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Okay, so me and my bf have been together for 1.5 years and I am really in love with him. He's always smoked pot and when we first started dating I realized that he has done pills and never told me. I got pissed and basically he stopped for a while. In January, everything seemed to take a turn for the worse. We've been doing long distance for almost a year now and in january he moved 2 hours away(instead of 7). He hasnt moved to my town because he had a really good friend commit suicide here and its tough on him (thats when he started doing pills). He moved back home because he started doing pills again and overdosed. His dad kept him on a tight leash when he got home so he moved out and is now living with a friend(who also suffers the same addiction) Recently when I was on spring break we spent time together and he keeps talking about wanting me and marrying me and having children and blah blah blah. This stuff scares the crap out of me because I am a freshman in college with a boyfriend who has a drug problem. But since ive been at school again, he has been horrible with calling me. Usually he'd call me once a night, and if i was going out he'd tell me to call him when i got home. Now I hear from him about every 5 days. Ive told him this really bugs me and that if he really wants me in his life this needs to change but it doesnt seem to work. He always says he will call me the next night when we are getting off the phone but then four days later still nothing. (he has no phone-he uses his friends so i cant call him) I'm just really confused if this means that maybe he's losing interest in us? If he was im confused why he even bothers calling me at all? He's planning a trip here in two weeks so it seems like he still loves me a lot. I'm thinking maybe he's still doing the pills and this is effecting our relationship. I just really want to get it through his head that I will stick around while he gets himself clean if he simply treats me like a girlfriend and lets me know whats going on. I really love him and when im with him I really feel like he loves me too. We've been through so much and ive never felt the same for any of my past relationships, but i wish id know if he felt the same. My parents think I should dump him because of the drugs, and i see their point because it is NOT acceptable. But I see how much they effect him and know that he really truley wants to change that. When I bring up leaving, he says he needs me and he has no reason to change if im not there. But then why wouldn't he call and treat me like he loves me still. I feel like all his words have been empty promises lately and I don't know if thats gonna change anytime soon? If he makes the trip up here it would mean a lot. I know he probably will because he has the money too, but I can't help but get anxious thinking that he is like never gonna call or just disappear from my life. I hope this whole mess of a paragraph makes sense and someone can give me some real advice. He always ends up pushing through but I really want him to be there when i need him not just when he needs me. Is there anyway to salvage this? :/ (link)
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Drugs is a serious issue. Because He has moved away and lives with someone with the same problem as him,. there is no way to tell 100% that he isn't or is taking them. I know this is hard hon but it will get better.
Honestly,. I beleive that if he does infact come visit you should talk to him about how your feeling.
Tell him that You want to be with him,. and that he does to. but in order for that to be true. he has to treat you alot better. You deserve to be treated like a royal princess. I can tell he cares.
But you have to make known that you have to be more important than drugss. What about checking him into a rehab place?
~Hope This Helps
Jasmine
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okay so I'm a 18/female
so I'm talking to a boy named Dametrious (link)
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Love is a very sticky topic.
I do think he does in fact have feelings for you.
But,.And i'm really sorry hon,.
But IF he really loved you the way every woman deserves to be loved and treated he would have been dating you as a girlfriend for the past year and some months. But For the fact that he was dating them,.and fooling around with you,.
And lieing to you about dating them,
That is a BIG RED FLAG.
He seems like the guy who wants his cake and to eat it to.
You need to prove to him,. that you deserve to be treated like a princess and nothing less
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18/f
I have a very regular period routine. its so weird because a lot of my friends complain about how theirs are so irregular but mine are so regular. i can predict which day they come and how long they will last and it will actually happen.
my question is.. i just got birth control pills for the first time. i haven't taken the first pill yet. i heard that birth control pills can make your period irregular. my question is, do you think taking birth control pills is a good idea for me? i'm scared it will mess up my cycle and make it irregular. do you think i should not take the pill because my system is regular? or should i still take them? help! (link)
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A) Birthcontrol is a very good idea! Not only does it help against unexpected pregnancy,.
It does!
make your periouds more regular,.
But remember Each person is different you may need to try a few different kinds of birthcontrol,.
But YES it is a very good idea especially if you are sexually active.
~Hope This Helps:)
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recently i've found myself a little sad because i hear or see people having fun with other friends like going to parties and hanging out etc.
