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Hey people my name is Christan. I'm 17 years old I am a junior I have been through a lot in my life I have a dad somewhere out there that I don't know. He left me when I was born my mom and my step dad were in big time drugs we did not have really any money we had to steal from stores to get food we got food from churches. If it weren't for my grandpa they would have been living on the streets.

So now I am adopted and am doing a lot better then what I would have been doing.

Obviously if your reading this then you are on my page then you will know that I am good at answering love questions, friendship questions, and computer questions so if you ask a question I will try to answer it as best as I can. Thanks!!!


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Okay, so i've known this guy for about three years now. He's two grades ahead of me. we dated over summer, and i didn't know i liked him so much until we began "talking" again this year. he got mad because i couldn't ALWAYS go to his house, and couldn't meet up with him 24/7.he said we had to stop "talking" because he flirts around. and hooks up with other girls to much, and he wouldn't want to hurt me. on the other hand, we still talked, as f riends. but still flirted. then he stopped texting me one day and i wondered why...... a few weeks later i bumped into his at the local mall,and he said hey, and i responded saying hey back. well, i was really getting over this ignoring me thing, and i was wondering the whole time why though...... well today i was on myspace.com and i went to his myspace profile to see what's new. turns out he has thing new GORGEOUS cheerleader girlfriend. and, i was just getting over him. and now i feel like crap again. what should i do to get over him, and stoip thinking about him?

well the only way you can get over a guy is time. not saying that it will not be hard cause i dated this girl for 2 years and she dumpted me and wow i could not eat or sleep and well it took about 5 months to get over her and now i dont think about her and i have a new girlfriend and really love her it takes time thats all i can say just keep yourself busy and go out with friends meet new guys.

good luck!!!

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15/m
Ok, so I live near St. Louis and I went up to Milwaukee over the weekend and I met this girl at a wedding reception. We both were staying at my aunt's house. We were up all night and we made out and slept in the same bed (no sex.) Now we both came to the conclusion that we would go out if we lived closer to each other, but we don't, so what should I do so she doesn't stop liking me, because I can't seem to stop thinking about her (and it's really starting to take its toll on work and school...) We talk everyday on the phone, but what else can I do?

Well I have been in this situation before my ex ex lived in Michigan and I lived in Ohio and we dated awhile and then it started to get really hard it’s not easy to keep a long distance relationship and live apart. It’s not fun even though we talked on the phone everyday it just got to much for any of us to handle. We loved each other so much. What I suggest you to do is get to know her like really know her and if you still can’t stop thinking about her go and move over there. But take it easy get to know her really really well cause if you move over there you might find out in a week that she is not that right person for you. Not saying that it will happen but yea get to know her that's all I can really say. Hope I helped.

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My computer is out of it's mind! I know nothing about computers, but it's a dell. About a week ago, out of NOWHERE, it decided it would stop working. It turns on normally, but then goes to a black page where it says "we apologize for the inconvenience, but windows did not start successfully. A recent hardware or software change might have caused this..etc.." It either freezes on that page, or shuts itself down, then restarts, and does the same thing over and over and OVER. It's driving me insane. What have I done to it? What could be the problem??

also ask theymos he could help you he is really good at computers also

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About 4 days ago my computer started acting funny. I turned it on and started getting weird pop ups saying that somene was trying to attack my computer or something and infect it with.... a virus or something. Some pop ups say that Windows blocked the virus and some say that I have the virus and have to remove it. The weird thing is I think these pop ups are PART of the virus. It says... Virus Name: Worm.Win32.NetBooster2 Path: C:/Windos/system32/qappsrv.exe
i couldn't find the path in my computer so i think the pop pup has that path name to make itself sem believable because i do have a system32 folder.
Anyway... I'm not sure how we got the virus. We don't go to dirty websites... We have an anti virus or scanner or... well I am not sure what it is. It scans and is supposed to remove threats but it is very crappy. I think it's a pirated version of an anti scanner. it doesn't work well but I know it's not the CAUSE of the virus because we've had it for some time. At first it detected the virus but not anymore :-(
Anyway, I don't care how we got it. I just want to get rid of it already because I can't even use the computer. It makes my homepage a.... virus isolator page and keeps sending me op ups, even when I'm offline!
My friend said it was a bug cause he had one too and that he fixed it by finding the bug and stopping it,. I couldn't find it. And I tried going to the "task manager" but it is disabled and no way to enable it...

