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I love him.Does he love me?
okay so I'm a 18/female
so I'm talking to a boy named Dametrious <3 we dated last year but then broke up (personal reasons)after 6 months we were always on and off cause we had alot of problems. he's 16 we mess around all the time its crazy. i love him so much but he can't seem to see that i want to know if theres still hope between us i tell him i love him and he says me too but im not sure if he's being serious I don't know what to do we been messing around for a year and a couple months AND he's had 2 girlfriends and while he was with those girls he was playing them with me but he lied to me and told me that he didnt have a girlfriend but he did. that kind of makes me want to second guess our relationship because i dont no if he cheated on me in the passed and that would change my mind about him forever. so does he really love me ? i mean he's making all these sacrifices to be with me but still we should just be together do you think there's a reason why he might not want to be with me?
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You are 18 years old, He is a 16. He is still a child while you are now legally an adult.
Also, The guy is 16, At that age they are still not ready to settle down as he is still a kid and doesn't know what he wants. Many kids think inside their pants and not with their head. Even if he said he "loved" you...Do you honestly think he knows what love is? Again, He is a 16 year old.
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Love is a very sticky topic.
I do think he does in fact have feelings for you.
But,.And i'm really sorry hon,.
But IF he really loved you the way every woman deserves to be loved and treated he would have been dating you as a girlfriend for the past year and some months. But For the fact that he was dating them,.and fooling around with you,.
And lieing to you about dating them,
That is a BIG RED FLAG.
He seems like the guy who wants his cake and to eat it to.
You need to prove to him,. that you deserve to be treated like a princess and nothing less
<3 Hope this helps
-Jasmine
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