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Some of you may know the website iconator.
It's just basicly AIM icons. I recently
became interested in making some. I tried to
read throught the tutorials but it didnt make
any sence to me. Can someone explain how to do it
where I would get the stuff to do it, I just want to have nice backgrounds with quotes and hearts and such. THANKS (link)
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well, i went through that like a month ago. i got really into making icons on that website and i was asking the same questions. i never found any stuff to do it or any programs to help me. the only ones i found were online and they werent what i was looking for. i eventually started making them on the paint program that is on my computer. i had to make them frame by frame which took hours. you can use the iconator resizulator and the program on there that puts the frames together. other than that, i have never found out any other way. i tried asking people but they were never any help. that is what i know, sorry i dont know much more.
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well, ive known this guy, alex for 2 months. we met through one of my BEST friends chris (ive known chris for 6 years). alex's dad died last year before i met him. He lives with his mom. Yesterday when i got on the computer, he was online. so we were talking, like always. alex considers me one of his best friends. he always tells me how much he loves me. but last night, he logged off and said that he loved me as usual. we left on good terms. I looked at my buddy list window like 30 minutes later and he was logged back on. so i imed him saying "u back?" and under his s/n, someone imed me back saying "who are you?" i ignored it because i knew that he knew my s/n. and then a few minutes later, whoever was on his s/n was like "listen, i dont want you in my sons life. if you dont leave him alone, im going to call the proper authorities on you." and i was like "my dads a cop and im one of alexs best friends" which neither of them is a lie. and whoever it was said "im sure. just dont talk to him again." so i said "mmk." i was gonna say something like "oh, well, your son is the most amazing kidd. he is always there for me. and he always tells me how much i mean to him. but now, you can explain why im not talking to him." in my mind, if whoever it was that was talking to me wants me out of his life, then okay.
my question is, what should i do? i told chris and he was supposed to talk to alex about it. i usually go see him at lunch. today i didnt. i told him i would meet him before school. i didnt. i have not seen him for 4 days (friday, feb. 16th) and the last time we talked was on monday feb. 19th. my thinking is hes been acting wierd lately, so he posed as his "mom" to tell me that he didnt want me in his life. w/e. thoughts? (link)
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i dont think this sounds like something a parent would do and i really dont think that he would do this to get rid of you. by what you say, it seems like he really really cares about you and if he really wanted to get rid of you he would do it more caringly. it could be his parent. have you done anything to upset his mother? does she think badly of you? because if she does it might be her. like the person below me said..definitly talk to him in person, dont aviod him try talking to him like you normally do in person and if he acts normal like nothing happened, then it probably wasnt him. once youve established the fact that everything is normal, tell him about what happened online. maybe he can talk to his mom and ask if she said anything.
good luck!
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Do guys shave down there usually or not? I want to know what to expect (not that im doing anything anytime soon. just curious) (link)
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some do, some dont...most just trim. i depends on the guy, there really isnt a way to tell unless you ask which might be awkard lol.
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Okay everything was going great with my boyfriend but.. he said "if i said i love u what would u say?"
I like him, he's nice and fun to be around but we have only been dating for 2 weeks.
he keeps pulling this crap. i don't know what to say
because he comes up with "What if I was being truly honest?"
Gee, we have only hung out about 4 times and we talk online a lot.. but how could you EVEN think you love someone already?
I'm not going to throw those words around. I don't even love him and honestly, i don't care if he loves me. He doesn't really know me.
What should I say?
He wants to know how to prove to me that he really loves me.
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well to me it doesnt really seem like you even want to be with him. I wouldnt either, hes being very forward and he sounds clingy. If you do want to continue things with him to give him a chance, tell him that your not comfortable with him saying all this. Tell him exactly what you asked me. Tell him that you dont want to talk about that anymore until you have hung out more and have been going out longer. If its not comfortable for you, he should know that. Tell him that he doesnt need to prove his love for you, you will be able to tell when your ready to accept it. =]
good luck!
