I do not know what to do anymore, dropping hints, etc... how do you tell a couple of your family members that tney have very bad BO and that they need to shower daily, every time they visit our furniture needs to be disenfected and deoderized, then to top it all off they always seem to stay a day or 2 longer then they say.
There is two ways you could do it.
one: Tell them they really have bad odor and they really need to bathe.
OR
two: Tell them that they should try a product.
Or maybe be like all of us should take a shower and than go out somewhere.
Or when they come in say man we all stink,
we needa bath.
:] hehe.
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15/f I really need advice on how to make more friends. I'm kinda shy. I don't know how people make friends and I don't know what to do. I've tried all I could but I'm always nervous about "sounding cool" when i talk to people, I run out of things to say, and it's just very awkward and uncmfotable for me. Everyone's in some kind of clique and i don't fit in anywhere. How can I be better at socializng? How do you make friends?
When you make friends you don't have to be "cool".
Many people just like a real, down to earth person.
You dont wanna come off naive and inconsiderate.
Be yourself and maybe things would change.
You have to find a way to be more sociable.
You don't have to act a totally diffrent person to pick up friends.
JUST BE YOURSELF.
And just talk to people.
Don't act like your bottled up, come out the shy spot and become more open to people.
Say "hey, wats up."
Even "Hi, my name is such and such."
Try to be the person you are.
Trust me you'll find at least someone to talk too.
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how can you gain a bigger self confidence in your self? i always find myself doubting myself. please and thanks!
You should always have confidence in yourself.
Only you could succeed in what you really wanna do, maintain to be in a happy spirit.
Have God in you.
Pray and ask that he give you more strength.
He'll only give to you if you believe you could do it and be willing to become loyal and be confident.
You should be able to look in the mirror and be happy with yourself and have 100% ability to do anything.
NEVER DOUBT YOURSELF.
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im 15 years old. my name is william.
I am a freshman in highschool and for the past year ive been getting into drugs and alcohol very bad. my family doesnt trust me anymore, my friends (who got me into this shit) hate me and fuck with me. one of my best friends just jacked my ipod so that kinda hurt me. i can't get through the day without some pot or beer now, im turning into a complete alcoholic (kinda drunk right now). im ugly, i have very bad back acne, im getting 5 F's in school, no one (my family or friends) trust or like me. I have no one to talk to, i'm always grounded so I have nothing to do. I just want to make my life better, im fucking miserable right now. If I could i'd do better in school, I really try, but I don't get any of the math or science shit. I never did good in school, but 5 F's is outrageous and I need to change it. I try to get new friends, but im always shy and can't start or keep a conversation with anyone at school. I want to change who I am. I want to meet new people. But I can't. I want to get good grades, I want to do good in school and make my family proud, and stay out of drugs/alcohol, but I can't. I'm just that stupid kid that no one likes. maybe i'll just die.
thanks for listening to me, im just kind of venting here but any and all help would be great =]
First of all,
A real friend wouldn't let you dig so deep into this shit.
DROP THEM ALL.
Start all over, You didn't need them in the beginning.
Make your family proud.
Bring up your grades,
and ask your teacher's for help.
Try to stay away from alcohol and drugs.
I'm saying this because your only hurting yourself..
Your not fucking up no ones life but your own.
5 f's?
You need to stay out of this shit.
I'm saying this out of love.
This alcohol and drug shit is gonna end up killing you.
Im speaking from what i know.
I'mma try to help you because I know you are really trying to get help.
But, only you could give the extra 99% I can only give 1% if you let me.
"They say blood runs through the body, yet veins could burst"
Don't understand?
You will in the future.
Omg... This is insane.
Try talking to your family, I'm sure they really love you, they just hate your ways.
You are really fucking up your future sweetie...
Do you wanna go to college??
Do you wanna make your parents say " Yes! Thats my son!"
I would love to help you turn your life around...
We would have to start on email
Littlemisstrina@aol.com
EMAIL ME ANYTIME.
You are the future.
Thats only if you cut the BULLSHIT.
life will swallow you and spit you out!!
