need to stop doing stuff like that cause sometimes i just eat not for hunger but for like.. because the food tastes good or something, and ive noticed i've gotten a little fatter, but im still okay and i do alot of sports too, so i can burn it off. but my dad is kinda stubborn and only thinks what he says is right. like when im eating i get bored so i read books, and my dad doesnt want me to do that.. he says i should eat first then read, and i tell him all the time that like its more efficent not to, and ive been doing it for years and the books never got stained. ugh but he doesnt reason. same with the eating thing. he doesnt wanna hear what i have to say after, which is how alot of times he misjudges the situation and stuff.. and then overreacts. the same with my mom sometims, but thats a different story. -sigh- i know im just a 13 year old kid so what much can i really do, and i dont have to clean old peoples shit in the hospital as a job (well thats what my mom said she does sometimes cause shes a nurse) but like seriously.. im sure this will all be good in the long run or whatever but my parents constantly are hard on me and its kinda annoying. they wont even let me go to or have sleepovers with my friends (only with family). just cause my parents never did that kinda thing when they were younger (they're cameroonian from africa.. different culture and such. i live in america now though). they worked hard to get us a good life here in america and blah blah, and i do work hard in school and stuff. and i may sound like a broken record... but like.. i dont know what to do sometimes. i want to go to summercamp, i know we dont have a whole lot of extra money for the really cool ones, but.. like my childhood is important too. i've never even been to it before. luckily i can do sports though, and other activities, but yeah.. and i havent even really gone shopping since last spring. i got like.. 3 pairs of pants and like 1-3 shirts inbetween on different days, but those don't really count. (link)
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I know this sounds kind of snooty but you need to speak to your parents (If they arent busy) and see if they will hear the side of your story why you eat as much as you do I agree with you you should never misjudge anyone until you see the whole story and its just horrible when you get the blame so speak to your parents and maybe eat in between less
Hope you dont mind me saying that Sorry if i hurt your feelings
RainBow
xoxo
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20/f
Finally, I dare to make a move by giving hints to the guy whom I love few months back. And when he realised it, he asked me whether is it true that I actually love him. Obviously, I said "yes" to him and in another way round I wanted to know his answer too whether he loves me anot by being so caring towards me. The thing is he loves me but he told me that he will not be a good boyfriend for me. He told me that I can find a better guy than him to be my boyfriend. I felt so sad and hurt at the moment he said that even though he loves me. What does he meant by he loves me but he will not be a good boyfriend for me? Is he rejecting my love towards him? Few days later, he started to avoid me as though I am invisible in front of him. What should I do now? Does he have a very low confidence about himself? (link)
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Just ask him to meet up with you like a cafe or somewhere and talk about it and it may end up that you can straighten this situation out and you may get into a realationship
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this might seem like a stupid question but please bear with me.
If someone 'confesses'their love to you or tell you they like you.. how do you respond to that? I just can't imagine anything that isn't awkward. Just a simple "me too" seems really weird and awkward. It's like "i like you". "me too". then what?? Stand there uncomfortably staring at each other or what? But yeah, im just wondering how you guys or your bf/gfs responded.
happy valentines day/sinlge awareness day! (link)
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Me and my bf say it to each other alot just say it and have more confidence in yourself that helps
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my cat is like wheezing. it sounds like he's snoring but you can tell that his nose is like stuffy. is it normal or could he be really sick? btw- he's an indoor/outdoor cat and he's been outside a lot lately and it's super cold out. (link)
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I know what to do. Keep your cat inside for like a couple days or longer and keep him warm like near a radiater or something really warm feed your and it will be fine soon.
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Rainbow!!!
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how long does it take for the food in your stomach to go through your intestines and you poop it out? (link)
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I think 30 mins or something like that or maybe it could be a bit more
Hope I help Yooo//x//
-x-Rainbow
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How come Zac Efron isn't in the High School Musical concert tour thing? Will he be in High School Musical 2? (link)
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I dont know but he doesnt lip synch it sounds exactly like him
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ok my friend always ditches me and she lke talkes about me behind my back i get soo mad and like i feel like yelling but in the end i??
cant what should i do to tell her how i feel (link)
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Well i defenitly think you should tell her say to her i dont mean to be like this and pull her to the side and say i hate you talking about me behind my back and thhen she might say sorry
Hope i helped
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okay my step dad yells at me everyday and grounds me and i ve been grounded for a long time and my mom is thinkng aobut leaving him and i know she is not because we are poor without him what should i do so my step dad can like me and i dont get grounded sooo much (link)
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I think i can help you i'm only giving the best advice i can here ok??
Well you could start being nice to him and you may seem to have a good relationship and he may start being nice to you back and that my result to you not getting into the situation where he grounded for a long long time
---Rainbow,!!!
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I'm 16, and extremely muscular because i've been running track since I was 7. It's the off season and I've been slowly but surely gaining. I'm not fat but I dont feel like me. I want to lose a little but I'm not sure how? or what to eat? or how to exercise? whenever I work out, I feel like i'm just getting more and more muscular (bulky if you will) and that im not really getting rid of the stomach flab? What should I do? (link)
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You could maybe swim and skip
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