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Ok well this alittle long but I just want to write everything down so hopefully I would feel better. Ok so i'm a feshman now in highschool. When I meet my ex I was in the 6th grade. It was like love at first sight seriously. I couldn't stop thinking about him. We went out and I ended up braking up with him because my friend liked him also. So when I started 8th grade I spoke 2 him again and we ended up going out. He told me all these sweet things and I just love him so much.we lasted for 10 months and then he broke up with me for no reason. Then he wanted to try things again but I can't becuase I'm afraid of loving him more then I do. My friend goes to his school and she told me that he flirts a lot with girls and that I don't deserve him I deserve someone better.but I can't forget about him. Its like my heart is attached to him I feel so depressed its like I can't move on. he sends me text messages sometimes telling me that he loves me but I'm just afraid. What should I do?. Should I forget about him if so what are the best ways?. But I love him so much. I jsut don't see my life without him. Please help thanks! (link)
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My best advice would be to get over him. It is going to be very very difficult because you are so attached to him. Its going to hurt but what would hurt more is if he ends up cheating on you because he is so flirtacious. The best way to get over him is to find another guy. It will get your mind off of him. Also, i wouldnt text him so much, gradually stop texting him. If you dont want that then just dont send flirty text messages to him and ignore his. Make the right decision hun, boys are so difficult and can be hurtful. If you think he might hurt you, get out of it as fast as you can, boys arent worth the heartache.
good luck!
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Alright I know we all hate these questions but im finally in a position to ask for help.....
Here it goes...
I have a boyfriend of 4 months...But basically 6 months from the time we really started talking.
Then i have a boy that i was on and off with for 2 years. We never "went out" but we hooked up and EVRYTIME we see eachother we always get these feelings back!!!
Well this other guy called every 2 weeks asking if i am still together with my BF and i say yes and hes like okay il ttyl. So finally he called 3 days ago and he wanted to hangout so i was like YEAH!!! so I hungout 2 days NON stop. And I got these feelings back.
I missed him SOOO much.
And ive thought about him while being together with my BF.
BUT my boyfriend knows about the relationship we had or 2 years and that we were on and off and that we like loved eachother.
What do i do?
Do i leave my Bf who I love?
For someone Ive loved 2 years?
I keep thinking i should do I can just HAVE FUN for a while! But Im scared of doing that and Missing my BF terribly.
This is killing me and i havent said much to my bf I kinda avoid calls cause I wanna decide before I talk to him so I have something to say.
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!! (link)
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well there might be a reason that you and that other boy never went out. There are more to relationships then "hooking up". I think that you should take some time to really think if you love your boyfriend or if you love this other guy. You cant have both. Talk to the guy that youve known for 2 years and make sure that he wants to persue a relationship as much as you because you wouldnt want to throw away your current boyfriend for some jerk. Make sure your not going to regret anything. Talk to them both and maybe youll find out which one will give you what you want.
good luck!
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ok well theres this guy and well ive been wanting to kiss him since well i met hiM!!
He has told me he likes me and everyone tells me it all the time.
i Just want to kiss him and see what he does and if he goes with it...do you think i should!
we both are crushin each other but not going out YET. (link)
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when your alone go for it. many guys love spontanious girls adnd if crushing on eachother and will eventually be going out, your going to kiss sooner or later. why not sooner? =]
good luck!
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Last year, there was this very complicated situation, that I won't explain, but basically there were two girls, and I was one of them. He chose the other one over me, because of popularity. Now, from what I hear from friends and his facial expressions, he regrets it. Since that situation last year, he's been, what I call, "depressed". He used to be known for his smiling.
Now, he hardly ever smiles or has fun. I don't know what's going on personally, but I don't think he was abused, or his parents died or anything.
Now, every time I see him, he looks like he's in pain. Not physically, but mentally.