The devil is in you right now,
Take jesus into you.
Read the bible.
Always!!!
He always will lead you.
You need to want to be helped...
Hope i helped
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I'm a 42 y/o single man. Less then a month ago my best friend died in an accident. I have not been able to come to grips with his death. I have recently been having thoughts of ending my life. This happens whenever I am alone, especially at night. I have lost loved ones before, including my parents and brother all within a year of each other, but I never felt this type of despair, or loneliness. I am afraid I may eventually give in to my suicidal urge. Can anyone help me?
I think you are just going through alot.
Your letting their deaths interpet you whole life.
You feel alone and you feel you need to end your life because your love ones have died and you feel there is no one else to be there to comend you.
That isn't the best thing to do.
I suggest you go to a therapist.
You shouldn't kill yourself that will not help at all, maybe you need to get out more and have fun.
Try to get over the past and look into the future..
Im sure your mother, father, and best friend are in a better place.
How would they feel if they found out you killed yourself??
Try to go out and do things that make you happy and make you get over what makes you so sad.
Im sure their spirits still resides with you.
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15/m
I really do need to have any help from anybody willing to answer, anything will do.
A few years ago, i left my old school to go onto Secondary school. Now, at my old school, i had lots of friends and i was really, really happy and nothing was wrong. But when i changed schools, my social life just...collapsed. I've just been finding myself on my own and I guess it was from that point onwards that i began to talk to myself, creating realties in my head and situations and i would act them out (literally), speaking to people who weren't there and i would respond when they replied or asked or even spoke. I'd only recently began to notice this and it's scared me, i mean really. I don't know how to stop and try and erase this 'world' which has formed in my head. It only happened when i am alone.
What's even worse is that i've forgotten how to socilise with my peers and I've wanted to sit with them at luch time and dinner (I board at school), but i can't.
So basically, my question is: how can i get my life back together and have the social life i used to have?
Well, maybe you should consider to talking to people and becoming more sociable.
Be yourself, and just stop with the extra conversations in your head.
Im thinking your just letting this school get the best of you and that you are missing your old school and life and you don't really fit in the new.
Just try, to become sociable
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I have a problem. I am not anorexic or bulimic, I have never gone a day without eating, and I usually eat 1000-3000 calories a day. I am 5'7" and 131 pounds. My problem is that I think I am very chubby even if everyone says I am not. I obsess over calories and weigh myself a few times a day. I get so depressed if I feel I eat too much and hate the feeling of my stomach being full. I eat very very healthy and exercise regularly. My mother and my sister both have eating disorders. I would never starve myself, but I am so sick of thinking about calories all day and pinching my fat spots and making sure I can still feel my hips. I guess my question is how can I stop obsessing and be normal and eat without hating myself? thanks
To me a 131 pounds for your height is a normal size.
You're not chubby and I believe you are just over obsessing and over exjagerating the whole thing itself.
You say you exercise regulary and eat healthy, You need to just relax and stop questioning the way you look.
I'm pretty sure you look fine the way you are and listen to what your friends are telling you.
Do not become what your sister and mother is, do not make your self sick.
Just follow the healthy foods and continue to exercise like you say you do and everything will go well.
Hope i helped
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14/F. okay so i dont no what is wrond with me. i used to be so happy, then i started cutting myself, idk why, and then on everything has just been going downhill from there. nothing ever makes me happy, and my recent mood change has made all me friends mad at me, and i can't tell them what's wrong because i dont even no what's wrong. im always tired and i never want to do anything. i dont laugh anymore and im never happy. depression and bi-polar run in my family, so im beggining to think i have one of those...i dontg no what to do and all i can think about is getting home and cutting and thinking of ways to kill myself. idk what to do...if anyone can help in anyway, that'd be great. so i'd like to no mainly if i have depression or what. thanks.
First and foremost, Do not commit suicide.
Try to talk to your friends, they will really understand what you are going through.
Let them know your are in a depression stage and you need someone to hold you and make you feel alot better.
Cutting yourself doesn't solve anything all it does is make you shed blood and leave a terrible mark. Im pretty sure your parents don't know what's going on with you either.
