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my boyfriends friend likes me
Well my boyfriends friend likes me, and me and my boyfriend have been dating for a month and a half. I hung out last night with his friend and we smoked it wasn't just us my friend and his friend went too. Sometimes I tell him I love him, then again I do that to all his friends as in a friendly love cause I'm friends with all my bfs friends. And this morning I got a text from him saying he reallyl ikes me, expecting me to say something sweet in return but I said idk what to say cause I have a bf.. I really like my bf but in a way I like his friend. What do I do? His friends mad at me for not saying anything back cause he says I "flirt" a lot. Help? What do I dooo?
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Chances are you're pretty young and if you are- then don't take relationships so seriously. While you're young you don't need to commit. You can be impulsive and you can play the field, this is how you learn. Tell the friend how you feel, that you're confused. You might even consider telling your boyfriend how you feel- but if you can't talk to him about it then you don't really love him. If you have feelings for his friend that's another sign that you don't really love him and that's totally okay. Whatever you choose to do, the world will not end. There are some bigger things you might want to look at though.
If you stay with your boyfriend, you might lose your shot at being with his fried. If you get with his friend, you might ruin their friendship with each other.
Personally, I say that if you have feelings for the friend then it obviously isn't working with your boyfriend right now and go for it. Don't hold yourself back just because you fear change.
Good luck!
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If you love your boyfriend the way you say you do,
you should Tell his friend straight up that you are in love with your boy and that you only like him as a friend. And confront your boy saying that his boy was hitting on his girl. CUz that is far from guy code.
BUT ONLY IF YOU LOVE YOUR BOY>
If your questiioning it. Then you should step back and take a look at what you are really feeling.
*Hope This helps
^Jasmine;
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Do you love your boyfriend? If you do then you shouldn't have any reason to second guess being with him. From now on, Lay off the love thing. Saying "I love you" even in a friendly way can sometimes give people the wrong impression. If you like his friend and want to be with him then go for it but the right thing to do would be to tell your boyfriend how you feel. If you decide to leave your boyfriend for his friend ... don't expect him to take that one lightly. Either back off, or be honest with your boyfriend. It is extremely uncool to cheat if you don't want drama then stop giving the wrong impression to people.
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