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How do I say it?


Question Posted Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:27 am

Okay... I have this friend that I've liked for a really long time. I'm so close to just saying "I like you more than just a friend" but I can't seem to find a time to just say it. I have to find a way for her to bring it up, or else I won't say it. I know, it's bad, but I can't do it. If she would somehow bring it up if I like her or not, then I would say I do like her... Any ideas??

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dannisaysso answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 8:20 pm:
dating a close friend can definitly ruin things between you two. if you really care about her and dont want to loose her, dating might not be the best thing. but if you really want a way to bring it up, ask her maybe who she is crushing on at the moment, or maybe talk about what her views on realtionships are..if you try these things and she doesnt hint at anything more between the two of you, maybe you should leave it alone because i know i wouldnt want to loose my bestfriend.


well from what you told me, it seems like shes interested. i think that you should tell her how you feel and bring up that convorsation again. it seems to me, by what she said, she is hinting at something between you two

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Brandi_S answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 2:32 pm:
I just have to say, from personal experience, the quickest way to lose a friend is to date them.

Be wise in your decision about going out with your friend. If it doesn't work out, your friendship will never be the same, if it even continues.

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blujay answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 11:35 am:
call her and talk about funny times and just tell her " listen i know that we are close friends but i have to tell you that over the past weeks i have started to like you as more than a friend" and tell her that if she gives you the chance to be hers that you will make her happy and if you break up that the friendship will not change


i know cause it happens

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Rainbow answered Wednesday February 14 2007, 10:58 am:
Just say "Soo are you in a realationship or not?" and that will start the conversation

Maybe happily ever after

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