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my ex
Ok well this alittle long but I just want to write everything down so hopefully I would feel better. Ok so i'm a feshman now in highschool. When I meet my ex I was in the 6th grade. It was like love at first sight seriously. I couldn't stop thinking about him. We went out and I ended up braking up with him because my friend liked him also. So when I started 8th grade I spoke 2 him again and we ended up going out. He told me all these sweet things and I just love him so much.we lasted for 10 months and then he broke up with me for no reason. Then he wanted to try things again but I can't becuase I'm afraid of loving him more then I do. My friend goes to his school and she told me that he flirts a lot with girls and that I don't deserve him I deserve someone better.but I can't forget about him. Its like my heart is attached to him I feel so depressed its like I can't move on. he sends me text messages sometimes telling me that he loves me but I'm just afraid. What should I do?. Should I forget about him if so what are the best ways?. But I love him so much. I jsut don't see my life without him. Please help thanks!
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My best advice would be to get over him. It is going to be very very difficult because you are so attached to him. Its going to hurt but what would hurt more is if he ends up cheating on you because he is so flirtacious. The best way to get over him is to find another guy. It will get your mind off of him. Also, i wouldnt text him so much, gradually stop texting him. If you dont want that then just dont send flirty text messages to him and ignore his. Make the right decision hun, boys are so difficult and can be hurtful. If you think he might hurt you, get out of it as fast as you can, boys arent worth the heartache.
good luck!
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Well I would just move on and forget about him cause as your friend said that he is basically a playa so I would just get over him I would ignore all text messages from him and tell him to stop cause we are just friends. No one wants a playa as a boyfriend I'm sorry if I'm sounding mean in anyway but I'm telling you the truth that you need to forget about him. Get rid of everything that reminds you of him like I would delete all texts messages from him get rid of things that maybe he gave you get rid of pictures get rid of everything. Well I hope this helps and if you need anymore help let me know. Thanks!!!
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honey I think that you should just move on you hav tried and failed and breaking up without reason is no way to break up with anyone. Break all ties with him completely because then although it will hurt like hell you can concentrate on getting over him and hopefully on to someone else. Rid yourself of all photos etc to do with him and try and throw yourself into a hobby or your school work.
It will hurt for a while but trust me honey it will be well worth it in the end.
good luk and I hope I hav helped either way.
yours dxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
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Hi,
To me you have 2 options:
1: You forget about him. You can do this by not replying to his texts or/and say 'just don't text me these things, we are friends, NO MORE' (that is if he sends you texts that are sweet or a little firlty) just try and forget about him, because he is at a different school to you and just stick around with your real friends, weather they are boys or girls.
2: You go out with him. You could go out with him because you love him, but you must like the personality of the person, it isn't about if they are fit hot or sexy ect (and i know you didn't say/ask about that in the question but you need to know that there is more to looks). If you were to go out with him again then i would get your friend (that goes to the same school) to make sure he isn't flirting too much with other girls (a little is OK but just not too much) also, if he goes out with someone else at the same time or flirts too much then you will need her to tell him off because you would be his girlfriend.
Now...This is ALL down to you, you need to make YOUR desion..not ME.... YOU.
Don't hesitate to ask me for more advice-on anything at all.
Good Luck!!
Love
Jess xxxxxxxxx
P.S. Please keep me posted! I would love to hear what happens! xxx
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