I would ask, but our relationship is very broken, we can barely even talk to each other, without it all flooding back.
But I feel something, every time we look at each other. It's probably nothing.
Anyone have any suggestions? (link)
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talk to him. talking is the only way that anything is going to get out. dont get some friend to be the middle man, the only way that you two are going to connect is if you to talk. there may be something wrong with him that he wants to tell someone. maybe he wants that someone to be you. maybe you can help him smile again. start to be his friend again, someone that he can confide in. once youve accomplished that, more might come from it.
good luck!
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this is a long story but i got 2 give background info!
so a week from saturday i was at shool (its like jewish church) and i saw this boy and had my ffriend entroduce us because she knows him from baseball. usually i have nno problem talking to boys but around him i got so nervous. i couldent say three words so i walked away. then this saturday i saw him at the park so i went up to him and asked him if he wanted to go to a party that night. he said sure and so i asked for his # and said id call him with the details. he gave me his cell # and i texted him that night and gave him all the details. he actually came and i came about a half hour after. when i got there i asked him if he wanted to dance and he said sure. we danced for a while until he had to go. he was talking to one of my guy friends and said he wanted to kiss me. but i wasnt ready for that because i didnt know him. so before he left he leaned in to kiss me so i gave him a kiss on the cheek. and while we were dancing i told him i had a huge crush on him. but some people were talking that i wanted to make my ex jelous. but i couldent care less about my ex. the boy i was dancing with, he has the most amazing eyes and hes so nice i just want to be with him. but i think im scaring him off. i dont want to play games and wait until he texts me or whatever. he knows i like him. and yesterday i texted him twice but he never answered. and today he texted me back and i was like im nvr gnna c u again and hes like i gtg do hw now bye. so now i dont know i dont really want to lose him but im pretty sure he just wanted to hang out for a night. i could handle that though. i just want to know your opinion about the situation thanx! (link)
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well it seems like you have a huge crush on this boy and that its not gonna be easy to get over him. like many of the other people said, he may have been using you for that one night. boys are like that, he may say that he hasnt danced with a girl before but he could be lying to make you think that hes so innocent. on the other hand, you could possibly be intimidating him. if he hasnt had a girlfriend before and he knows that you like him hes probably nervous about the whole thing and might be confused. i think that you should lighten up with the whole texting thing and give him a little space. if he really likes you and wants to persue a relationship or some kind, then he will come around on his own.
good luck!
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Back in November, I met this guy at a party, and I felt like I connected with him right away and we grinded. However, we were having a random conversation about hook-ups and he said he doesn't hook up because he doesn't want his parents to find out. I'm depressed, whatever. But he asks for my number and screen name and we talk. He calls me more often than I call him. Recently, we've been talking even more and I still like him. Now flash forward to Saturday. A mutual friend pulls me aside and says something along the lines of "I think he likes you, but he's weird. You have to take it slow. But when he mentions you...you can just tell." And I get the sense that he likes me too, as does everyone else. This mutual friend wants to "torture" him by telling him that he spoke to me without telling him what I said. So...what should I do? Should I wait for him to ask me out or say something myself or just wait? (link)
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never wait. sometimes waiting isnt the best thing. to me its seems like hes likes you, but hes a little nervous about a relationship. the next time you talk to him on the phone or online, you should mention the idea of you and him together or something along those lines, whatever your comfortable with, and if he says that he agrees, go more in depth with it. if your friends think that he likes you, and you think that he likes you, he probably does. so maybe he is too shy to say something, i think you should be the one to make the move.
good lluck!!!
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So there's a boy (obviously.)
We're pretty good friends. Joke, have fun, talk a lot, etc.
We're even LAB PARTNERS, (My teacher makes it so that you have to BOTH pick that person, otherwise you get matched with someone that doesn't care.) if that says anything. (Ha, ha, with the *chemistry* jokes.)
We have a lot in common, including the fact that we're both really shy.
I really like him, but I'm not sure if he feels the same way.