I don't really have many friends. I have 1 best friend and we hang out a lot, he's a dude, i'm a girl. we're both 18 in high school still. i'm not really any stereotype. i'm like a mix. i'm weird but pretty. smart but kinda ditzy. athletic but girly. i'm having a really hard time finding a group of friends/or even a friend. i'm not a big fan of girl friends.. i used to have a lot of girl friends in my past but i always find myself so frustrated with girl friends because they cause so much drama and problems. thats why i dont have many friends, because most of my friendships are so full of drama and i get sick of it. thats why i like to hang out with guys, because they're so chillax and don't cause problems and i have so much fun just hanging out with them :)
but like i said, i have been finding myself a little sad. i hear about girls in my school going to get mani/pedi's and going shopping together and having a girls night out. i get sad because i don't really have friends like that who i can do things like that with..
but at the same time, i'm glad i dont have girl friends because i dont have to deal with drama like fighting over boys and jealousy etc.
i'm really torn in this issue. i miss having a girl friend to talk to about girl talk and going shopping together etc. but at the same time i kinda like just being independent and hanging with guys.
what do i do?? (link)
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Try connecting with your old friends,.
Unfortunatly No matter what girl friends you havee,. they will always bring at lease a little drama.
I donno what it is about girls.. its like their code rule of being a girl. baha
But Just because your one of the guys doesnt mean you wont meet girls and become friends. you are still very young.
maybe try something new? a new club or meet or something
~Hope this helps
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I have this friend. We've known each other since I was in second grade, and she was in kindergarten. Anyway, we've been best friends for about ten years. We're the kind of friends where we can not see each other for a long time and still remain friends. We have a good friendship, and we caught up about what's going on in our lives, etc.
We were supposed to hang out yesterday, but she ditched me for a friend she sees everyday. Today we were going to hang out, but she ditched me again. I didn't think much of it but now I feel so hurt. She never keeps her word and always ditches me. I don't see her very often since we are always busy, and even though we live about three mins away, she's always with other people and stuff. She's popular. But I feel like a loser when she ditches me for all the popular people, even though she's in 8th grade and I am a sophomore. I need some advice. What should I do? (link)
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You should tell her how you feel,. explain to her that you were really hurt. Maybe tell her that your not going to wait around till its a good time for her to want to hang out. Hope this helps:P
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what sbrush should i use to apply cream eyeshadow?
a concealer brush?
a regular "fluffy" eyeshadow brush wont work!! at least i doonnt hink so (link)
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i some times use my finger or a small soft brush?
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Okay...is it possible for guys to get an erection while they're...being sexual with a girl they have no attraction to? Like if they were hugging, the guy wouldn't...would he? (link)
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yes its possible
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hi im 16 nearly 17 and this lad who i like said he liked me and it was great until 1 day when he stood me up and didnt let me know he wasnt going to show up
it was great before that we were like together(we wasnt but he told his mates we was) we slept together a few times and he wanted to see me every day
but now i just feel like ive been used coz we havent spoke for ages and i still really like him
i know he has commitment issues because one of his exes cheated on him with his best mate do you think that has something to do with it?
or was he just using me for sex? does anyone no? plzzzzz help (link)
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i would talk to him about it if he doesn't talk to you are anything like that then i think he might be a user.
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My friend smokes ciggerates..
and lately he hasent had any so
he starts twitchingg, like his legs err whatever.
.. does this mean hes like addicted er sumthing? (link)
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could be. or could be early signs of turrets. just keep a watch on it if it gets worse and content then it's time to go to the doctor.
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hey . . . i need some good advice on
((giviin HEad)) all mu friends have done it beFore nd trust me im not afraid.. its like though i dont need advice how to do iit cuz like i already sorta no...nd this is the bad part a lot of guyz think ive done it before cuz onetime my friend nd I had sleep over nd invited 2 boyz over... the one was with me nd like i was i guess yu could say out of iit....dont remeber anything he went bac nd told everyone that he got brain from me nd i dont no if this is true my friend also told me that ii did...i dont remeber anything tho so i need some advice when yu do iit like when yu spit or w.e where do yu spiit it? nd wuts this shyt taste like seriously.thanx so much nd ill rate you high juss give me some good advice Love ya Lotzz (link)
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it tastes gross. but if you love him. then you can either spit it out.. where i dont know or swallow. i swallow i do it for him. because he can do it for me. kind of thing.
hope this helps
mslovely22
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Why are teenage guys so nasty they always talk about like peoples boobs are they'll be like peaCOCK and stuff like that (link)
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men are immature. that is what they talk about. some talk nastier then others. it's just them being boys.