I was wondering, has anyone ever had this virus/bug or know anything about it? if yes, how did you get rid of it?
does anyone know of a free anti virus or virus scna i can load or anyway to get rid of this bug???

Please help me!

Thank you for your time.

Try to download AVG 7.5 and spybot S&D run a scan and it should get it and destroy it immunize and update your computer with spybot S&D update regulary AVG will automaticaly update

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well im from michigan and i was on and off with this guy from ohio. he was an amazing guy and he ment the world to me. but after many times geting back togheter and then breaking up i decided this all wasnt the heartache and i saved us both and broke up for good. we talk a little bit now and then but i wonder what he really thinks sometimes about us. i wish i knew his true feelings on everything about us...should i just ask him or should i let it go?

Wow deja-vu lol well if I was him the boy that you dated I would want you to talk to me, me being the boy that you dated. Ask him how he feels. Ask him how he feels about the two of you. Don’t just blow it off. I’m sure that he has tried to bring it up but then you try to blow it off by saying I have to go. Really listen to him! Talk to him of how you feel about the two of you. It sounds like you guys are not that close of friends anymore since you don’t talk that much anymore. Why don’t you talk to him anymore? He sounds like he meant a lot to you. So talk to him don’t blow him off. Be open! I'm sure he deserves that you tell him that I'm sure he has been there for you a lot even though not physically. Treat him with some respect. I'm sure whenever he gets the chance to talk to you he takes it. Get whatever burden that you have from him and get rid of it. So that’s what I would do. Try and talk to him as soon as you can. Best of luck.

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I work out in the afternoon/evening.
Is it better to eat my big meal before or after working out?
Like or should I have a snack before or what?
Thanks!

Both. But lightly BEFORE. Especially if you are doing cardio. You'll want to have some complex carbs, maybe a piece of whole wheat toast, before you run, swim, or bike. Then after, have a good amount of protein and carbs.
If you are strength training, you really need to have a whey protein shake (mixed with water is best) so that you have the necessary protein in your system to get you through the workout. After the workout, have another protein shake, or protein source...chicken, fish, eggs, etc. Your muscles will need the protein to rebuild the muscle tissue that breaks down during a workout.

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This boy that Ive liked for 10 months hasnt talked to me in a long time.We used to talk all the time but now he just ignores me.And whenever he sees me he stares at me for a long time.My sister says that he likes me.What do you think and why?

Well ok there is two things he could like you or he could not the Boy might be the shy type or maybe he does not like you and is really ignoring you but if you really do like the boy then walk up to him and say the usual say hey how are you doing then he will say like fine and then start a conversation with him if he does not really talk that much and looks like he is afraid then you can assume that he is the shy type and maybe likes you or not but if he says something just keep on going and ask him maybe we should hang out sometime if he says sure you pretty much knows he likes you. If this did not help sorry but I hope it does.

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My computers been completly infected with spyware and it automatically downloaded this virus thing, and now I can hardly even turn my laptop on, as popups and everything come on automatically.
What should I do?
Please help its beeen like that for over a month

Ok first you need to download Spybot S&d

http://spybot.com/en/download/index.html

and run it and update it and run the scan and get rid of all of the junk ok that should take care of that stuff now next install AVG antivirus this software scans every file that you put on your computer it has an automatic update so that is good here is the site you download it from

http://www.grisoft.com/doc/31/us/crp/0

that will act as a second barrier on Spybot make sure you immunize every week and update it and check the button that says hide all dangerous pages silently

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all i do is get heartbroken lately.
by the same boy, and idk if you saw my other post./

but, he has a girlfriend, and like idk. :(
i want to get over him, but all ive known to love is him lately.

and its so hard, nobody wants me to even like him.
my parents dont even trust him. :(

how, do i get over him. ;(

please, help. please!