Do I say something?
(15/f) (link)
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definitly say something because if hes as shy as you are, he isnt going to say something first if you dont. maybe he is asking himself the same thing. to me, it seems like he might like you, i would definitly give it a shot. tell him how you feel and see what he says. you will never know if you dont ask =]
good luck!!
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i hate asking my parents 4 money because thell lecture me about it and i never get the money.
so i want to know im a 13/F and i want to get a way to get money. doing chores isnt gonna get me anywhere. they dont give me money for that. and they wont give me an allowence. so yeah. do you know of anyway that i could get money?. (link)
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well you cant get a real job until your 15 and a half. so thats not really an option. im 15 now and im still not old enough to get a job and i feel the same way about asking my parents for money so i babysit. i dont know if you have that option, but i think its the best way to get money. it pays really well and i started at 13 so there really isnt an age limit. i asked my parents if they would let me babysit and then i asked them if they had any friends that had younger kids that needed to be babysat. i started with family and they actually paid better because they knew me. so yeah thats what i do for now, if you have anymore questions just ask me.
hope i helped
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my brother is 15 yrs old and still likes Spongebob! is there any possible reason for this and how can i get him to stop watching this show? i know that sounds mean, but seriously.. (link)
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well im 15 and i like spongebob every once in a while..i dont think there is anything wrong with it, everyone likes different things. if he is like obsessed with it and wears like spongebob clothes, and if he like knows all the times that its on tv and prepares his whole day around it then that might be a problem. but if thats not whats going on, i wouldnt worry about it, he will definitly grow out of it. if you really want to change him, i would try telling him that you thinks its immature and that he should watch something else, introduce him to new shows.
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ok well theres this guy...hmm we'll call him Bob and well he walks with me to all my classes and talks to me when we are getting our stuff outa our lockers (his is right beside mine)He sings to me in weird voices (just saying my name) and he messes around with me in Band (we both play the drums) he stands just about as close as he can get to me without people thinking things...
Do you think he likes me?!?!? (link)
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oh it definitly sounds as if he likes you..hes definitly flirting with you and you should do something about it. flirt back. maybe he will come and straight out tell you and then you will really know.
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okay, i just started my period last month and i have already noticed that my boobs are a big bigger. Is this abnormal? or what does it mean? Does it mean that i will have a big front later? Or what will they look like by the summer? (link)
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this is 100% normal and is a good sign that your healty and normal. when you go through all that puberty stuff, you will notice that your boobs get bigger. like the person below me said, look at your close women family members, they should be a good idea of what you might look like
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my best friend, marah's, birthday was yesterday, and her & her boyfriend and a few other people are going out to eat tonight. my boyfriend [clay] and i were invited. but, clay and i already had plans to go out to eat and do the whole "valentine's" thing tonight [because we were both snowed in on v-day] and then come back here and have dinner with my some of my family that's in for the weekend. so, i told marah i'd try and go, but knew i most likely couldn't make it. of course, this made her mad.
last night, my other best friend and i went to grab something to eat, to her brother's middle school basketball game, and back to her house to watch our favorite show. well, marah got pissed and put up an away message saying "thanks for inviting me on my birthday!", obviously directed at us. earlier in the day she told us she and her boyfriend were going to try and do something to celebrate tonight. or else we definitely would've invited her. [note: she's the type that's always with her boyfriend- like she has to pick, friends vs. boyfriend, and she always chooses boyfriend. she never hangs out or attempts to hangout with us anymore.] i'm very close to giving up on the girl- she's constantly pushed me & my best friend aside [we all three used to be practically sisters, now its down to two], and hasn't been out with us for months because she's with her boyfriend all the time. i've had a boyfriend much longer than she has [they've been dating around 7 months, my b/f & i almost a YEAR and seven months.] we're even closer than her and her boyfriend, but we both make sure to hangout with our other friends, unlike her.