Try to see someone like a therapist or physcologist and try to get HELP IMMEDIATELY.
I really do not think you should be acting this way at such a young age, think about your future.
Think about your family; and how they would feel if you commited suicide.
They would really be devasted and also would be very upset that you let depression take advantage of your life.
I'm hoping you reconsider in cutting yourself and thinking about killing yourself.
That is not the route to go.
What would JESUS SAY"My child went this route??"
I'm here in prayers and in spirit.
Do what's right!
Hope I helped
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Hi I am 17/f and my prom is on beginning of May and I was wondering what hairstyle would look good with this dress I purchased.
http://i27.photobucket.com/albums/c180/Sk8RcH1cK1773/promdress.jpg
My boyfriend said he would love to see me with soft curls (almost wavy) kind of hair because he likes my hair not tied up and stuff... Would it look okay with that dress???
Oh yeah my hair's bit layered and it's 4 inches past my shoulder... Not long but it's not short either...
I say listen to your man.
Go with soft curls.
Have your stylist have them loose and wavy.
You would look gorgeous.
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My friend Sarah broke up with her bf John about one month ago and they only went out for a month or two. Last night I found out that John cheated on Sarah the day before she broke up with him, but even after she broke up with him, he didn't tell her about it. John only told one of his guy friends who told two other girls. Anyway, I found out last night and I don't know if I should tell Sarah about since my friend pointed out, "nothing good can come of telling her." I think thats true, but I also feel like she deserves to know even though they already broke up for other reasons. If it was me, I think I would want to know, and if I did find out later and then found out my friends were hiding that from me, I think I would be pretty mad. I have no idea if I should tell Sarah because she is one of my best friends, but then the people who told me will get it trouble cause it might get back to John that his guy friend told people. It's also really hard to keep that big a secret from Sarah.
Please help!
You just answered for me.
Your input in this is neccesary; that's your bestfriend and she need's to know.
Its important because these are her feelings and what if it gets back to her that you knew??
I think you should tell her.
Let her know that he really didn't care.
Also, what if they do get back together??
She'll never know.
Let her know.
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When I moved into my dorm at college, there was this one time I went away to a party overnight without letting my mom know. I am a legal adult, but am home for the summer. She outright asked me if I'd done it and I admitted it. Yes I know I shouldn't have gone behind her back like that, but if I hadn't done that I wouldn't have been able to go. I'm never allowed to go to anything when I'm at home, whether it be a sleepover or even to stay at my bf's house. I've missed out on so many things because of mom being overprotective. She feels I betrayed her and says there will be "serious consequences" Can she really punish me for this? She has been good about letting my bf stay here and she says I'm unappreciative of all she does for me because of what I did. What do I do?
19/f
You are a grown ass woman.
You should be allowed to go anywhere you want without your mother all in your face nagging you about it.
You are in COLLEGE making something of yourself.
You are independent. Your getting the appropiate education you got your diploma.
You should be able to handle your own responsibilities. She wont even let you go to your man house???
She needs to wake up and smell the coffee you are grown. Im sure you know whats good for you in your life!
Let her know you need your space and your are grown enough to go out and have fun without her being so overprotective!!!
and that you did not betray her, because you don't be nagging her and be all up in her business and dont let her leave the house
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can a fat girl wear skinny jeans?
Hell Yes!
I think skinny jeans look 100% better on the thicker girls.
Skinny jeans are made to bring out the curves and make us girl look really good.
I really dont think that really skinny girls look right with skinny jeans because skinny jeans make you kinda look thinner and since there already thin it doesn't appeal right to me.....
So yes!
UPS 2 THE BIG GIRLS.
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Why the heck is everyone labeling me? I am so tierd of it! They call me tomboy and goth!(dont worry I'm not anti goth). They think I'm goth because I love hevy metal, scary movies and books, and I do where black alot but its usally just one peice of clothing. And they call me a tomboy because I have really short (10 year old boy short) hair (its natrully black), I love basketball, ice hockey, soccer, tennis, golf, hanging with the boys, playing video games, stuff like that. I dont care about my aperance I just put on whatevers clean! How do I get them to stop calling me "gothboy"?