Ok you really do need to get over him. I would say your parents are right. Well to get over him I would find someone else to take your mind off of him do something that keeps you occupied keep yourself busy. Well I hope I helped. This link will give you other ideas that maybe I did not say

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070629202446AAuuM3C

Hope I helped!!

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Ok. Please don't lecure me on this(i am not sure how you can...)
I am 14/f/ and i have more guy friends than Acutal boyfriends. You see i have never had a bf. i mean guys have asked me, it's not like i am the ugly duckling, but i say no. I don't know if you can really answer this question for me but at least try please.
Why do i keep on saying no? Are guys like scared cause of my guy friends? I really don't know i thought some genious out there somewhere could help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Well the reason that you are answering no to everyone that asks you out is maybe you are not ready. Maybe you would rather just be friends with them I know what it is like I have more "girl friends" then I do guy friends. Its just easier to talk to them. Its alright to have more guy friends then actual boyfriends its normal. Your just 14 just have fun. And if you find someone that you like get to know them and ask them out go slow and have fun. Hope I helped.

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How many MB makes a GB or the other way around? So confused..

The answer is 1024 but many factories consider it as 1000 MB cause it is easier so yea that is the answer. That site is to show proof hope it helped.

http://www.associateprograms.com/discus/ftopic4312.html

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I need website links for free music downloading.. I tried searching for them myself but most of it had some sort of payments to be made in them... I usually download music from wwww.yourmp3.com ..but then sometimes i end up in a fix coz the songs i downloaded would not be the full version and the link would be wrong and i end up downloading some other song....please help!!!

well you can install limewire and that you can get basically any song

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WHy is that many times people do not read the question (or story) and give answers that do not make any sense. I mean many times in the story that is posted gives a clear understanding of the answer that should be given and you get an answer that is just plain silly.

Well a lot of times people dont like answering long questions so they might read some of it and just answere that part it is kinda stupid and silly and I agree thats why we moderators rate questions that are long and if they dont make sense. But I answer any questions you can give me and I ca will try to help in anyway possible. I have read question that were 2 pages long so yea thats long and I answered it. So if you have any questions just ask me and I will try to answer it as best as I can!

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I have been married for 8 years. My husband and I have grown distant over the past 2 years. I started sleeping with someone which I don't believe in, and still can't believe I did it. I fell in love with this other man and he is the father of my newborn. I still love my husband and do not want to hurt him, but I do not want to hurt the other man either. I believe in God and that he doesn't believe in divorce, and the roots of this are so deep now. I would be happier with the other man, but does that matter at this point?

Well think of what you are doing and you need to follow your heart. I believe in god too and he talks about divorce in the old testament God thinks divorce is wrong but God knows that the world is not perfect and that everyone makes mistakes. So if you do divorce your husband first you need to think about what you are doing really I believe it says that you can divorce your spouse if he either dies or if he like commits adultery. So I would think about what you are doing and really think is this really right. Well I hope this helps!

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ok so the other day me and my boyfriend were kinda arguing about why i get mad and he said he doesnt know why i get mad because he never does anything wrong. i answered back by saying you have to do something wrong or else i wouldnt get mad. so my bf thinks hes mr.perfect and he NEVERRRRR does anything wrong. so i got mad. again. haha was it ok to be mad eventho i know im right because everyone does something wrong at somepoint in their lives but he insists that hes never done anything wrong... ahhhh i hateitttt haha but do i have the right to be mad? i mean im right. right. noones perfect!

yea I agree what the other person said but yea you cant get mad just for no reason and if someone else made you mad its not fair to take it out on your boyfriend. So I would just think about what you are getting mad about and think if its really a big problem. If you keep on arguing at your boyfriend an yelling at him he will not like to be around you and might even leave you if he gets really upset. Trust me I am a guy and we guys dont like that very much. So I hope I helped!!