what is her deal, and what can i say to tell her how i feel without pointing fingers at her or blaming it on her? any help is appreciated. (link)
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wow you have the exact same problem as me. its like identical. my friend is basically obsessed with her boyfriend and its rather gross im not gonna lie and her and i never hang out anymore because shes always with him. i would definitly tell you to say something to her online or whatever before you guys get too far apart. thats what happend to me and my bestfriend. i decided to just let it go and not talk to her anymore if she didnt make the attempt to talk to me in the hopes that she would call me or ask me to hang out. well she didnt. and we havent talked in about two months. so before its too late, tell her that you wish you guys could hang out more, maybe plan a few days in advance and promise eachother that you wont break the plans.
good luck
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Hey my names alyssa and i have this sudden urge to watch lezbian porn. im 13 and i wanna no, is this normal? (link)
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i guess its normal. i think the reason you have this "urge" is because you may be curious of what older women look like naked or whatever. you may be comparing yourself to them. so im not too sure but my friends have actually done it and i thought they were odd but thats what they told me when i asked.
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I'm a virgin and I don't plan on having sex anytime soon, but i dont like my body when its naked at all. My skin is extremly white and i have a lot of access hair, its like blonde hairs but i can see it, like on my back, butt, stomach, and around my niples, and i hate the way my bellow area looks because im so light skinned and its so dark down there even though i give it a shape up every now n then. And i dont want anyone to say oh you should be happy with your body blah blah blah because thats bull...
so my question is how can i get rid of that access hair with out shaving or going to a waxer? especially my back thats hard...
HELP... (link)
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bleaching always works for like your back and arms and stuff..but as for "down there" there isnt anything you can do except for shave or wax that is really going to work. i tried to look things up online but i didnt find anything except for "wax, shave, wax, shave" it was all repetitive. but i am very very white too and bleaching the hair on places like your back and arms places like that works.
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i like these two guys, one of them is my really good friend, the other one is mh friend but i don't see him very much and i don't really see him outside of school. so both of them have girlfriends... which really sucks. the one that i'm really good friends with has a really happy relationship... they're soo cute... so he's off limits... but he's a huge flirt and he makes moves on me and stuff... and it's really hard for me to not come back at him and flirt right back. so how can i keep my self control when it's sooo hard to do with him? and the second guy is even more of a flirt! and i really like him, and i think he likes me. but he's with another chick, i really hope they break up... which is totally messed up, i know! so forgive me for asking this but is there anyway that i can get them to break up so he's avalible? and if you're going to tell me that i should just get over him or something like that please just don't say it. (link)
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well your very right about the first guy you talked about...you should just leave that alone, if hes happy, dont endanger his relationship. about him flirting with you, you dont have to ignore it and i know that us girls cant really help flirting back with a guy we think is cute but try and keep it to a minimum and if he tries to make any moves on you, thats where you need to be the bigger person and stop it. as for the second guy, breaking them up isnt the best idea but if you really want to, flirt with him back as much as you can and maybe he will like you more then his girlfriend eventually if they arent too serious. I wouldnt really say anything to break them up because that will just cause drama. but keep hanging out with him. if they have been together for a while just dont try it.
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Aright I have this friend and we get in aruments ALOT were fine by ourselfs but not around our other friends i dont know why it's so gay... and people tell us and i know its gonna get worse in our middle teens... please helpā„
Thanxs (link)
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well me and my friend are the same way. we are so comfortable with eachother that we dont have a hard time arguing. what i think that you should do, and what i try to do with my friend, is to just be tolerant of her. be the bigger person and dont argue with everything she says that makes you angry. pretend you didnt hear it or just ignore it. i know its really hard to ignore stuff like that but if you dont argue, she wont either and it will save you from a fight. the reason that you guys fight when you with other friends is maybe because one of you relates more to that other friend and will side with her/him on anything when you have a different opinion and then they both usually gang up on you and you just have to be calm and be the better person.
good luck
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