Girl!
Dont let there criticism get the best of you.
You know hwat you are.
If they keep calling you those names they needa grow up because they have nothing better to do then to criticize you.
I suggest you scare they bitch ases.
2 could play that game.
Since you goth like they say- tell them imma put a spell on you.
LLS.'
idk sweetie.
FUCK THEM.
lls
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whats up im stephanie and im 15 going on 16 years old i have a boyfriend and he'z 16.We only been goin out 4 bout a week now..we kiss hold handz ect. but no real feelingz now..im new in town so i really dont know him but when he asked me out i said yes simply cuz i think hez cute..all my friendz say he will cheat on you and he had sex with all these diffrent girls..when i see him i think his sweet and innocent but since im hispanic and hez african american alot of african american girls dont like me simply because i go out with a black boy..i sat down and talked to him about all the rumors about him and he explained to me he is not like dat 4 sum strange reason i truley believe him!!! i neva see him talkin to anotha girl or flirtin with someone else and he isnt tell you da truth dat sexual around me..plzzzz some one help me am i juzz blid or maybe he changed and i cud juzz give him a chance
Girl, dont let those rumors brwak your relationship with this guy.
He really likes you.
I feel that people are hating just because you are Hispanic and He's Black.
Yall should be able to date whoever you want.
That has nothing to do with him or who.
Just because yall are in a interacial relationship, they chose to pick on you two.
Dont let nobody break yall up.
Obviously you are feeling diffrent towards him because of the "RUMORS".
And don't keep asking him, because the he would think you dont trust him, and would probaly then cause him to cheat...
Just keep trusting him
YOUR BOYFRIEND.
and follow your true feelings and heart.
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are Chris Brown and Jordin Sparks are they dating?
i've heard they are.. but im not sure.
summer :]
No sweetie=]
Mr. brown is dating Ms. sunshine Rihanna.
Go to youtube.com
type in chris brown and rihanna you'll see that i'm right.
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(14, F) My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months. He treats me amazingly. The other day, he told me that 2 or 3 weeks after we started dating, he kissed another girl. He said he wanted to tell me earlier but didn't want to make me upset. He promises he'll never do it again, he doesn't know why he did it.
Should I break up with him? I really don't want to, but if he cheats once, does it mean he'll do it again?
I say just keep a close EYE on him
[WINK, WINK]
yes he cheated, the saying is once a cheater always a cheater...
I just would have to tell you to try to trust him.
Its in you and his past.
Give him time to prove hisself to you,
AND atleast he was honest to tell you.
Maybe because he really does like you maybe even LOVE YOU.
Thats why he is telling you now, because he feels guilty for not telling you now.
The really good cheater wouldn't tell you the honest to good truth so youre lucky to atleast have a guy that owns up to his wrong doings.
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17/f
i love this guy. he's amazing. we've been friends for awhile now and he's good friends with basically all my close friends. in the beginning of the year when i was just meeting him someone got the word out that i liked him, but at that time i didn't like him cause i barely knew him, i just thought he was cute and nice, he found out that i "liked" him and told one of my friends that he wanted to get to know me more and he still had a little something going on with his ex (which he doesnt anymore, he told us that he hates her) 4 months later (now) hes been doing things like jumping out and scaring me and locking me in closets and stuff,kinda in a cute way though, if you know what i mean. i texted him the other night and the topic came up where i said something like "oh lol i thought it was because you hated me" and he said pshh no definetly not. it's my senior year and his too and i want something to happen before we both graduate. thanks so muchh
make the move.
let him no that you like him.
I believe he likes you too.
Its obvious you two have HUGE connection.
[LOCKING IN CLOSET, SCARING YOU]
All that is a way he likes to make you laugh and be a little flirty.
I think he's scared to make that move, maybe because he scared you like him as a friend.
SoOoOoOoO
YOU should reconsider to do it for him=]
lock him in a closet lls.
Do you thang girl!