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I am 13/g and I have had multiple sex partners.. my oldest guy that I did was 24... I don't know why I do this soo much.. but on occasion I do it every 3 nigths... I try to stop but the sensational values are AMAZING! and I don't know if I have STD or AIDS... I am afraid to get checked... well for a little background on my life (so you don't think the worng thing) I have had bad influence.. my mom is a hooker that had me unwantingly from one of her sex partners.. I never know what my dad is.. and mom says that she didn't know she was pregnant until it started to show.. she said she had taken birth control pills.. so she would have never know with the period thing.. and now she smokes pot alot... I now have a BF and he is 18.. we are very sexually active and I love him soo much! we have been together for about 2 months now.. I have a bad rep. at school and I am thinking about dropping out.. I really wanta turn my life arround!! how can I do this? please help me!!
Bye the way.. I have gone to many phsciatrists! so don't mention it! (link)
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a. stop having sex till your older. your only 13. do you want to be like your mom. you have a bad rep. because you have sex a lot. your so young stop it and be a good girl. you should never have sex with someone when being with them for 2 months. how do you know he inst using you? and i think you need to get checked asap. cuz if you use protection. there is still a chance. your mom may not be a good role model so find someone who is i feel badly for you that this is how you are. but you could be much better.
hope this helps
mslovely22
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Okay...well the guy im going out with is alot mroe expierenced than me..and we talked about me giving him head and stuff..only thing is i get so nervous each time we are together now because i dont want him to think im bad or anything liek that so instead i just dont give it to him. i know this is frustrating him but he sasys he doesnt want to push me into it..but i want to give him head..basicly whats the best way to get a guy to cum through head? (link)
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do a combination between rubbing with hand and using your mouth. rub your tongue around the tip. and ask him if he likes it and if he wants something spacific
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does vagaina licking leads to aids (link)
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no. only blood to blood contact and not that kind of blood down there.
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great great. so this ugly bitch. is right hur. i don't REALLY look like ash right? RIGHT?!?!??!
aghgggghhhhhhhhH!~ ima kill mahself.
signed,
annonymous.
xoxoxoxo LOVE YOU GURL (link)
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... alrighty then...
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what can i do, because one of my cats keeps on pooping anywhere she can and also peeing in places, she is an old cat but she never used to do it, she has turned lazy, and cannot be bothered to go outside, my mum has given me two choices, either get the cat put down, or take her to the vet, but the vets these days are exspensive, would you have any ideas on what i could possibly do, but today she threw up on the sofa, and it was her cat biscuits, but i just dont know what to do from laurence,
please contact me at kaneit@gmail.com
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it would be a good idea to take her to the vet. my cat was very old also when he started peeing on things. i think it has something to do with weak bladder but im not sure. but it is a good idea to take him to the vet
hope this helps
mslovely22
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does anybody know any good web sites (link)
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for what? games.. music,, comics?
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whatever I feel so bad. I do not like being ridiculed in anyway and that is what my controlling demanding mom just did to me today. her and her jokes and comments she wants this but it's still not right. why the hell is she acting like this it's tearing me apart. i say something and she repeats it she's always in my face and i cannot stand it I am so annoyed i don't know how to apply for college can't find a job that accepts not so tall people. I want to really move out but i am stuck. (link)
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well for starters talk to your mom about what is bothering you?
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I was just heating up food in the microwave what annoyed me is that my mom has to ask. what for of course it's food. she's the one that is always asking me what did you eat? i hate her. gosh i can never hide anything from her and that's what i am doing to not get annoyed of her. it is a big deal anyways for her to do this. can't move out yet though . i feel insulted i feel so stuck with her. i am her daughter she shouldn't be doing this to me. that fucking bitch. (link)
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your mad because your mom asked you what you ate.... o..kay?
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My boyfriend and I just broke up, but I want to still be friends with him. What can I do to help this? (link)
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hey i'm the same way with my ex. just keep talking to him. but make sure he knows that you just want to be friends and nothing else. because if not then it gets akward.. i would know:P
hope this helps:)
mslovely22
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