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i want there to be an "us".
17/f
i love this guy. he's amazing. we've been friends for awhile now and he's good friends with basically all my close friends. in the beginning of the year when i was just meeting him someone got the word out that i liked him, but at that time i didn't like him cause i barely knew him, i just thought he was cute and nice, he found out that i "liked" him and told one of my friends that he wanted to get to know me more and he still had a little something going on with his ex (which he doesnt anymore, he told us that he hates her) 4 months later (now) hes been doing things like jumping out and scaring me and locking me in closets and stuff,kinda in a cute way though, if you know what i mean. i texted him the other night and the topic came up where i said something like "oh lol i thought it was because you hated me" and he said pshh no definetly not. it's my senior year and his too and i want something to happen before we both graduate. thanks so muchh <3
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make the move.
let him no that you like him.
I believe he likes you too.
Its obvious you two have HUGE connection.
[LOCKING IN CLOSET, SCARING YOU]
All that is a way he likes to make you laugh and be a little flirty.
I think he's scared to make that move, maybe because he scared you like him as a friend.
SoOoOoOoO
YOU should reconsider to do it for him=]
lock him in a closet lls.
Do you thang girl!
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You should do something if he isn't going to make the first move. It does sound like he likes you. So should either talk to him and tell him how you feel or you can ask him if he likes you. If all fails then you don't have to give up, there is still another chance and still you both would be friends. But I think you should talk to him and see what happens from there. Also you can flirt a little and see how he takes it. Good luck!
Heres an edit: Ok well I know its hard to tell a guy how you feel. I can totally relate. So I would say try practicing what you could say to him. But also that could be hard just to tell him. You could probably ask him what he thinks of you. Or flirt some more and see if he flirts back.
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i thnk he definetly likes you, give him little none verbal signals, like i heard of one about touching his arm or smiling sweetly and looking into his eyes well smiling, and then looking away and looking eyes and away again, not sure if this one works tho, hope it helps!
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*edit* Most guys are usually really straight forward with things. If you do tell him, the absolute WORST that could happen would be for him to tell you he'd prefer to remain friends, and even that is better than nothing. But because I REALLY doubt he would reject you, just because he seems like a typical guy trying to flirt, I'd really suggest testing the waters. Like I said before, you should tell him in private. Don't be too direct, but make sure you absolutely get to the point, otherwise you'll be interrupted before you can finish and it'll be hard to start the convo again later. Start with smalltalk, and then work your way into a more serious type of chat. You could even reveal some funny little unimportant secret to move it along faster and to let him see you trust him. If you think its appropriate, you could even wait for a silent moment and say "I think I've fallen for you" or "I like you" very abruptly, like a band aid. If you really feel something for this kid, I don't see why you should wait any longer to be with him. You're 17 and you should be doing anything to make yourself happy. Lol, it really is easier to give advice than to put it into practice. Anything else, don't hesitate to ask <3.*
I think he likes you. Guys will be guys, and they're pretty easy to control and charm. I'd suggest dropping some kind of hint before it gets to the best friend or brotherly stage. I'm pretty sure you flirt back, but some guys need girls to take the initiative. You should back him into a corner (not literally of course), but talk to him when you two are by yourself, cause you'll be way more comfortable that way. Ask him if he likes you, or confess your own feelings to him. Steal a kiss from him if you dare, just as long as he gets the point. You could even start with an innocent conversation and progress into a more romantic one, all the while dropping little hints. Gooe this helps, and good luck <3.
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