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So when I told my friend that I am bi and that I like her more than a friend. She said that she was fine with it but doesn’t feel the same way because unsure of her sexuality. I knew I had to move on. That was last year.
This year she seems close to me. Like flirting and close. When school started at college she asks me when I have class. I told her I have two English classes on Monday and Wednesday and Friday. She asks me to meet her at the front of the stairs at 2:00pm when the bus drops me off. I start class at 3:00pm. She been doing this lately and I ask her why she is here early because her classes starts at 5:30pm. She said “because I want to spend time with you we haven’t talk” which we do every other weekend with our friends. Then she been try to grab my attention. Like when we are talking just the two of us its fine till one of our friends come by to talk to us she seem to hit me playfully when I make a joke and then playfully argue with me. Last time I push her (light push) cause she hit me and she said “hey why you do that for? I been do nice to you” she crosses her arms and look away from me and I said sorry “you better be” she said and hits me again. When we were walking together she seems to walk close to me side by side. Our hands brush against one another twice. I pulled away but she got closer. Last time she asks me when I work and I said tomorrow. Then at work she text me “when are you off?” I reply soon at 8 why? She didn’t reply till next morning. I ask her “why do you want to know when I work?’ she reply “I am just curious” but she kept bugging me when I be off work and when I have work. I told her she is confusing and she reply “your confusing” I told her she was a stocker and she reply “your point?” when I ask her face to face why she wanted to know when I am off she looked away from me and said “because I was curious.”
She seems flirty and she closes to me. I mean she will lean on me and show body language. But her verbal language is different “when I get married” or “if I have a boy friend” or “I like you, as a friend”. Its just she seem her body is reading “I want you” but her voice is saying “you’re my friend”. last time in front of our friend she said out load “she’s my ducky” (ducky is my nickname.) it sounded like she was claming me.
I like her for 6 years and I ask her before do you like me more than a friend? She shook her head no. I ask her that last year because she got jealous that I met a guy at a party (nothing happen). She said she was jealous but last time I ask her to explain herself she ignore the question but answer “I was being over protective”
What am I to do?
She is confusing me.
F/21/bi
I think she really does have feelings for you.
She's letting her jealously get the best of her, she always wants to be around you. I think she is still confused whether if she is in denial of her own sexuality. I say you just go to her and really ask her how she is truly feeling.
Youre a grown woman and do not have time for little girl games.
Either she is falling for you or not. Ask her straight up, youre out with your sexuality why cant she be??
Since you already told er how you had felt a year ago.
She needs to stop acting like she doesnt connect with you.
I know she is, since i read about everything you wrote and its clear that she reall does like you.
How about this, since she always want to meet up with you everyday. How about texting her and tell her to meet you somehwere where nobody is there.
This time instead of her getting close to you, get close to her.
Just let her know THAT YOU REALLY ARE FEELING HER, so she needs to show the same attraction.
GO FOR IT, let her no your grown and about the business in a relationship and since yall was friends she needs to be a friend and express her emotions towards you right then and there!
I hope I truly helped=]
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are you supposed to shave before you have sex?
Sweetie, you dont have too.
That if you choose to.
It depends on if you wanna shave down there, or if you dont wanna risk the embarrassment of him not liking the pubic hair down there???
Maybe you should ask him if he likes that.
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does anyone have anytips on good kisses like to turn him on a little...
When you and your man kiss your supoose to feel some type of sensation or vibe. When you kiss its suppose to be magic..
Like if you wanna spice it up with a kinky side, I say go in with a huge BANG.
Grab him by his shirt, nibble on his ear, moan lightly in his ear.
Tell him he could have you right there.
Then first gently lick his neck and go up and up to you reach his ear and kiss it.
Then you kiss his forehead then his cheek.
He would be in bliss.
Close his eyes.
and push him onto a couch or bed.
And succeed into climbing onto his leg or lap.
grab his chin softly and give him a soft kiss.
and stop and look at him, then kiss him again softly this time do it twice, the next time go in for the make out...
rubbing his back, and the middle or his legs.
lay him down further and get on back..
Be the one to take control.
He should want more and more..
hope i helepd
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