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Boyfriend Cheated
(14, F) My boyfriend and I have been going out for 2 months. He treats me amazingly. The other day, he told me that 2 or 3 weeks after we started dating, he kissed another girl. He said he wanted to tell me earlier but didn't want to make me upset. He promises he'll never do it again, he doesn't know why he did it.
Should I break up with him? I really don't want to, but if he cheats once, does it mean he'll do it again?
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I say just keep a close EYE on him
[WINK, WINK]
yes he cheated, the saying is once a cheater always a cheater...
I just would have to tell you to try to trust him.
Its in you and his past.
Give him time to prove hisself to you,
AND atleast he was honest to tell you.
Maybe because he really does like you maybe even LOVE YOU.
Thats why he is telling you now, because he feels guilty for not telling you now.
The really good cheater wouldn't tell you the honest to good truth so youre lucky to atleast have a guy that owns up to his wrong doings.
Hope i helped
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No i don't think you have to worry about him cheating again. Because the guys that will keep cheating won't be honest enough to till you that they did they will keep denying it even if you have proof that they did. I think you should give him a second and last chance.
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Well actually that happened to me in my last relationship. It's a whole freakin story behind it all, but my bf took me back. and i did in fact tell him when it happened and he gave me a second chance.
so like the others said, he did tell you, but then again, i wouldn't necessarily just keep him because he promised he wouldn't do it again. The one thing you need in a relationship is trust and honesty. so if you think you've got that, then give him another chance. ;) but it's really up to you in the end.
i wish you luck ahead. =]
~sumsum~
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I really don't think that you should break up with him right at this moment. I mean he told you about it and promised he wouldn't do it again and if he thought he would then he absolutely wouldn't have told you about it. So I think you should give him another chance but make him earn your trust.
Hope I Helped.
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Well, since he told you, I'd give him another chance.
If he didn't tell you, and you found out for yourself, then I don't think he's worth it.
All relationships have rocky moments, and you have to be able to overcome some of the obstacles sometimes.
Since he's truthful and admitted that he was wrong, I think he's a keeper... ^_^
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Well, in most cases, the phrases is "once a cheater, always a cheater" but it doesnt always hold. only you can decide. he did come to you and tell you himself, without you catching him, so that is a point for him. if you think you can trust him, then you should try to give him another chance, if not, well then you decide what to do about it.
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