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not talking...?
well, ive known this guy, alex for 2 months. we met through one of my BEST friends chris (ive known chris for 6 years). alex's dad died last year before i met him. He lives with his mom. Yesterday when i got on the computer, he was online. so we were talking, like always. alex considers me one of his best friends. he always tells me how much he loves me. but last night, he logged off and said that he loved me as usual. we left on good terms. I looked at my buddy list window like 30 minutes later and he was logged back on. so i imed him saying "u back?" and under his s/n, someone imed me back saying "who are you?" i ignored it because i knew that he knew my s/n. and then a few minutes later, whoever was on his s/n was like "listen, i dont want you in my sons life. if you dont leave him alone, im going to call the proper authorities on you." and i was like "my dads a cop and im one of alexs best friends" which neither of them is a lie. and whoever it was said "im sure. just dont talk to him again." so i said "mmk." i was gonna say something like "oh, well, your son is the most amazing kidd. he is always there for me. and he always tells me how much i mean to him. but now, you can explain why im not talking to him." in my mind, if whoever it was that was talking to me wants me out of his life, then okay.
my question is, what should i do? i told chris and he was supposed to talk to alex about it. i usually go see him at lunch. today i didnt. i told him i would meet him before school. i didnt. i have not seen him for 4 days (friday, feb. 16th) and the last time we talked was on monday feb. 19th. my thinking is hes been acting wierd lately, so he posed as his "mom" to tell me that he didnt want me in his life. w/e. thoughts?
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I think that if it was his mom that would be really mean because she does not know you if she did she would know that her son loves you like a sister and is 1 of your best friends I think it was 1 of his friends playing around on the computer.
You should tell him how you feel and that it hurt you so much to hear those words and that you hope that it wasn't him trying to loose you as a friend confront him because real friends love and respect eachothers feelings
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i dont think this sounds like something a parent would do and i really dont think that he would do this to get rid of you. by what you say, it seems like he really really cares about you and if he really wanted to get rid of you he would do it more caringly. it could be his parent. have you done anything to upset his mother? does she think badly of you? because if she does it might be her. like the person below me said..definitly talk to him in person, dont aviod him try talking to him like you normally do in person and if he acts normal like nothing happened, then it probably wasnt him. once youve established the fact that everything is normal, tell him about what happened online. maybe he can talk to his mom and ask if she said anything.
good luck!
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This sounds REALLY familiar.
One of my friends last year went on my SN
and did this, beacuse they thought it was funny.
Dont get worried untill you talk to your friend
Alex. Dont, DONT do it online. Wait untill you see him in person or on the phone to tell him this. Good luck
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