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Boy trouble!
This boy that Ive liked for 10 months hasnt talked to me in a long time.We used to talk all the time but now he just ignores me.And whenever he sees me he stares at me for a long time.My sister says that he likes me.What do you think and why?
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Well, maybe ask him to the movies if he'll what to go, or during school you can just sit with him and talk to him about it.
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Mattkinsell327
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okay this is my guess. and i never really realized this could happen until the last guy i had a 'thing' with. he probably likes you back. in my case, the guy stopped talking to me as much blah blah blah. i think he did that because then when he talked to me it was more 'special'. he was a smart kid. when you talk to someone less its more fun when you do actually talk to them. like something to look forward to. same thing with the staring thing. he would stare at me ALL the time. HE DEFINETLY LIKES YOU! and for the talking thing, maybe its not what i said. maybe hes just shy. it could be either. go up to him and start talking to him so he knows youre interested in being his friend...or more! hehe ;)
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There's a lot of different answers to this question, of course, but the few that come to mind for me are these:
He might not be talking to you any more because he wants to ask you out and can't, I'm shy and I know how hard it is. At one point I just kind of froze up and avoided a girl all together for about a month until I finally got over it.
He thinks you're too good for him, or he's too good for you (probably the first).
He's heard something about you from his friends or just random people and thinks it's true and doesn't agree with it.
At any rate, my advice is to just try and talk to him, if he ignores you ask him why he's ignoring you. As cheesy as it sounds, tell him you miss him, like miss talking to him, something like that.
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i think u should just go up to him a see what the promblem is be the biggest person to step up to the problem ((if there is one)) i dont really know if he likes you just because he stares at you maybe he just has something to say to you and dont know how to say it to you mabe he'll pop the question....the question which is WILL YOU BE MY GIRLFRIEND and if not suck up wat he has to tell you but get to the bottom of this... XOXOXO GOSSIPBABE
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As none of us are in your situation and know said guy, it's very difficult to understand why this boy suddenly has started ignoring you. If he liked you, he probably would spend more time trying to talk to you, unless he is more shy and insecure.
Be friendly with this guy, and just go up and talk to him when you notice him staring. He may be staring for any number of reasons - if he looks embarrassed/looks away quickly after you catch him he probably likes you.
The only way to know anything for sure is to talk to him. Be friendly and laid back, start with casual conversation/small talk and see what happens. Only then will you be able to tell if you've done something to make him glarey and avoiding of you, or if he is staring at you because he likes you and is too shy to say anything.
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I think he knows you like him and he doesn't feel the same way but doesn't want to hurt you. If he liked you...he wouldn't ignore you suddenly. Sorry.
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Well ok there is two things he could like you or he could not the Boy might be the shy type or maybe he does not like you and is really ignoring you but if you really do like the boy then walk up to him and say the usual say hey how are you doing then he will say like fine and then start a conversation with him if he does not really talk that much and looks like he is afraid then you can assume that he is the shy type and maybe likes you or not but if he says something just keep on going and ask him maybe we should hang out sometime if he says sure you pretty much knows he likes you. If this did not help sorry but I hope it does.
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well if you sit next to him in school then you can always bring up a subject that both of you are interested in. or if you don't sit next to him then in the hall way you can talk to him. or you could always ask him out, he may at first say yes because he feels bad for you, but after he gets to really know you then he may realize that he does really like you.
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Maybe he does like you and is suddenly shy and doesn't know what to say. I really like this guy and we used to talk all the time before I knew I liked him. Now, I'm so nervous that I don't know what to say. It's not that he's ignoring you, he just may be shy. What I suggest would be you trying to start up a conversation. Then he doesn't have to and it will save him the embarrassment of being tongue-tied.
Good luck sweetie. =]
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