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14/f/ Guy friends and Boyfriends!
Ok. Please don't lecure me on this(i am not sure how you can...)
I am 14/f/ and i have more guy friends than Acutal boyfriends. You see i have never had a bf. i mean guys have asked me, it's not like i am the ugly duckling, but i say no. I don't know if you can really answer this question for me but at least try please.
Why do i keep on saying no? Are guys like scared cause of my guy friends? I really don't know i thought some genious out there somewhere could help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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its perfectly normal to have more guy friends then girl friends i myself do, girls just cause too many issues while guys are more laid back and get to the point. The reason you are probably saying no is because you are nervous and may not be ready to commit to someone for an extended period of time. So just go out on a group date, flirt have fun. You have plenty of time to have a boyfriend. Now the reason somes guys may not be asking is because they may think that your guy friends like/ are with you. Normally guys assume if a guy is friends with you they like you and you are their girl and some guys dont mess with that. But if you would like/feel ready you could go approach a guy you like and ask him out on a date or get one of your guy friends to talk to them for you to figure out if they are interested, but if not as i said above you have plenty of time. GOOD LUCK WITH THE BOYS.
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Well the reason that you are answering no to everyone that asks you out is maybe you are not ready. Maybe you would rather just be friends with them I know what it is like I have more "girl friends" then I do guy friends. Its just easier to talk to them. Its alright to have more guy friends then actual boyfriends its normal. Your just 14 just have fun. And if you find someone that you like get to know them and ask them out go slow and have fun. Hope I helped.
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