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I'm 22, F. I've been going out with this guy for almost a month now, but we actually used to have class together for a semester. We get along well, but it's the first time that I feel like this with a guy...as though I can actually imagine something meaningful happening between us. When I'm around him I feel comfortable, but sometimes I feel a little tense, because I'm not used to being with a guy (it has been a while). We always want to hang out together but i feel like he has more experience than me.. I don't really know what to ask specifically, but I am a little aprehensive about taking things far with him. At times I just want to give in, since it just feels right. BUT i know I need to hold back. The thing is, I'm not experienced. SO for any of you who know how i feel, what's a good way to let someone know you're interested, but just don't want to jump into conclusions?

Well its good that your are taking it slow> You dont want to jump right in thats how a lot of people reject you. So right now I would keep it cool take it slow and when you feel right and the time is right just bring it. Bit make sure you feel secure about it. You dont want to freak the guy out either. Its a good sign that you feel comfortable around him. The thing about feeling tense with someone is completely normal it will go away after awhile. But get to know him more ask him if we can hang out or something and when you feel that the time is right let him know how you really feel about him. Hope this helps!!

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I just found out that britney shaved all her hair out. I couldn't believe it.
Why did she do it?. What's going on with her?

Well the reason she did that is because she was in rehab for drugs so thats...and to be honest with you I have no idea why she shaved her hair off but will find out.... so ok here is what happened Britney Spears went to a salon and insisted that the person to shave her hair off the salon person argued and so Britney Spears took the shaver and did it herself so thats how it went down. LOL! WOW she is really losing it!! So I hope this helped!!

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sorry about not knowing what subject to put it under,, its kind of a random question. Ok so I am in middle school and am an OK student. I am the defintion of basic, ordinary teen. I am in the basic teen rut. Nothing special ever happens. I do,though, have one talent that sets me apart. I can write poetry. PLEASEEEE understand i am not trying to brag! In school when we have to write poetry, teachers are amazed. The thing is that i really, really like writing poetry. I feel great after i do. (My friends are not big on poetry, but they dont make fun of me for it or anything) The problem is that my life is so boring i have no inspiration for my poems. I can only write when i am inspired (I know it sounds stupid). Lately my poems have been the only things keeping me happy (I've been depressed--i dont know why) Please help me. HOw do i get out of the rut? How do i find insperation?
Thanx in advance

Well I know what it feels like trust me on that at least you go to a school I'm homeschooled and I hate it. I'm always home I cant drive yet so yea. Well it is strange that you have to be inspired to wright poems I just really got into poetry and was actually really surprised I did not know I could do that good my girlfriend has to also be inspired and she loves it to. Its really awesome to wright a poem it feels really good to express yourself on a poem. Well I guess I could say that you have to inspire yourself like you do when you get inspired to wright a poem. You have to know how to inspire yourself in life. Get to know people get friends. Get to know guys date people maybe if you get a boyfriend he can inspire you. Live life how you want it to go have fun. Live life to the fullest. SHOUT! SCREAM! Do what ever you want to do but dont get in trouble. Well I hope you can handle all of that.LOL!! Well I hope this helped!! Remember have Fun Find things that inspire you. Yea I am a guy and it is kinda weird that I'm interested in poetry. Buy hey I have someone to inspire me and my girlfriend inspires me more then anyone out in the world. Well I hope it helped. Have anymore questions leave me a message in my inbox!! THANKS!!!

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Sometimes my friends can be kind of embarassing! I don't know how to tell them, though! I tried to let them know , but they just got mad. I want to be nice. How can I tell them without hurting their feelings?!?!?!

Well if there really your friends they should not get mad at you. I would say can I talk to you then tell them do you promise not to get mad at me then say that you are kind of embarrassing and ask them to please stop. And hopefully they will stop. Thats the nicest way you can possibly do it. I'm sure they are just having fun. Just enjoy it but dont let them go over your limit. But have fun. I hope this helps!! Need anymore help I can help. I'm really good at love questions and relationship ones so just ask away. Thanks!!!!

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where do you go and what do you do to rate questions?

Well at the top there is a thing that says give advice click on that and you can rate questions go to this page and see which kinda questions deserve what:

http://www.advicenators.com/faq.php?t=11

copy and paste that on your address bar. I hope this helped.

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